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ok, i have a boyfriend, and a lesbian lover but neither of them want to have a threesome... i really want one as both sexes turn me on. is it wrong to want one even though they don't? help meeee
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no, wanting a threesome is not wrong; I would love to have a threesome with two women; but I suppose you need a lot of trust and maturity I would suppose; to do it successfully and enjoy it;never managed to find two women who would like a threesome; Il ook forward to it!
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No, it's not wrong to want a threesome. I've had a few. Have your bf and les lover met? If not, I can see why they are reluctant. They may be more open to a threesome if they know each other.
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for a girl.. 3somes are easy.. talk to your bf if he is ok with it.. I am sure there are a 1000 couples out there who are looking for a nice third to come join them.. :-)
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I have been in a few MMF threesomes, but never with two women, came close once. Nothing wrong with you at all, if you have the right people its incredible.. good luck on your search!
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Redhead1993 wrote:ok, i have a boyfriend, and a lesbian lover but neither of them want to have a threesome... i really want one as both sexes turn me on. is it wrong to want one even though they don't? help meeee It's "wrong" of you not to respect either of your partners' wishes. It sounds like they both have no interest in having sex with the other party, so the whole thing will basically be an exercise in you being watched having sex by your other partner. Lots of fun for you, not so much for everyone else. You appear to be getting away with having two partners anyway - don't push your luck
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It's not wrong, you just have the wrong group. Do both of them not want to have it or do they just not want to do it with the other? Maybe you have to change one of them out and the results will change.
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randomlover wrote:I have been in a few MMF threesomes, but never with two women, came close once. Nothing wrong with you at all, if you have the right people its incredible.. good luck on your search! I concur.
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Just be careful I am assuming this is in real life. Make sure you trust the ppl you are with and don't be disappointed if it doesn't turn out like you think it may it doesn't sometimes. Other than that good luck and have fun with it. I absolutely don't think you are wrong about wanting to explore!!!!!! I have had 2 one fff and one mfm the mfm was a disappointment like they had won a prize. the other was unbelievably exciting.
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 3 ppp or ffm or mmf r just the cats whiskers done in a mutual enviroment can be very stimulating go for it girl good luck enjoy?
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I feel your pain. I'm just two girls away from a threesome, myself.
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It's pretty natural that you would want to explore the best of both worlds most guys would give their right arm just to be in the situation
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been there mfm fmf its ok to want to explore however make sure you are honest about the whole experience with your 2 lovers if you want to go outside of the relationship.
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I don't understand your boyfriends point of view, you'd be my dream girl 
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More than happy to help - pm me! ;-)
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I've had threesomes MMF and FFM, not forgetting FFF but they all shared one thing in common and that's trust. I could never have a threesome with two strangers, it's so different to a one night stand, it can be two against one which can put you in a vulnerable position. You should get three of you together to discuss it if you can but you need to repeat their wishes, witnessing someone you care about being shared is hard for some people to deal with.
But please don't become so obsessed you organise it with two people you don't know or trust x
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