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i asked my ex to watch me while i'm giving him a blow job, he's really turned on that he started bitting his lip and closing his eyes. hahahaha
i guess he can't make an eye contact.
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so true, it's gotta be a sexy look ;-)

Quote by Resident
I guess maybe I'm just too particular?

It's hard for a lot of people to keep their sexiness when their mouth is stretched,
especially when viewed from above. So...I guess if she hasn't mastered how to
meet my eyes with a certain alluring glint in hers, then all I see is something
pretty that's...distorted.

Like looking at someone through fish-eye lenses.

edit:

what I mean is: No. 1 vs No. 2

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Quote by Orgasmic
Ladies, do you like to making eye contact or just watching what you are doing?

Guys, how much eye contact do you like from a woman when she is going down on you? an occasional glance or more?


Both. I like to alternate. I watch what I'm doing through most of it with occasional glances to see if he's really into it. When he's about to come though, I lock eyes with him, and keep eye contact it until he starts coming down.
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love to watch each other,
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I love eye contact, especially when my man is eating me out. I want him to look at me and see in my eyes that I'm enjoying it. However, there will be most of the time when he is too busy looking at my pussy and only giving me occasional glances. But the pure lust in his eyes turns me on.

However when I'm giving him head, I don't think about looking at him. I usually close my eyes and listen to him moan. And mostly I am backwards, my ass towards his head, which usually turns into 69, so it's difficult to look at him in the eyes. I've been thinking about switching it around a little bit. ;)
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I love eye contact when receiving. My missus doesn't do it a lot and I wish she held it a bit more but most of the time its just too damn good to matter.

She hates it when I'm down on her. She says it reminds her of a crocodile and starts singing "never smile at a crocodile" from peter pan.
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If she's giving you eye contact instead of mouth contact, she needs anatomy help. Seriously, I enjoy it all ways, eyes on you, eyes closed, just not that stalker stare, that's spooky.
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I agree, there is nothing more exciting then kneeling before the man you love and your eyes locked with his while sucking his cock, Seeing the passion grow in his eyes as his cock grows harder to my touches. It just makes the fire and desire much more intense for both of us. Seeing words when there are none spoken just complete and total body language.

Okay......is it hot in here now? or is it just me?


second that! He likes eye contact whenever possible.
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my goal is to have the guy enjoy it,that gives me satisfaction. I do like being told to look up,sometimes i look at guy with his eyes closed,a lot of the time eye contact cant be made due to my position.
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I once made eye-contact with the cock I was blowing. Does that count?
Seriously, though, I think eye contact during a blowjob is useless. I don't mind being watched, but I'm attracted to the cock, not the man. Most of the time, they already know that.
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i love to see his eyes roll back in his head when he gets off so hot
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I have a friend who made eye contact durinng a blow job. From what I understand, it burns like mad!
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God! I do so love to watch a man full in his eyes as I make him journey to the pinnacle of sexual heaven. It's even nicer to see his eyes shut as he pumps home his milky cum into my mouth
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Eye contact adds to the excitement and pleasure of oral sex. I love looking into her eyes regardless of who is performing oral on whom?
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Took me ages, even with my husband, to manage eye contact. Silly, but true! Then, I came here. Not as shy, anymore...
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For me sex is connecting with someone, even if it's sometimes only for the deed and not getting engaged tomorrow, I think it's quite valueless if you don't get involved 100 % so YESSSSSSS, eye contact, definitely! Plus, by looking at him you'll perceive more how each rythm and move work for him.
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i like more than an occasional glance during bj.its more exciting that way.
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For me it is a major turn on.The looks show it is more than a bj it is a caring act
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I do love the eye contact, but more importantly her lust for me in her eyes and the enjoyment she is receiving...
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Eye contact is definitely important on both ends of a blowjob. It increases the intimacy for mot of us, there's considerable psychological evidence to suggest that it increases both sensation and arousal in both individuals, and it's just plain hot. Of course, it's normal to close your eyes sometimes or just look at the organ your pleasuring for a while when you're really into it, but the eyes should be involved just as much.

People who don't like to make eye-contact during a blowjob usually have some kind of an emotional or psychological hang up with regards to the act of oral sex in general, either receiving it or performing it. This usually stems from the part of the mind that Carl Jung referred to as the Super-Ego, which is fundamentally the rules and guidelines of social behavior defined by external forces (family, religion, close social circles... sometimes the state) that force, coerce, demand, or in some cases actually deserve your respect.

I realize that's a tremendous simplification of Jung's concepts, but it's the relevant bit for this moment. Please, if anybody has something to add on the subject, do. I always like a good discussion of Jung an Sex. Weird guy. Really into spanking (and no, I'm not just referencing the movie. That was his wife, anyway.)
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for me eye contacts a real turn on
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Eye contact is a definite turn on for both of us. Gotta love the expression on each other's faces as the excitement builds and orgasm washes over him.
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I love it when the man watches me. It's a turn on to know that he's admiring a good blow job.
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I'm sure it is lick, a key to a great blowjob is confidence and if you are happy to give eye contact then you are confident.
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i love to look into my girls eyes,while she is giving me a blow job
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Nothing quite as sexy as seeing in her eyes that she's enjoying herself
Thank you very much!
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I think eye contact during any part of sex is big turn on. If direct eye contact can't be made a mirror is also great.
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In my humble opinion, eye contact during any intimate encounter, especially when giving a blow job, is critical to an amazing experience. I love when he watches me as and I love to see his reactions to whatever I'm doing...so fucking hot! I think so much can be said through one's eyes without the need for words.
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Quote by BelleduJour
In my humble opinion, eye contact during any intimate encounter, especially when giving a blow job, is critical to an amazing experience. I love when he watches me as and I love to see his reactions to whatever I'm doing...so fucking hot! I think so much can be said through one's eyes without the need for words.


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