Alright, so I am into BDSM. I currently have a Master and He is my first Master who seems to be into "Gag Balls."


My question is. Why are Men, or Master's or Dominants into gag balls?


I see it like. Wouldn't You want to hear the moans and pleasure sounds that females make when You're pleasing them. Or simply having Your ways with them. At least this is how I see it. If I were to be the Dom. I'd want to hear it. Because even being the submissive nothing makes me more turned on then hearing a Man moan while we're having sex. {Of any kind.}


Her Everything

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Does he use it on you every time? If so then that might just be a thing for him, one that elevates it to a new level.

I don't think I'd use a gag ball, I'd probably try something else like a wet pair of panties or something, but that is just for a bit of kink or spice and to try something different, not a must. Hearing her moan is one massive turn on for me, and it's like I can feel myself get one step closer to orgasm just from the moans, so to me the ideal situation is that she screams out(within reason mind you, don't wanna be deaf) whenever we get it on. But maybe if you're really loud the gag changes the sound you make and makes it kinda kinky. FUck if I know. I just know if I'm watching porn to get off on my own I pretty much need to have sound on(in b4 they all fake it)

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No, He doesn't. Because right now it's sort of a hard limit for me. But I have been thinking of going to a softer limit on it if it doesn't become an all the time thing! I want to make Him happy..

I'm the same way with you about the moans. It's a really huge turn on for me to moan and to hear Him moan. It brings me to the orgasm like nothing else. I love it.

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Toys of any kind doesn't mean you're into BDSM.
Handcuffs, ball gags, vibrators, floggers, any of those things can be used just as well in vanilla sex too. To comment like that seems pretty closed minded and not very knowledgeable about sex at all. That is surprising given you're on a plus like Lush.

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Do you talk alot? Maybe he's tired of listening. Dominance not only sexually, but in every aspect. To be honest, I'm not into ball gags and I've never understood it but your question made me think about it. So I guess it was a very good question.

Yes, Because I'm a noisy whore......

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Well, I guess first off I should make it clear that I am in fact a switch. When it comes to me I can be extremely submissive when I’m around or with MY Dom, I do not submit to just anyone or anyone who calls themselves a Dom/Master. I have to have a connection with them to open myself up to submit to Him.

Otherwise I’m naturally Dom-like. Not just in the bedroom but in my everyday life. I like having control but it can and does feel so natural to submit to someone if it feels right. It’s confusing to explain, I guess.

I have known Jamie for a while now. He’s been my dearest friend since joining Lush. Jamie has always been very submissive with me not that I started Doming him right off but he was always so sub-like with me. Since posting this original question about the gag balls, I was with a Master, whom I’m not with anymore. I’ve known Jamie a while and once my Master and I split it kind of just happen for Jamie and I. My ex Master is still a dear friend however.

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No. I have a bad gag reflex if anything is in my mouth for more than a few seconds. It would not be fun for either of us.