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cotto2000c
Posted: Sunday, December 02, 2012 4:56:30 PM

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I look at her hair first and then eyes and legs. Obviously her body is being looked at also, but those are are the first things that really catch my eye.
Honorablewolf
Posted: Wednesday, December 05, 2012 11:05:47 PM

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How she holds herself, then her eyes.
Honorablewolf
Posted: Wednesday, December 05, 2012 11:06:34 PM

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How she holds herself, then her eyes.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 06, 2012 4:12:50 AM

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depends on ,is she facing me or not
1lush
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2012 11:37:39 AM

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Smile or eyes.
Dudealicious
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2012 10:10:03 PM

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For me it would be her body language and how she "controls" the room. If she is confident and holds herself well, I notice her (doesn't mean I am attracted to her, but I do have respect for her)

The second thing is a great smile - if she shows a sign of happiness it has a way of drawing me in. We are all way too serious these days - smile and laugh. Life is far too short!

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c50t
Posted: Wednesday, December 12, 2012 10:22:34 PM

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Unless some outstanding feature catches my eye, I don't often take a woman apart at first glance. It's the total being that catches my eye. How does she move? How does she smile? Is she a confident person?
Although, even as I write this, I'm realizing that one of the first things I ALWAYS notice is her voice. I find some voices immediately attractive.
seeker4
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 11:16:11 AM

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First thing I notice? I don't know that there is just one thing. Something needs to stand out but it isn't always the same thing. A particularly pretty face might do it for one woman, nice breasts for another, long dark hair usually does it. Something in how she smiles or greets me in some cases. Even how she dresses; she might not be pretty or have a killer figure, but if she knows how to dress her body for maximum effect, that might do it.

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Thoughful_doug
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 6:03:49 PM

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Facial features - eyes, smile
Jonnymarine
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 7:18:10 PM

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overmykneenow wrote:
To be honest, the very first thing any guy notices about a woman is that she's female. After that it's a checklist of things as to why she WON'T hold your attention rather than the other way around - this is pretty much done in the blink of an eye on a subconscious level.

The more noticeable you are (ie the more skin you show off) the more likely you are to get attention - the sort of attention you get is, of course, in the eye of the beholder.

You may get some responses from men on here saying that a woman's personality is the first thing they notice. Just so you know, these men are all disingenuous liars of the lowest order and cannot in any way be trusted.


I am honestly inclined to disagree with you. It may be hard to believe but there are those of us out there who, when we were looking for a woman (I have one now and I am very happy with her) actually did notice other things besides her body first. Not all men look at women like pieces of meat to be done with as they please... There are those of us, though we are few and far between, who actually like having an intelligent conversation with a woman no matter her appearance. As far as noticing she's a female first in most cases that is rather obvious. I, for one, am rather insulted that you would call anyone who says that he notices a woman's personality before anything else a liar. I think the fact that you notice or know that she is a female is implied in the question so that is a moot point. As far as maybe not being able to tell her personality from a distance, an observant man would be able to look at how she interacts with her friends or other guys who go up to her and be able to tell whether or not she is friendly or a snob.
Delphi
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 8:11:37 PM

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Jonnymarine wrote:

I, for one, am rather insulted that you would call anyone who says that he notices a woman's personality before anything else a liar. I think the fact that you notice or know that she is a female is implied in the question so that is a moot point. As far as maybe not being able to tell her personality from a distance, an observant man would be able to look at how she interacts with her friends or other guys who go up to her and be able to tell whether or not she is friendly or a snob.

You probably could...but how long are you looking at this girl to assess all of that? There are a lot of women in the world. You'd have to have an attraction to something before you set up a stakeout looking for their personality.



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Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 9:05:13 PM

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First thing I notice about a woman are her legs...especially if they are accentuated by a pair of sexy high heels!
Guest
Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 9:13:47 PM

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It has to be their legs. They definitely lead to the promised land.............
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Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 9:38:59 PM

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Posted: Thursday, December 13, 2012 9:40:44 PM

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