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Posted: Sunday, December 16, 2012 6:57:32 PM

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CurlyGirly
Posted: Sunday, December 16, 2012 7:11:00 PM

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Looking_to_Explore wrote:
I have always wanted to get treated like a bad boy from a woman. Have you ladies ever wanted to take control of a man and degrade him? Ever wanted to spank a guy, be the boss, fuck him with a strap on, and force him to cum where ever you wish?


No. I wouldn't degrade my partner, and I'm not into being degraded.

The other stuff doesn't really interest me very much.



It won a potato. Aren't you intrigued?



TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Sunday, December 16, 2012 7:37:18 PM

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Location: I'm the girl that your father hoped he could date.
I have flipped the tables on my partner once or twice. Tied him up and told him what to do instead of the other way around.
I'm not quite sure how that would be degrading though. None of what you listed is really something I would call degrading.
I took control and "had my way with him" just for a bit of a change.
It's not something I'd do often, but when I did... it was a lot of fun and we both thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. drunken

sexyblonde91
Posted: Sunday, December 16, 2012 8:21:18 PM

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One time before the guy i was with didnt want to have sex a second time so i held him down by his ankles and took what i wanted...he gave in eventually :)
kinkitten
Posted: Monday, December 17, 2012 7:04:17 AM

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you should really check out the bdsm lifestyle forum- you'll get your answer there :)

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/milf/the-neighbors-boy-1.aspx
bustyreadhead
Posted: Monday, December 17, 2012 3:19:38 PM

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i would say yes to this, except i don't think of that being "his own medicine."
BelleduJour
Posted: Monday, December 17, 2012 10:45:44 PM

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Frank
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 3:28:02 AM

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lafayettemister
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 6:52:16 AM

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Looking_to_Explore wrote:
I have always wanted to get treated like a bad boy from a woman. Have you ladies ever wanted to take control of a man and degrade him? Ever wanted to spank a guy, be the boss, fuck him with a strap on, and force him to cum where ever you wish?


A woman taking control and "making" me fuck her the way she wanted or face fucking me... Two Thumbs Up! Is that degrading? No. Playful spanking and having fun, playing roles where she's "the boss"... great. Fucking me with a strap-on... Not in this life time.. Forcing me to cum where she wishes... I'm down with that.

Like TDW said, it's not something I'd want to do often but every now and then it would be fun. Same as the other way around, not often, but occassionally.





When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
benjam
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 7:05:03 AM

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sexyblonde91 wrote:
One time before the guy i was with didnt want to have sex a second time so i held him down by his ankles and took what i wanted...he gave in eventually :)


thats not nice!
freakycactus
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 7:06:08 AM

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I've tried it in the past and I have no interest in doing it again. I barely had any interest in it when I was doing it, but I'm a sub not a domme or a switch.

As someone else suggested, try the BDSM section.

benjam
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 7:07:51 AM

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bustyreadhead wrote:
i would say yes to this, except i don't think of that being "his own medicine."


own medicine might be referring to his cum!ha
Americanheart
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 5:10:17 PM

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it depends on what he did. for sure i would

HappyEndings
Posted: Tuesday, December 18, 2012 7:05:16 PM

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I once dated a woman a few times that seemed very interested in me but every time I tried to get her turned on she seemed kind of bored.

I finally told her that I felt like I couldn't make a connection with her and she said.... <drum roll>.............

"You are like all the other guys that automatically assume that all women want to be dominated and I believe that men are a bunch of pussies and that women should dominate men".

I made the mistake of telling her that women cultivated that and that I found it to be true despite her belief to the contrary...

She got pretty mad and challenged me to let her do as she wanted with me as long as she left me with no marks or serious injury... Holy crap Batman!!! LOL

I guess the best way to describe the outcum was that I got screwed, blewed, and tatooed and ate a pretty big plate of crow before it was all over but I admit that it was a hell of a lot of fun and I returned for a few more visits before she started getting too rough and started showing me her "dark side" that seemed almost evil to me. No telling where it or I would have ended up if I hadn't turned chicken and quit answering her calls...

I think that if you want to really be open to sex and enjoy it fully, you need to try a lot of different things and I think I can say I've been there and tried that to most stuff I've been fortunate enough to encounter. Sex can be a multifaceted and intensely pleasurable experience if you let your inhibitions go and accept that consenting adults can find a LOT of different ways to explore each other's bodies and minds and still keep it fairly safe and fun.

Sooooo.... To answer the question.... YES!!! I'm down with that.... ;)

Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
benjam
Posted: Thursday, December 20, 2012 7:00:18 AM

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lhb1989 wrote:
it depends on what he did. for sure i would


you wish you could do it
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Thursday, December 20, 2012 9:19:28 AM

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I have limited experience with this, but yes, I enjoy a switch in power play now and then, depending on whether the guy is into it. Some are, but many aren't.

It's just another variation of role-play and thus what may be considered 'degrading' sexually has no bearing on your non-sexual relationship. The same goes for women who enjoy rougher/degrading sex. Sex is sex. It's not necessarily a reflection of anything other than exploring and sometimes testing the limits of consensual pleasure.




benjam
Posted: Sunday, December 30, 2012 7:33:33 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
I have limited experience with this, but yes, I enjoy a switch in power play now and then, depending on whether the guy is into it. Some are, but many aren't.

It's just another variation of role-play and thus what may be considered 'degrading' sexually has no bearing on your non-sexual relationship. The same goes for women who enjoy rougher/degrading sex. Sex is sex. It's not necessarily a reflection of anything other than exploring and sometimes testing the limits of consensual pleasure.



id let you do what you wanted with me..... ;)
Dudealicious
Posted: Monday, December 31, 2012 6:39:30 AM

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benjam wrote:


id let you do what you wanted with me..... ;)


Whoa, that doesn't sound desperate at all. Plus DD is no cyberwhore! evil5

The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker

Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, December 31, 2012 7:38:01 AM

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benjam wrote:


id let you do what you wanted with me..... ;)



Take a number. The line forms to the left. clown




lol... kidding. I'll take it as a compliment.


willtry6969
Posted: Monday, December 31, 2012 9:49:29 AM

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My wife would every now and then change roles with me. It was awesome fun. I always cum so hard when she takes what she wants! dancenude
benjam
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 8:39:15 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:



Take a number. The line forms to the left. clown




lol... kidding. I'll take it as a compliment.


good hope you did ha
WellMadeMale
Posted: Tuesday, January 22, 2013 10:46:33 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:

Take a number. The line forms to the left. clown


That's a good look for you, DD


If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 22, 2013 12:23:43 PM

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One of the reasons I started misbehavin' (years ago) was because a steamy guy at work thought he knew all about women and seduction. (He was sexy and I wanted him, but his attitude pissed me off) I decided he needed to have his "perspective" adjusted. I took control and never let him have it back. No complaints from him so far.
benjam
Posted: Tuesday, February 26, 2013 8:17:26 PM

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bustyreadhead wrote:
i would say yes to this, except i don't think of that being "his own medicine."


what would it be then.....
Dani
Posted: Tuesday, February 26, 2013 8:38:25 PM

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It's fun for role play, but I'm not into the whole degradation thing. But flipping the script, tying him up, getting a bit rough...I'm all for it. But I'd never want to degrade my guy. Everything about that turns me off.



Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

Kimasa
Posted: Wednesday, February 27, 2013 7:47:03 AM

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Looking_to_Explore wrote:
I have always wanted to get treated like a bad boy from a woman. Have you ladies ever wanted to take control of a man and degrade him? Ever wanted to spank a guy, be the boss, fuck him with a strap on, and force him to cum where ever you wish?


No to all scenarios listed

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
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