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lafayettemister
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 9:50:18 AM

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Like a roommate or a friend? Is there an added thrill using someone else's toy? Or is that bad form/unsanitary?





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Nikki703
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 10:01:27 AM

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When I was a teen, Me and my best friend used her mom's dildo. There was most definitely something very naughty and exciting about it. But as an adult, never.
doubledutch
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 10:10:06 AM

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I have never done that no. But I have a sneak feeling it has happened to one of my toys.

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blazestcyr
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 10:18:15 AM

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no... nor would i ever..
ginger86
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 5:58:56 PM

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without her knowledge i have never even seen another girls toys so guess that's a no.

emersonbosworth
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 6:39:38 PM

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I use my wifes viberator some times when she's not.
TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 7:07:13 PM

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Seriously? My toys are like my toothbrush. Not to be used on others!
That's mine and mine alone. I would be so pissed if it happened to me.

And yes... I DID find out my room mate used mine... I sent them to her by FedEx to her new apartment.
I told her it was her housewarming gift. evil4

Dirty_D
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 9:17:35 PM

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My ex gave mine to his new gf when he left. I absolutely will not share mine!


BelleduJour
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 9:31:23 PM

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No touchy Shame on you

midniteman
Posted: Friday, January 11, 2013 10:53:22 PM

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well i did use my sisters vib on my old g/friend.
Aletheia
Posted: Saturday, January 12, 2013 1:33:44 AM

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No! That would be such a violation of trust. I've only ever used a friend's toys while we were playing together.
crazydiamond
Posted: Saturday, January 12, 2013 1:41:28 AM

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No that's just gross, it's unsanitary! Not so much that they are dirty but, there are things you just don't share.
To me, it would be like getting in someone else's dirty bath water.

navygal83
Posted: Sunday, January 13, 2013 6:39:10 AM

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I have never used another woman's toys myself, even as a teenager. With that being said, I can understand some women wanting their toys only for themselves, because sex toys by their nature are very personal possessions. I, however, am a bit disappointed by the number of fellow women who think it's gross to share them because it's unsanitary. As long as you clean them with an alcohol based toy cleaner or a mild detergent, you shouldn't be concerned at all with sharing your toys (especially with a lover) over sanitary reasons. We're not afraid to lick, kiss or suck our lover's most intimate parts (namely pussies, cocks, nipples) so why should we be concerned about sharing sex toys. As a woman, I definitely don't think my pussy is gross and don't ever hesitate to touch my pussy over fear that doing so is "because my that area of my body is dirty".
On another note, I suspect my younger sister may have found and used one of my toys a few years ago while i was staying at my parent's house (visiting). I never approached her about it though. I just cleaned the toy before I used it on myself and never confronted her about using my sex toy. I have a few secrets I'm keeping from her, and I'll let her think she has at least one of her own.
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Posted: Sunday, January 13, 2013 11:09:46 PM

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no i have never
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Posted: Sunday, January 13, 2013 11:23:58 PM

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Bad form, unsanitary, disgusting, reprehensible, violation, there are not enough words.....
crazydiamond
Posted: Sunday, January 13, 2013 11:33:14 PM

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navygal83 wrote:
I have never used another woman's toys myself, even as a teenager. With that being said, I can understand some women wanting their toys only for themselves, because sex toys by their nature are very personal possessions. I, however, am a bit disappointed by the number of fellow women who think it's gross to share them because it's unsanitary. As long as you clean them with an alcohol based toy cleaner or a mild detergent, you shouldn't be concerned at all with sharing your toys (especially with a lover) over sanitary reasons. We're not afraid to lick, kiss or suck our lover's most intimate parts (namely pussies, cocks, nipples) so why should we be concerned about sharing sex toys. As a woman, I definitely don't think my pussy is gross and don't ever hesitate to touch my pussy over fear that doing so is "because my that area of my body is dirty".
On another note, I suspect my younger sister may have found and used one of my toys a few years ago while i was staying at my parent's house (visiting). I never approached her about it though. I just cleaned the toy before I used it on myself and never confronted her about using my sex toy. I have a few secrets I'm keeping from her, and I'll let her think she has at least one of her own.


The OP never said "lover" he said room mate or friend, there is a difference in levels of intimacy shared there.
I don't think any woman here would refer to thier pussy as gross or dirty! That seems like a very old fashioned set of beliefs, they just don't want to share their intimate toys. To each his own, i'm still not sharing.

Nikki703
Posted: Monday, January 14, 2013 8:36:10 AM

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crazydiamond wrote:


The OP never said "lover" he said room mate or friend, there is a difference in levels of intimacy shared there.
I don't think any woman here would refer to thier pussy as gross or dirty! That seems like a very old fashioned set of beliefs, they just don't want to share their intimate toys. To each his own, i'm still not sharing.


I agree. Like I already said, when I was a teen me and my best friend took her moms dildo and tried it. We did not clean it first, were just so excited about using a dildo for the first time we didnt think of any consequences(except her mom finding out) or being sanitary. But as an adult, I wouldnt use a sex toy that belonged to someone I was not already intimate with. And its not that I would be really worried about catching something but more out of respect. They are very personal items.
navygal83
Posted: Monday, January 14, 2013 9:38:09 AM

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I was merely suggesting that I didn't like the underlying implied connotation that toys should not be shared because of sanitary reasons as long as they're cleaned after use. Maybe I took it the wrong way but when someone says "ewww that is gross", because that is how I would interpret that. I'm not dispelling the fact they're personal items, because they are indeed VERY personal. I know the OP mentioned roomie or friend as far as using others' toys. For that matter, I won't be sharing my toys with anyone who i'm not intimate with. As crazydiamond said, to each his own. We all have the free will to do as we wish, and then either reap the rewards or consequences of our actions.
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Posted: Monday, January 14, 2013 12:31:52 PM

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In the scenario set out by the original question I would have to go through her personal belongings without her knowledge or consent to find her toys in the first place, I would then be using her toys under the same circumstances.

Those being: Dishonest, deceitful, disrespectful and it's also borrowing something without permission which is equal to theft in my opinion

So be it sex toys or any other item of someone else’s private property my answer would be…

No… never


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Posted: Monday, January 14, 2013 12:54:07 PM

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Kimasa wrote:
In the scenario set out by the original question I would have to go through her personal belongings without her knowledge or consent to find her toys in the first place, I would then be using her toys under the same circumstances.

Those being: Dishonest, deceitful, disrespectful and it's also borrowing something without permission which is equal to theft in my opinion

So be it sex toys or any other item of someone else’s private property my answer would be…

No… never


this says it perfectly. i use my wife's toys, and she uses mine, but there is consent there.

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Posted: Monday, January 14, 2013 1:02:48 PM

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never
WellMadeMale
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 4:38:22 PM

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emersonbosworth wrote:
I use my wifes viberator some times when she's not.




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Buz
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 8:08:54 PM

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NO, they always say yes.

Be warned I may show up at your place, knock on your door and ask, "May I use your sex toys?"

You will say YES!

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Hotghirl
Posted: Sunday, September 01, 2013 9:46:47 AM

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OMG yes! I've borrowed my sisters more than once! I have always cleaned it though before returning! And no, she doesn't know or will never know! I've also caught my old flat mate at uni using one of mines! She borrowed mine so often that when it came to moving she ended up taking it! Come to think of it she never did buy me the new one she promised!!! x

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