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I was just wnodering is there something in the air? Has Jupiter aligned with Mars and caused spiritual and emotional change?

Ive recently been dumped and its hit me hard, my cousin is going through a nasty break up and ive been on my phone now for 4 hours trying to help 3 girls that im friends with in there relationships. My Aunty has not long divorced my Uncle and my closest mate seems to be brainwashed into to loving a women he was with for 2 weeks 6 months ago.

What the hell is going on? Where im from all i hear is thats its a bad time for relationships.... why?

Hope your all doing better than me and the people around me. Please give me some solidarity n tell me something going well.
Its not who i am, but what i do that defines me.
Clumeleon
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The recession. It's always the bloody recession.

It'll get better, though.
Active Ink Slinger
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Buts its everyone, i ask someone and they can name loads of incidencies the same. Its not good.
Its not who i am, but what i do that defines me.
Clumeleon
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What can I say? It's a global recession.

However, I am led to believe the sex industry is doing quite well at the moment. More lonely singletons buying dildos, vibrators and the like? 'Date night' being replaced by top shelf porn and a bottle of lube? We might be on to something here.
Lurker
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Hmm well my relationship with my Marine has been going great. I love him more everyday and we are have been together for 15 months and still havent gotten into a real fight
Lurker
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Mine's going well. It can be a struggle at anytime through out a relationship. Ask yourself "am I better off with him/her or without?" That usually helps clarify things sometimes.
I have to agree that tough monetary times go make it harder on relationships too. Stress is a real cock blocker.
Clumeleon
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On a more serious note (although my point is somewhat valid), while I'm not in a relationship myself at the moment, LOTS of the people in my life are in very good ones.

My sister has a wonderful fiancée; my mum's relationship is currently on the up after hitting a rough patch; my dad's 10-year marriage is as strong as ever. And around 75% of my friends are either in pretty serious relationships or are playing the field successfully.

So it's not all bad.
Lurker
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Mk and I are great! In fact he's almost home for a visit.

I talked to my Mom today, she said things are still wonderful.

Every time I see my Dad, I see how amazing those two are together. Without her, I don't know what we'd all do.

Most of my friends marriages have been improving. But the "just dating" crowd has had lousy luck.
The Linebacker
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I'm a newly wed!!!! It's grrrrrrreat!
Lurker
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I should have thrown in the towel long ago… as it's only getting worse, the longer we limply hold on… but we're pretending things are nifty.
So basically… life sucks, and I'm growing bitter by the moment.

Sorry to disappoint.
Lurker
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Mercury (the planet of communications) is retrograde in Leo at the moment (soon to go direct). That usually makes for lots of communications mis-interpreted or just effed up. (communications meaning included the language(s): cells phones, emails, etc)

Venus (the planet of beauty and female love) is sitting next to Mercury in Leo - lots of showy stuff going on.

Mars (the planet of war and the masculine love) is sitting in Cancer (a feminine sign) making a lot of men whiny and wishing for a real love.

The Sun is shortly going into Virgo, so we will see many of people who are questioning their relationships becoming very analytical and less emotional on their decisions to do with their relationship.

As with everything ..... cycles move, creating change and opportunity.

Hope this helps!
Active Ink Slinger
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Just went through a testing time with the boyfriend, but things are on the mend now and I love him, dammit. Still with the Master after 25 months. As with everything else, love cycles. Good luck to you my friend.
Rookie Scribe
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been with my mrs nearly 3years and i cant express how much i love her!! we do argue alot but and just recently we nearly broke up till she realised she was being stupui. but everything is great. sex is good though its usually on her parents sofa or at mine after sneaking her in.
Empress of the Moon
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So far, so good. Thanks for asking.
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Active Ink Slinger
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I am happy to say that despite the economy, recession, and being unemployed my relationship is going great!!! We have been together almost 2 years and it just gets better and better...........amazing. I am blessed and content!
Active Ink Slinger
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Where's the spirit of "through the good old lean years and through all the inbetween years, come what may" If relationships, (which in my opinion are the most important things on the planet) can't survive stressful times then the relationships aren't worth a damn. That's the whole point of them- support for each other not just a mutual admiration society. Or am I being a reactionary and can't realise just how hard it is nowadays to be only a 1 car family with only 2 tv sets and not one in every room? Recession it's just a cyclic word thought up by the management because they got their sums wrong and want to blame us.
Advanced Wordsmith
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Maybe its the holidays?

People fall in love with the idea of love and get brainwashed.
others, financial issues cause problems and just dont want to do anything for the holidays and break up with people.
I had a friend who broke up with his girl jsut because he was getting overly stressed with christmas.

my relationship is going grea though
"Do you want to live to work or work to live"

"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing"

"Always hold you head up high, never come off weak"

Michael
Advanced Wordsmith
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Mine's going great. Not even any pre wedding jitters
Lurker
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Married ten years, together for fifteen. There are always ups and downs but we are still committed and happy.
Active Ink Slinger
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What's a relation relation relationship.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
Active Ink Slinger
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mine is going nicely and everyone i know seems to be having great, healthy relationships as well.
Advanced Wordsmith
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my love life started wen i was 17 n he was 18, v got physical after 6 yrs of long distance relationship n nw i m in living in with him past 2 yrs n getting married in April ............... all i can say it has been a wonderful relationship n our love is growing more than ever.
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Mines going alright going to be 7 months on the 13th ^_^... Hoping that one day our web cam chats will finally become a real life date. Yeah, I do lose my temper a lot with him but the magical thing is he still stays and says "A lover's frustration is the only thing worth tolerating" which just makes my heart melt and want to be closer to him even more.
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My relationship with my wife is non-existent at the moment. After being married 10 years, I was taken ill for about a year before we discovered that I had a cancer tumour on my kidney. After I had an operation to remove the kidney, my wife just walked out on me, out of the blue with no explanation. After two years, she has still not told me why she left; from the very few things that she has said, she felt that I was not paying her enough attention or appreciated her enough. How I was expected to do that when I was in considerable pain and discomfort, I don’t know. So I have lost the woman that I loved more than life itself. Life, relationships and wives with no empathy suck.
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
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during mercury retrograde ... the past comes and haunts .....

and it's not a great time to start new things ... nor buy any communicative devices .... communications are limited to what you think you are hearing - may not be the real goods.

good luck, kids!
Active Ink Slinger
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i think im thanking god that i dont have one..
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Active Ink Slinger
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Almost 4 years now. It just keeps on rolling!
Active Ink Slinger
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its beein aiight so far ....javascript:insertsmiley('%20','/forum/images/emoticons/angel7.gif')
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Absolutely non-existent in the physical world. Here on Lush I am glad to have some friends I can regularly
talk to