Quote by Poppet
I have been on Lush for over a year now, I also have over 100 stories and one thing I have learned is, you’re never going to make everyone happy. People who are going to get bent out of shape over a three, two or one, needs to just relax.
Yes, we as authors bust our humps to do well writing and to get a low score sucks. But you know what? Oh well. They just have poor taste in writing. Get over it. Does it matter what they think? The more people read it, the score will go back up to five, eventually. As long as people keep scoring.
I just got a two the other day on one of my stories, it had a perfect five. Now it doesn’t, guess what? I don’t care. Why? Because 45 other people thought it was 5 worthy.
People just need to relax. If it is the same butthole who keeps down-scoring, block them! Also, Lush mods do pretty good at staying on top of jerks who down-score too much.
And, I’m with the others, I like knowing who has scored, so I can thank them. So, suck it up, buttercup. Focus on those who DO like your stories.
This!!!
As a matter of interest, I only do the "Thank you" thing if they leave a comment - if they simply score, I let them be, or if they're on my friends' list, I might IM them if I see them around...
What IS the etiquette for thank yous? (maybe I should start a thread)
Quote by pandadreams
Everyone seems happy with timelines, but the issue seems to be with scoring, the loss of anonymity and it's knock-on effects.
How about, not showing scores until at least 5 are in? You can see if someone scored you, but you wouldn't know who had awarded what. This retains the anonymity of scores, and as no scores are initially shown, maybe there's less incentive to "jump on a bandwagon" - be that a positive or negative one.
And this is also a good idea...
It's simply unrealistic to expect perfect 5s and someone voting you down is (to me) similar to someone jumping in front of you in the queue at the store, or stealing your parking space, or not holding the door open for you, or gossiping about you... Is it rude? Damned right!! Is it a travesty? No, not at all and while it might grind your gears a bit at the time, it really does show them to be an ass...
But it's up to you how you react to it.
If someone doesn't think my story merits a five, then they can choose to vote whatever the hell they want to, if they vote a story down because it was written by me, or they didn't read the tags, or maybe they don't like a friendship of mine, or someone has offended them in a thread or something, then I think that's a really dickish thing to do, but hey... that's just life.
This is the internet, not real life and if we find ourselves getting worked up by the actions of people who aren't worth a second thought, then perhaps it's time to step away from the computer and have a time out...