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Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 3:20:15 PM

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I'm a girl who loves to please her man. I've looked up different techniques to use for when I give bjs, and I am planning to learn pole dancing and lap dancing so I can please whatever guy I end up with in the future. I want to be the best girlfriend I can be for the men I date. So my question to you is....


What is your ideal girl like(personality wise not physically)? What does she do to please you? Does she take charge in the bedroom or is she submissive? Does she do something special for you on a regular basis? :)
icstm
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 3:25:39 PM

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Learning pole of lap dancing to please a guy is not something I would want them to admit to.
If they were good at it, then great - if they took lessons fine. But the idea that they took those lesson for ME, would surely reflect badly on ME.
For a start learning how to fun, should be fun and thus should be with your partner.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 7:23:41 PM

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Well it sounds fun to learn to begin with. I'd love to be able to just be that flexible. I just think it'd also please the guy. If it didn't sound fun to learn though, I wouldn't do it
historyguy
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 8:22:39 PM

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I personally would have to say a strong mind is key for me. Being able to hold an intelligent conversation is something I look for. And I know it sounds cliche but just be yourself
blueonblack
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 8:52:18 PM

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I agree with historyguy. Just be yourself. Plain and simple.
kylie_kained
Posted: Thursday, November 29, 2012 11:12:03 PM

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I Married my ideal girl warts and all for what she is not what I want her to be she's unique.

















Boombabong
Posted: Friday, November 30, 2012 5:43:17 AM

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For me... clever, open minded, submissive in bed with big sexual appetit... that will be my ideal woman (dream...dream dream...lol)
1lush
Posted: Friday, November 30, 2012 8:00:38 AM

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Smart,funny,sexually open, and willing to take the lead and show her naughty side. Willing to take the dog out or get a glass of water to save me the effort.
centillini
Posted: Saturday, December 01, 2012 6:57:28 AM

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For me, I would like a lady out of the sex we share and work toward everything together. In bed she is a switch with being dom and sub, loves to explore uses toys, watches porn, is bisexual and like to see me with a guy as well.
hamz
Posted: Monday, December 03, 2012 6:23:07 PM

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In general, I am attracted to strong (both mentally and physically) females, who can be independent and get things done. Plus if they are open-minded, intellectual who share my interests then even better. On top of that if they have sexy and fit body and a naughty side in the bedroom then that would be my ideal mate!
tryagian
Posted: Monday, December 03, 2012 8:13:29 PM

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First she has to be herself whatever that is because just trying to please me all the time is not good for either of us, love is good and bad, give and take, and not always going to be just good days, have to have a happy medium. want someone who has her own intrests , some that we share but she needs her time too, with her friends or her hobbies or just lone time. some one not afraid to share but also be independant. In bed the same , not afraid to take what she wants and needs and also willing to give and please.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 06, 2012 4:34:54 AM

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nothing in this world is ideal
stickmancqb
Posted: Friday, December 07, 2012 8:22:56 PM

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Please reference JB & THE MOONSHINE Band's Perfect Girl. If you need any more details, I don't think I can give you any.
Sensei
Posted: Friday, December 07, 2012 11:37:57 PM

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I'm going to read between the lines a little here and suggest that you wanting to go down this road suggests to me that you may be submissive in nature. How deep does that willingness to please go? Do you fantasize, for instance, about things like being tied up or spanked?

You might consider heading over to the BDSM sub-forum and reading the BDSM 101 thread, and perhaps some of the BDSM section stories.

Of course, it's entirely possible I'm completely off-base here, and if so, well, never mind. :)


My novel, The Society, is available now in the Kindle Store: http://www.amazon.com/The-Society-ebook/dp/B00BPF9U2I
Guest
Posted: Saturday, December 08, 2012 1:55:27 AM

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Sensei wrote:
I'm going to read between the lines a little here and suggest that you wanting to go down this road suggests to me that you may be submissive in nature. How deep does that willingness to please go? Do you fantasize, for instance, about things like being tied up or spanked?

You might consider heading over to the BDSM sub-forum and reading the BDSM 101 thread, and perhaps some of the BDSM section stories.

Of course, it's entirely possible I'm completely off-base here, and if so, well, never mind. :)


I actually am pretty submissive. I have never been tied up but I have fantasized about it many times and LOVE getting spanked.
HappyEndings
Posted: Saturday, December 08, 2012 4:10:57 AM

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FireAngel12,

Although you look and sound like many men's perfect girl just from what you've said and your pics I'd like to see a woman that is not only submissive but will occaisionally take charge and demand what SHE want's in the bedroom. A submissive side is nice but a dominant side is nice as well... Be versatile... :)

You're certainly on the right track if you want to be every man's dream girl... That's for sure... ;)

Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
elitfromnorth
Posted: Saturday, December 08, 2012 5:20:52 AM

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I'm sure most guys would do their best to hide a smile if you told them that you can poledance, but let's be frank: it's not gonna be something you're always going to be doing. Most important thing is simply enthusiasm and a willingness to explore and push your boundaries.

As far as blowjob techniques then it's not really a dumb thing to learn different things, but there's not really one technique that blows every guys mind. The most important thing is that you're capable of communicating and being open to changing the way you do things. Same way you shouldn't be afraid to say "When you do that it feels good, but what really gets me off is if you..." And so forth.

Make sense? I haven't had coffee yet and I'm hungry.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
Topher07
Posted: Saturday, December 08, 2012 3:15:09 PM

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I actually look for a girl who is volatile and unstable with passion. They have always been the type that make me sit back and think, "Holy shit:d/ "
LesbianForever
Posted: Saturday, December 08, 2012 6:05:59 PM

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5"2', caucasion, Bcup breasts, tiny ass, nice body, medium-long hair. :3
rlf1
Posted: Sunday, December 09, 2012 10:49:50 PM

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I like a woman who is open to new experiences, is slightly submissive but can inflict a little pain during sex. Remember there is no absolute pleasure without subline pain.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 09, 2012 11:23:12 PM

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boobieflash2
FireAngel12 wrote:
Well it sounds fun to learn to begin with. I'd love to be able to just be that flexible. I just think it'd also please the guy. If it didn't sound fun to learn though, I wouldn't do it
seeker4
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 11:31:52 AM

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I'd like someone who's open-minded and has a bit of imagination rather than a raft of tricks an techniques (though having a few of those doesn't hurt, either). Sex, for me, is best when it's a bit playful and there's learning going on for both persons. Trying new fantasies, toy, positions, etc. to see what feels good sort of thing.

Its been a while but I finally got a new story out. Enjoy!

Satisfaction in the Park
the_naked_man
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:52:37 PM

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My ideal girl knows how to please herself, and isn't too picky. I love to make a girl cum, and a girl who's too self-conscious to cum isn't very sexy in my opinion, no matter how well she sucks or fucks me. I like her to be flexible (physically and sexually) and to be able to enjoy all sorts of sexual experiences together. Also, surprise blow jobs are amazing. :)
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2012 8:34:27 PM

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A former girlfriend was always spicing things up. Erotic striptease with her masturbating. Sex on a river bank during a canoe trip. Sex in a hot tub. In her office during work hours. Hotel 20th floor, with the light on and drapes open. I could go on and on, but You get the idea.
badwolf64
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2012 9:55:00 PM

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Hmmm. Same interests help. The abity to make each other laugh. Being friends, when shit hits the fan you need to like each other eniugh to bring back the spark and passion. Oh, and she would look.like Pricess Jasmine... what can i say, im a sucker for the hair and skin color.
clum
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 8:35:28 AM

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My ideal girl cares about and remembers the little things that mean a lot to me. She doesn't necessarily understand why I think things are important but she tries to and she supports me in them as much as she can. Occasionally, she does things she doesn't want to, like hang out with my friends who she doesn't like, because she knows I'll appreciate it.

To please me, all my ideal girl has to do is want to please me; I'll be happy with whatever she does if her heart is in it. She doesn't have to try too hard because our bodies and lives are in rhythm and it all comes naturally. In the bedroom, she goes with the flow, sensing my needs and desires (and I reciprocate); we guide each other with our actions.

All I need on a regular basis is one of those kisses that lets me know she's there for me.

She sounds great, doesn't she?

Every day is a school day.
HereNow
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 4:40:23 PM

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I think Clum is pretty close to it.

My ideal girl is one that not only wants to do things to please, but also wants to be pleased as well. Every relationship needs balance - too much give and not enough take can lead to pent up resentment.

It's as much about the little things in life - a smile when crossing paths in the house, a pat on the back just because - as much as the special occasions.

Good news for me is - I have found mine.
Crapbag123
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 3:54:37 PM

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My girlfriend is as close to my ideal girl as you can get. Just need more sex. When we first got together she was very sexual looking up techniques for blowjobs and such but things have faded a little. She is amazing though. She's far funnier than me so I steal most of her jokes. We play a lot and fight. She's fiery and loves an argument but I'm laid back so we compliment each other well.
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