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passionateman
Posted: Saturday, August 20, 2011 10:51:27 AM

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most the girls I've been with love it when I grab their hips while in the missionary position and pull their ass off the bed, hold their pelvis in the air and bring it towards me as a thrust up and into their pussy. they usually arch their back and push as I do and they usually cum pretty easily as I speed up and grab their ass as I pull them in.


This works with the woman I'm seeing now ... and she never had a vaginal orgasm before!

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NOLANCMike
Posted: Saturday, August 20, 2011 11:10:36 PM

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Fingers to start. I hit the g-spot and she goes off like a rocket in a few minutes. She can have multipuls when she's on top.
Tigeress
Posted: Wednesday, August 24, 2011 2:25:47 AM

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eviotis wrote:
Not for nothing but if you or your partner will add a little manual stimulation to the clitoris during intercourse then you may get the wanted outcome.

I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.



Plain straight sex doesn't do it for me no matter the position. Embarassed extra stimulation is always welcome! Cowgirl as I've mentioned before doesn't do it - for some reason I don't get as much sensation that way. Bent forward with my legs closed I can't get the manual stimulation but it's still good if I've already err gotten off.
PrettyMom
Posted: Wednesday, August 31, 2011 4:50:48 PM

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I must be a bit strange. I need a lot of clit stimulation with a bit of penetration, but it doesn't matter how deep. My G spot is very shallow, only maybe an inch or two in so it's very easy to hit. I have found I cum the hardest and fastest on my back with my legs straight out to the sides I can roll my hips by bending and straightening my knees. I can't cum on top anymore, because my kegel muscles are too strong. When I start to cum I can actually push him out in that position and injured him once. I'm working on getting my muscles to pull in instead of push out and I've done it a few times, but have yet to do it when I'm on top. That's a lot of multi tasking. If you have week kegels then on top would be the better position. An important thing I recently discovered is that you need lubrication between your hood and clit for it to slide back and forth properly when it's rubbed. If you have a tight or long hood this is important. This makes a big difference and is something I never would have thought of on my own. I'm planning on getting a VCH and possibly a triangle piercing and have been researching :) I really like the alternating idea and it probably has the side benefit of postponing his climax too. If anyone has a VCH or triangle I would love to ask some questions.
angelaslater
Posted: Monday, October 17, 2011 3:18:39 AM

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The easiest way for me to cum is on top and kind of grind my clit on the guys pubic hair and he's as deep as you can get. So grinding will rub his cock around my inner walls and g- spot.
If he's on top then he has to rest his pubic bone on my clit while he's sliding in and out. The outcomes great.
I find it quite hard to cum just through a guy penetrating me. There needs to be some rubbing!
peroxideprincess
Posted: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 6:37:25 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
Probably alone with a vibrator while thinking about the person they really want to be with... Heard that works too.


yeah this is so true for me - after a long period of bein single i kinda got too used to my vibrator -
i feel i need clitoral stimulation to climax...

PrettyMom
Posted: Wednesday, October 19, 2011 7:20:31 AM

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eviotis wrote:

I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.


So my hubby, unprompted by me, decided to do this a couple of weeks ago. He has made a habit now of asking when I start to go over the edge and then going down on me. I've had the longest most amazing orgasms of my life over and over. One particular night I came for over an hour straight. There were peaks and plateaus, but it never actually stopped. Afterward it took a long time for the for the electric shocks to stop shooting up my legs, so that I could walk.

On a side note of caution. If you ever experience this do not try to eat anything for a good hour after. I got the worst stomach ache later that evening. I really shouldn't have had anything but water until my body had completely settled.
Torturegoddess666
Posted: Thursday, October 20, 2011 4:54:06 PM

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Having my boyfriend fuck me hard while I fuck him back even harder and have him pull my hair and slap my ass in doggy style gives me more then enough stimulation.
Psyrenity
Posted: Monday, October 24, 2011 9:04:01 PM

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one of the ways that I cum the hardest is when I'm curled on my side and my husband is holding down my hips while he fucks me. a little back-door teasing while this is happening doesn't hurt, either ;-)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, November 27, 2011 3:06:07 AM

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For me it's either with me on top slowly moving my hips which is great for slower, more meaningful sessions or hard and fast in doggy position.
CharlotteRusse1
Posted: Monday, December 05, 2011 9:41:33 PM

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I hadn't checked this in a while. Lots of good ideas..thanks guys

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, December 06, 2011 12:31:57 AM

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My wife loves squatting on me. A few squats and she cums loads and I just LOVE it when she squirts all over me. She also loves it when I bang against her cervix. :D
PlayfulPyper
Posted: Saturday, December 10, 2011 9:40:08 PM

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Don't get uptight and worried about it first of all. Relax, and if he doesnt go where it feels good, talk to him or her! Communicate! It doesnt have to be "dirty talk" just moan or scream when it feels really good, so he will get it. Also, do not be afraid to rub your clit while having intercourse...if that does it for you, then do it!
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 17, 2012 3:04:20 PM

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I find that when the woman is on top she gets more pleasure out of it!!!
Devon83
Posted: Thursday, March 22, 2012 10:27:34 AM

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My lover prefers being in charge on top and literally controls the process, 95% of the time she cums before I do, so she is always satisfied and she clearly prefers cuming like that to the extent she "complains" if I try other positions!!. Occasionally I have brought her to orgasm with my fingers and tongue without any penetration. Or I get her to bring herself to orgasm with me just looking on, which I love....evil4
Although she doesn´t do anal at the moment (my fault a while back) she has now got used to me fingering her bud and entering her anus with one finger while she is on top of me. I love that too but unfortunately it makes me cum too quick!!! There have been a few occasions when she has literally forced my finger up her anus, which was a real turn on....I now need to somehow get other "things" up there again...
Ruthie
Posted: Monday, March 26, 2012 11:00:32 PM

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I come better and faster if I'm on top, or if it's doggy style. I have more trouble reaching orgasm in the missionary position.
everwet
Posted: Wednesday, November 28, 2012 12:26:45 AM

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I find that i come the hardest when i am on my side and my lover stimulates my clitoris while banging hard on my cervix.
lovelykrys24
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 11:15:44 AM

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for me depends what mood im in but as long as its ruff ill get off. my fav changes a lot, right now i love when my legs are on his shoulders rubbing my clit or doggy with some hair pulling and spanking ;)
Guest
Posted: Friday, December 21, 2012 9:49:18 PM

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I find that I always orgasm when I'm on top because I can control exactly what I want to when he's inside me, I can also grind him when I want rather than pull him tighter to me
freakycactus
Posted: Monday, December 24, 2012 7:44:33 AM

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Any position that provides more stimulation to my g-spot, then I just cum and cum and cum.

SuccubusDreams
Posted: Tuesday, May 14, 2013 5:36:41 PM

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A lot of great advice in this thread about the physical side of things but here is another aspect. For me it's all about being entirely in the moment, Multiple orgasms require mental discipline of not allowing my conscious mind to distract me with trivia. As soon as I allow my logical brain to kick in the chances of me cumming again drop dramatically. If i release control and allow the physical and sensual side of my nature free reign then OMG. I have been practicing this for years now and generally come multiple times.

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough."- Mae West


BelleduJour
Posted: Wednesday, May 15, 2013 10:19:59 PM

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Guest wrote:
Not for nothing but if you or your partner will add a little manual stimulation to the clitoris during intercourse then you may get the wanted outcome.

I always like, vaginal penetration, then swoop down and add a little oral, then penetration then oral...and so on. Don't be shy and tell each other what truly gets you off.


I can cum in almost any position - sometimes cock-in-pussy is all that is required and sometimes a little bit of manual stimulation via fingers, toy or mouth is needed to send me over the edge. Trick is to play around and see what feels best for you and communicate that to your partner.

Amyyyyy
Posted: Saturday, June 22, 2013 3:27:22 PM

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I usually find that I orgasm when in doggy or cowgirl! I also find that when I'm against the wall with deeper penetration its the best. I know from speaking to friends most find it very difficult to climax through penetration alone and need clitoral stimulation as well
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 22, 2013 3:44:11 PM

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When I'm riding his cock for sure.
CirceWand
Posted: Monday, July 29, 2013 3:20:59 PM

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For me it's not so much the position as the duration. He loves playing with me, so I have great orgasms, but they build and build until eventually I am so wired that literally one kiss can get me orgasming. It takes a couple of hours alternating playfulness and seriousness until we've built the intensity, but once there, it's completely awesome. I literally still feeling the aftershocks the next day - little involuntary shudders of pleasure. And this from someone who could previously only achieve multiple orgasms by playing with myself!

theallegorist
Posted: Tuesday, July 30, 2013 12:32:35 AM

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Deep penetration with stimulation of the g-spot and the clitoris. You have to be aware of your sensitive spots as well. By having said that, it helps build the intensity of the orgasm.
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