I came late to a more open-minded approach to actually having sex, but during the years that I was ogling men and having huge torrid fantasies about them was I any less of a slut than now when I have gone beyond the fantasies?
I've never understood why having had a high number of sexual partners seems to brand a girl a slut while the same scenario seems to brand a guy as being one of the lads. Surely the number of partners you choose to have, or not have, is a personal choice which shouldn't come with any labels imposed by others.
42
(Cue joke about always having a towel with you...)
Five, because in Roman numerals that's V, and that looks like open legs.
In vanilla life this word is extremely offensive. It is degrading and redolent of a time when women were mere property.
However it can also be a badge of honour to both independent women, submissive partners of either sex.
To the original proposition I would simply say an infinite number...it is what is in your mind that makes a woman beautiful and desirable not what has or has not graced her fanny.
Personally I would not recommend anyone to marry a virgin to the exclusion of any other. There is way too much baggage in that proposal for my liking, itself born of experience.
Anyway no one has been allowed to define me or label me in a relationship without my express consent... and it will stay that way.
To Shoot, who is a really great girl by the way, and not one to be put down either, "A nice stir of the pot, like it".
In my mind there are two nearly opposite meanings for the word "slut."
The good one is when it's used in dirty playfulness, as a turn on to both of you (though I've learned--the hard way--to ask whether my partner finds it offensive or not). It's a reaching out.
The bad one is when it's used hatefully. The number of partners is irrelevant. It's no different than the n-word for black people, the f-word for gay people (both words that can have playful uses too, when used in a loving context). It hates women. It hates people. It's a pushing away. And, perhaps because I have daughters, it makes me very angry when used in that context.
When I lost my virginity at 17 it was to someone my age and they had 13 partners. Didn't bother me at all. When I was 19 I dated a gal my age and she'd had 47 and 49 partners (we broke up for a week and she added one). Again, never bothered me. I haven't bothered to ask a woman how many partners she's had in the last couple decades. History is just that; it's history. Who are you today? Play safe until we both get tested and have the talk, demonstrate appropriate respect for each other, then proceed.
I don't think I've met any sluts, but obviously it varies by definition. I'm not a jealous partner. I've dated women dating other guys and it's never bothered me so long as my needs are getting met and there's respect in the relationship.
i don't know but im sure i passed it a long time ago!
I guess a mere number cant decude it. I think, a lady who wants to sllep with many men is in fact a slut.
Only one, though he's a bit busy these days.
Sluts-to-be will have to wait a short while before I'm done with the tuition of my current sluts.
It only takes one if they're an asshole.
A bitch is someone who won't fuck you.
A slut is someone who will fuck everyone BUT you ;)
The difference between a slut and a whore?? A slut sleeps with everybody, a whore sleeps with everybody but you! Ba bing!!!! Im here all week folks...lol
I think having sex with more people simultaneously surely makes u a slut
All in all a woman who luvs being called a slut ...... Is a real slut
Well said!
