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Guest wrote:most the girls I've been with love it when I grab their hips while in the missionary position and pull their ass off the bed, hold their pelvis in the air and bring it towards me as a thrust up and into their pussy. they usually arch their back and push as I do and they usually cum pretty easily as I speed up and grab their ass as I pull them in. This works with the woman I'm seeing now ... and she never had a vaginal orgasm before!
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Fingers to start. I hit the g-spot and she goes off like a rocket in a few minutes. She can have multipuls when she's on top.
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eviotis wrote:Not for nothing but if you or your partner will add a little manual stimulation to the clitoris during intercourse then you may get the wanted outcome.
I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.
Plain straight sex doesn't do it for me no matter the position.  extra stimulation is always welcome! Cowgirl as I've mentioned before doesn't do it - for some reason I don't get as much sensation that way. Bent forward with my legs closed I can't get the manual stimulation but it's still good if I've already err gotten off.
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I must be a bit strange. I need a lot of clit stimulation with a bit of penetration, but it doesn't matter how deep. My G spot is very shallow, only maybe an inch or two in so it's very easy to hit. I have found I cum the hardest and fastest on my back with my legs straight out to the sides I can roll my hips by bending and straightening my knees. I can't cum on top anymore, because my kegel muscles are too strong. When I start to cum I can actually push him out in that position and injured him once. I'm working on getting my muscles to pull in instead of push out and I've done it a few times, but have yet to do it when I'm on top. That's a lot of multi tasking. If you have week kegels then on top would be the better position. An important thing I recently discovered is that you need lubrication between your hood and clit for it to slide back and forth properly when it's rubbed. If you have a tight or long hood this is important. This makes a big difference and is something I never would have thought of on my own. I'm planning on getting a VCH and possibly a triangle piercing and have been researching :) I really like the alternating idea and it probably has the side benefit of postponing his climax too. If anyone has a VCH or triangle I would love to ask some questions.
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The easiest way for me to cum is on top and kind of grind my clit on the guys pubic hair and he's as deep as you can get. So grinding will rub his cock around my inner walls and g- spot.
If he's on top then he has to rest his pubic bone on my clit while he's sliding in and out. The outcomes great.
I find it quite hard to cum just through a guy penetrating me. There needs to be some rubbing!
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Magical_felix wrote:Probably alone with a vibrator while thinking about the person they really want to be with... Heard that works too. yeah this is so true for me - after a long period of bein single i kinda got too used to my vibrator - i feel i need clitoral stimulation to climax...
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eviotis wrote:
I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.
So my hubby, unprompted by me, decided to do this a couple of weeks ago. He has made a habit now of asking when I start to go over the edge and then going down on me. I've had the longest most amazing orgasms of my life over and over. One particular night I came for over an hour straight. There were peaks and plateaus, but it never actually stopped. Afterward it took a long time for the for the electric shocks to stop shooting up my legs, so that I could walk. On a side note of caution. If you ever experience this do not try to eat anything for a good hour after. I got the worst stomach ache later that evening. I really shouldn't have had anything but water until my body had completely settled.
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Having my boyfriend fuck me hard while I fuck him back even harder and have him pull my hair and slap my ass in doggy style gives me more then enough stimulation.
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one of the ways that I cum the hardest is when I'm curled on my side and my husband is holding down my hips while he fucks me. a little back-door teasing while this is happening doesn't hurt, either ;-)
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For me it's either with me on top slowly moving my hips which is great for slower, more meaningful sessions or hard and fast in doggy position.
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I hadn't checked this in a while. Lots of good ideas..thanks guys
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My wife loves squatting on me. A few squats and she cums loads and I just LOVE it when she squirts all over me. She also loves it when I bang against her cervix. :D
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Don't get uptight and worried about it first of all. Relax, and if he doesnt go where it feels good, talk to him or her! Communicate! It doesnt have to be "dirty talk" just moan or scream when it feels really good, so he will get it. Also, do not be afraid to rub your clit while having intercourse...if that does it for you, then do it!
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I find that when the woman is on top she gets more pleasure out of it!!!
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My lover prefers being in charge on top and literally controls the process, 95% of the time she cums before I do, so she is always satisfied and she clearly prefers cuming like that to the extent she "complains" if I try other positions!!. Occasionally I have brought her to orgasm with my fingers and tongue without any penetration. Or I get her to bring herself to orgasm with me just looking on, which I love....  Although she doesn´t do anal at the moment (my fault a while back) she has now got used to me fingering her bud and entering her anus with one finger while she is on top of me. I love that too but unfortunately it makes me cum too quick!!! There have been a few occasions when she has literally forced my finger up her anus, which was a real turn on....I now need to somehow get other "things" up there again...
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I come better and faster if I'm on top, or if it's doggy style. I have more trouble reaching orgasm in the missionary position.
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I find that i come the hardest when i am on my side and my lover stimulates my clitoris while banging hard on my cervix.
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for me depends what mood im in but as long as its ruff ill get off. my fav changes a lot, right now i love when my legs are on his shoulders rubbing my clit or doggy with some hair pulling and spanking ;)
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I find that I always orgasm when I'm on top because I can control exactly what I want to when he's inside me, I can also grind him when I want rather than pull him tighter to me
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Any position that provides more stimulation to my g-spot, then I just cum and cum and cum.
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A lot of great advice in this thread about the physical side of things but here is another aspect. For me it's all about being entirely in the moment, Multiple orgasms require mental discipline of not allowing my conscious mind to distract me with trivia. As soon as I allow my logical brain to kick in the chances of me cumming again drop dramatically. If i release control and allow the physical and sensual side of my nature free reign then OMG. I have been practicing this for years now and generally come multiple times.
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Guest wrote:Not for nothing but if you or your partner will add a little manual stimulation to the clitoris during intercourse then you may get the wanted outcome.
I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off. I can cum in almost any position - sometimes cock-in-pussy is all that is required and sometimes a little bit of manual stimulation via fingers, toy or mouth is needed to send me over the edge. Trick is to play around and see what feels best for you and communicate that to your partner.
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