In my previous relationships, before marrying my current wife, it was offered several times, with no follow through. I then had the opportunity about a yr. and half ago, but one of the chicks was getting to clingy so I didn't take the opportunity. Now with my current wife, I know that it is TOTALLY out of the question and I'm okay with that, however I can't lie and say that I would still love to do it.
I would do it again, have in the past with both MFM and FMF...the best partner to bring into a relationship like that is someone you can trust and feel comfortable with...
I think the majority of guys would say yes but only if it was another girl. I think it would be great to try both but it would need to be someone you were both comfortable with and make sure you have clear rules on what is allowed before you try it.
The more the merrier. No hairy legged dudes though. My cock will star in this show.
yes I keep asking her with who that we would have to talk about
Always had the fantasy of eating pussy while being ridden like a donkey!
Would love a Black or Asian woman, something different.
Of all our inventions for mass communication,
pictures still speak the most universally understood language.
Walt Disney I would jump at the opportunity at a FFM threesome. I would also jump at the opportunity to do a MMF as well. I think it would be so erotic to watch my girl with another guy, of course I would be participating too. Just not sure of the feelings afterwards.
Tough one. Really is a tough one. My first gut feeling is that with a second guy there's no fucking chance. With a girl is more likely, although then it's with the understanding that there's no requirment or attempt to guiltrip me into having a mmf threesome.
When it comes to who the ideal person for me at least is someone you're never gonna see again. Helps avoid any suspicions of jealousy like "Will he leave me for her?" etc, but then again, come that you don't know if the stranger is free of any STD's.
My advice; if it's a girl, then agree on a girl where you both feel confident it won't bring any drama to your relationship. It's supposed to be a fun experience, not something that leaves you thinking "The way he fucked that girl. He's never done that with me before." or the other way around. There are several complications that can come from having a threesome after you've done it, unless you're both sure that you're 100% ok with it.
I had a girlfriend ask me if we could have a threesome. She offered her best friend who was really hot. I turned it down because I felt that another woman couldn't give me anything I didnt already get from my girlfriend. We broke up not too long after that and I realize now that she was really just trying to sabotage the relationship. I wish I had said yes, I may have ended up with the friend instead.
I would do it, but it would have to be with another woman first and I honestly think just hearing her ask would signal the death of the relationship.
I think I'd have to know the dude well to do it. Need to be on the same wave length, that and I'd need to know that he was more interested in making sure she cums first not him. If its a girl then I'm all for it as long as the Missus is comfortable with it
My gf would be happy with whomever I chose to have join us as a 3-some or 4-some.
Well, once again, I feel that I can offer a unique opinion, given my orientation and sexual identity. I'm sick of posting a disclaimer so you can just check my profile if you're interested, it'll explain better anyway, but essentially I'm pan, poly and trans (non-op, bio-male).
As somebody who is fundamentally polyamorous, I'm capable of high levels of enthusiasm for several partner events. That said, it has to be done very carefully in the context of an existing relationship, particularly an existing long-term romantic relationship involving only two individuals. Discussion, selection/invitation, execution, and review are all important.
There are two steps to the discussion. "Is it okay, and who are we both interested in?" is the first part. This entails several things, including which sex and gender (yes, they're different) is desirable or acceptable. Also the question of if it should be somebody you both know and care about already (I really can't recommend including somebody who has a relationship with only one partner), or if somebody relatively new (say, somebody you met at a party) should become your cameo or guest star.
The second discussion comes in after the selection and invitation of that individual (which is a delicate process that I'm just going to flat out leave alone), and that's the rules. All three parties have to know the rules, and my best suggestion on that is that ANY one person, at ANY time can announce that they're uncomfortable and the whole thing has to stop right away.
The only thing I have to say about execution, is just play nice. Make sure nobody gets left out. If one person is in the middle, I say to that person, get some attention from behind while you're doing what you're doing to the other one, and then turn around. Everybody move around. If you've done it a few times and you're all getting bored, start teaching each other the things you do which are getting the job done. The best part about three(or more)somes is the learning, as long as everybody's comfortable.
The last thing is review. Talk about it afterward. With your guest star, and then talk about it more when it's just the two of you. You might be surprised the things that can fester in your thoughts when you don't know what's on your partner's mind. You might also be surprised how much damage can be avoided or reversed just by talking to them.
Hope that helped.
Yes, it would be alot of fun to explore that way
Yes. If it was important to her.
That all depends on what she would want to do. I would be ok with it if it was all the normal stuff and she didn't want to see me get fucked or him get fucked if she chose a man. She would definetely have to allow me to have the same opportunity though if she were to chose a man.
I bought here a dildo that can be used for double penetration when on me. She loves it so that takes the 3rd guy out of the equation.
It all depends on who she would want. If she would want another guy she would have to reciprocate and let me have another girl in the mix at some point. For people wise that would be hard to chose.
Depends whether it was two girls or two guys I guess!
I'm pretty sure that if I was asked that the relationships is pretty much over
I would love it. However, I would hope the other person was a female. Im not into Man touching Man thing.
Definatelely a yes but could only if it was FMF.
yes of course especially if it was fmf, but if she really wanted to have a mfm then i'd have to let her have her desires met. ( then it's my turn right)?
Absolutely would and have. I would choose my best friend as I much prefer MMF. Of course my girlfriend would know I'm Bi and would appreciate how the experience went.
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Me and my other half are actually looking for another guy now. For us though its taking quite a while as I'm bi so the other guy needs to be able to give and receive from me too.
Well it would definitely be with another girl, no chance of a boy. Having said that I have been involved in mmf scenarios where the husband usually watched or filmed me having sex with his wife/gf.
My wife wouldn't want to do this but I would love to live out this fantasy.
Yes and whomever my g/f desired so long as she allows me to fill her bare wet pussy
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