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Rokstar
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 5:00:50 AM

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My wife would like for me to start talking dirty to her when we are doing the dirty. As I have never been that vocal during sex, I was wondering if you guys could help me out with some things to say
blazestcyr
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 7:58:06 AM

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i love dirty talk...

just voice what YOU are thinking

oh...i love when your...does...that..and...yes...put that...in....(ps fill in where the dots are)

see..she just wants to HEAR that you are feeling what she is

hot intense lovely sex

happy talking sugar!!!
VanGogh
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 11:05:40 AM

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I have always been surprised when I have heard my male friends say to me "Suzy doesn't talk dirty ... it's just ooooh ... ahhhhh ... screaming". I always take notes ... sometimes those whispered "fuck me baby .... make me your cumslut" is just the ticket to that push over the edge ... into a blissful mess!

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Guest
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 12:25:51 PM

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I am not as vocal as my husband might like either! However this mainly because I am screaming out my pleasure and have no air left for dirty talk! Still I manage to do some and he says I have started with some of the more chaste things to say! My advice is to start slowly and increase more when you become more comfortable!
crazydiamond
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 12:42:49 PM

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Rokstar wrote:
My wife would like for me to start talking dirty to her when we are doing the dirty. As I have never been that vocal during sex, I was wondering if you guys could help me out with some things to say


Have a read of the link below, decide what level of dirty talk you think is appropriate for you and your partner, then just try it. bunny

How to talk dirty: 50 examples

Yoshimoto
Posted: Thursday, January 17, 2013 2:51:13 PM

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I want my boyfriend to talk nasty sht, but he just aint capable of doing two diff things at the same time :D






Butterfly4629
Posted: Sunday, January 20, 2013 4:57:29 PM

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I LOVE talking dirty and so does my husband. It gets me so worked up. I feel so alive and ready for anything.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, January 20, 2013 6:32:16 PM

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My wife loves it when I talk dirty, especially if I throw in naughty fantasies, like her with a college girl, or with a young black guy with a big cock......it totally revs her up, and then she'll start to get into it herself......she'll say "will you watch?", or "I want her to go down on me"...
AnythingG0es
Posted: Sunday, January 20, 2013 6:55:05 PM

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It's a state of mind, if you are not in the right mind set it will just sound stupid.

The other night I was having sex with my GF and I was feeling it and the truth is she was not. I was starting to talk all nice and dirty when I said to her.

"You like daddy's big cock between your tits don't you slut?" Now that I am not in the mood, it is the stupidest sounding comment ever and seeing as she was in the mood for sex but not for dirty talk well she laughed her ass off and told me to stop talking and that I was ruining the mood.

Now on a night where she was more into it. she would have said something along the lines of. "Yes Daddy titty fuck your little slutty girl, and make her yours all yours." Well you get my drift. I read someone say for you two to just say what's on your mind this is good, and as you go just push the limits a little say things that are a step dirtier then normal.

Hope you get there and please give us a play by play. lol
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Sunday, January 20, 2013 8:24:43 PM

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As others have said - it has to be in the moment. You don't want to memorize a bunch of things to randomly spout off. A lot of the impact and hotness-factor is in the way you say it. And it usually occurs when we shut down the inhibited overthinking part of our brains and verbalize our instincts and urges. You don't want to be thinking about what to say or what the right words are... when something comes into your mind (whether it's the way something feels or what you want her to do or what you're going to do to her) just say it. When the thought enters your mind, let it come out of your mouth. Even if you start by saying what she looks like, feels like, smells like to you. Get creative. Sat it hotly, with your mouth against her ear while your fingers are inside her. Bite and suck her neck. Be intense. The thoughts/ideas/words should follow naturally.


Guest
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 6:03:10 AM

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Yes I do. But like others said, it has to be fitting for the moment. In the bedroom it MUST be relevant to the mood or action taking place.

However.... I do love to come up behind my wife in public and whisper some random "hotness". It always gets her excited. Then a wink, or a smile now and again after that is enough to keep the energy flowing. :)
BelleduJour
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 6:24:13 AM

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Oh yes, LOVE a bit of dirty talk but there is definitely a time and place and mood that needs to be set in order for it be as exciting and fulfilling as it can be.

loveslegs
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 7:14:33 AM

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Something I have found to work is to vocalize one of your partners fantasies during the 'dirty' as you put it. If for example she likes to be watched you could tell her something like 'close your eyes and imagive someone is watching us fuck' etc etc

And if you run out of ideas, just watch some porn evil4
ShyVixen
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 7:17:38 AM

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There is always a time and a place. If your insync with your partner, you'll know when it's time to get dirty. I enjoy being tempted and pleasured by his words alone. A little bit of naughtiness can go a long way.
BallChinian
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 7:21:31 AM

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crazydiamond wrote:


Have a read of the link below, decide what level of dirty talk you think is appropriate for you and your partner, then just try it. bunny

How to talk dirty: 50 examples


This is a good how-to. I wonder if she will mind when I tape the printed page of the article to my head board for inspiration. :-)

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Guest
Posted: Monday, January 21, 2013 7:54:12 AM

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There are times when the wife loves me to talk dirty,(and I can do it so well!), other times when its more romantic and she just wants to know how beautiful she is and that I love her.
I love it when a woman talks dirty to me, but my wife is usually screaming. The biggest turn on is when I'm about to cum and she can tell and says something like. "Oh god yes, cum! I want to feel it inside me! That puts me over the edge....

Its also good when we are out and about and she whispers sweet and dirty nothings in my ear.

In regards to what to say to your wife, ask her. She told you she would like it. Sit down and ask her what would turn her on. It will probably turn her on talking about it and... just think of it as foreplay.
c50t
Posted: Tuesday, January 22, 2013 5:42:25 PM

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Huge turn on for me. I tend to be the vocal one in our relationship, and she has ... more reservations. One of the ideas that has helped my wife open up a bit, is to simply start by narrating what is going on in the moment. Just say out loud, "You're kissing me there." or "I can feel you inside me."
It's the breathless delivery that sets me on fire.
Bigbreasts22
Posted: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 7:05:41 AM

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i think the best time to talk dirty is before you actually have sex and are in a public area. for example if i am at a party with my significant other i will shoot him dirty texts all night, leads to great sex when we get home
LittleGothPunkGirl
Posted: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 8:10:07 AM

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I like dirty talk a lot it is a great pre-forplay you know get the juice to flowing before you get to any touchy feely. I like to dirty to tease to and I do so love to tease, girls, guys, couples even when I don't want to be with them I like to tease them.
HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 1:06:16 PM

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I love dirty talk both before and after. As others said just go with what u feel at the moment.

Katy_go_go
Posted: Tuesday, February 19, 2013 6:40:18 AM

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It's a huge turn on for me.Some dirty argument before the sex can really get me going.Also during sex,i have that habit to talk shit.And i don't get offended by calling names.All for the sake of good sex.Some guys don't like it but i get pretty much vocal.I've been told that i have "nasty language" and i know that's the bad thing.It's just that i let some words slip from my mouth more often then it should. Embarassed
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 19, 2013 7:03:22 AM

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It's good to text one another dirty stuff just before you're going to meet and/or fuck, gets the ball rolling nicely by making pussies wet, cocks hard and imagination going. When we're already fucking, gf loves to talk about how good my "big cock" feels and how badly she wants me to cum in her pussy.
MrLosAngeles
Posted: Tuesday, February 19, 2013 9:29:47 AM

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Like good comedy, I think, good dirty talk shouldn't be a technique, but a response. That said, timing and location have a lot to do with it. Despite the potential pun, one size does not fit all at all times. Some people never quite "get it". There's a huge difference between being sleazy, douche-y, and just plain crass or classless and being seductive and sexy with dirty talk.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, March 16, 2013 9:36:28 AM

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Depends on the mood. We sometimes share a hot story that involves us with another man, woman or couple. It's all fantasy and its hot. If she is turned on enough, she adds scorching detail to the story. We do this during foreplay a d it leads to some fun for both of us. I love how her bi side comes out in the stories. Turns out she is curious about many things.
Buz
Posted: Saturday, March 16, 2013 9:44:04 AM

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My wife & I love it. We talk about what we are doing & how it feels. We talk very dirty during sex, a lot of explicit verbalization, plus she likes to be called some dirty names as I pull her hair and stuff.

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, April 16, 2013 5:51:04 AM

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I really love dirty talk , name calling , mmmmm graphic descriptions of hat is going to happen to me ,, = YUM
Shaman
Posted: Tuesday, October 08, 2013 8:58:05 PM

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just relax find what you would like to hear and do it
jennypoison
Posted: Monday, October 14, 2013 7:24:20 PM

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hmmm dirty talks is cool when you fucking each other

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BikeBoy
Posted: Thursday, October 17, 2013 12:20:58 PM

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crazydiamond wrote:


Have a read of the link below, decide what level of dirty talk you think is appropriate for you and your partner, then just try it. bunny

How to talk dirty: 50 examples



Oh yeah, there's some good ones on that list! Reading them is like standing in front of a Baskin & Robbins counter and trying to decide what flavour you're in the mood for.
BikeBoy
Posted: Thursday, October 17, 2013 12:24:18 PM

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Buz wrote:
My wife & I love it. We talk about what we are doing & how it feels. We talk very dirty during sex, a lot of explicit verbalization, plus she likes to be called some dirty names as I pull her hair and stuff.


Based on that description it's possible that I'm dating your sister-in-law.
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