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I have been with my fiance for 3 years and we are looking for some new things to try in the bedroom, but we have hit a block and can't come up with anything. Any suggestions?
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Have the two of you tried making love?
I don't mean wild fucking while rotating on the fan blades or the like, but rather being for each-other emotionally and completely and caring deeply.
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The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
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yes but when we do go wild we want to have something new to try
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Two words: Anal hook.
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Have you tried role playing, or acting out each others fantasies?
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There are hundreds of ways to spice up your sex life, just depends on how open and willing you both are. Does kink interest you? BDSM? Role playing? There are scads of books and videos you can purchase that will give you lots of great ideas - I have a number of them myself and refer to them often when I'm looking for new inspiration. Just looking for general ideas? Take a look at books by Laura Corn http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1/191-0868344-1000667?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=laura+corn. I have used all of her books and they have been a great source of fun over the years.
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each of you write down a bunch of sexual acts you want to try, don't show each other. Then pick a night where you will one act she had put down, wether that be a location or a position, or an outfit, what ever and you do it for her. then on another night she does the same for you. Then as you do them cross them off the list.
We do this all the time and it has been amazing more then a few times.
Note. it helps to know your partners bounderies, and limitations. Writing down anal sex when you know she is dead against it will end badly. it also helps to keep a very open mind about everything.
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What have you tried and what things have each of you enjoyed the most?
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naughty-ltl-grl wrote:I have been with my fiance for 3 years and we are looking for some new things to try in the bedroom, but we have hit a block and can't come up with anything. Any suggestions?
Would be helpful to know what you have already done or tried. And of the things you've tried, which did you like more and which did you like less?
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates
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try light bondage requires trust on both sides and maybe learn things about each other you didnt know
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I would recommend anal subbuteo
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role playing, or acting out each others fantasies once a month `get into it build yourself up for it x
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I'd suggest actively researching new ideas together. I can't believe you've tried them all
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Have you ever had your ass licked, or licked your guy's ass?
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try looking into different fetishes, like feet/ foot play for example.
try them out, and if you like them, continue with them.
just remember to always play safe, and with rougher stuff use pre-set guidelines and safe words/ gestures.
another suggestion would be to add a 3rd party.
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Your on one of the worlds greatest research devices why not use it and then see what comes up.
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A picture book helped my girl and I a lot.
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Sperminator wrote:Have you ever had your ass licked, or licked your guy's ass? Yes do this. you will not regret it.
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strip clubs, sexy lingerie or a weekend away to a place you don't know anyone and act like a couple that are the opposite of how you are in your real life, let your freak flags fly
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You could try doing it while riding a motorcycle. But it has to be a Harley because they vibrate much more than any other bike. I have a lady friend who tried this one time (she claims it was with Reggie Jackson) and said it was a fantastic experience. The guy rides the bike normally and the gal straddles him facing him. If the gal is wearing a skirt nobody can actually see that she is getting fucked although I presume they might be able to figure it out.
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I think you are feeling bore because you are with same guy since last three years. I suggest to try threesome or swinging. Onsite communities may be helpful to find like minded couples.
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Take turns dripping candle wax upon each others starfish.
 The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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