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Arcane
Posted: Tuesday, January 22, 2013 10:52:40 PM

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I am just wondering what the best size for a penis is. I know that the average length is 5 1/2 inches; but I want to know what women prefer. Guys: honestly how big are you? I am 7 inches but still feel rather small.

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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 4:59:41 AM

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This does seem the most common question from men and I'm always surprised by how many men have Lush I.D's like 'BigCockDave' as though that's the most important thing about them! With the exception, I suppose, of a small penis less than maybe four / five inches long, the size becomes unimportant.
I've had sex with men who had huge 8" - 10" cocks and they all thought that alone meant they didn't need to do anything with it and the sex was crap!
Likewise I've had men with average sized (about 6") dicks who were the greatest lovers ever, so size does not always mean a great time.
I would also say that men seem obsessed with length when I've always thought it was the thickness that gave the most pleasure.
Don't obsess about the length of your cock, you've got hands, fingers and a tongue that, if used well, will bring far more pleasure than a 12" cock! d'oh!
Jack_42
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 6:18:13 AM

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Bad news Mr Stallion you are 1 inch above the accepted circumference but we have this special lathe.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 6:29:46 AM

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not to picky 10 '' + lol
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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 6:43:55 AM

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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 6:50:38 AM

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This is own of the areas where porn can really beat down your self esteem by looking at guys with giant dicks fucking beautiful hypersexual women and thinking that both of those are the accepted norm. I reached a point one day where I decided to not be insecure about my 6" dick that had never ever failed to give my wife incredible sex, and to just love and accept myself as I am. I love my cock now more than I ever have. It's scary to feel like you're not good enough the way you are, and that someone else is able to please a woman writer than me because of something I have no control over. It's just not real.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 6:57:40 AM

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Well im not that Big or small, I would say about 5"...and it does not bother me. One of my past encounters a women to me that you ex had an 11-13inch dick and all she felt was pain, not on orgasm and he thought he was the man. Yes, my is less that half hos size and took her to heaven, so to speak.
I guess that men will smaller Dicks do a little futher and take their time with women.
clum
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 8:07:20 AM

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The ideal penis size is... HUGE! At seven inches, you're just not going to cut it for most of the ladies of Lush. You may as well give up now and confine yourself to a life of bachelorhood - you'll never truly satisfy a woman.

I've never revealed my penis size here on Lush because... well, I just don't need the hassle from desirous sluts; I'm a busy man.

By the way, if you do a simple search of the forum (top right corner) you'll find around 89,625 threads on this topic or similar.

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angieseroticpen
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 8:10:01 AM

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Debs wrote:
This does seem the most common question from men and I'm always surprised by how many men have Lush I.D's like 'BigCockDave' as though that's the most important thing about them! With the exception, I suppose, of a small penis less than maybe four / five inches long, the size becomes unimportant.
I've had sex with men who had huge 8" - 10" cocks and they all thought that alone meant they didn't need to do anything with it and the sex was crap!
Likewise I've had men with average sized (about 6") dicks who were the greatest lovers ever, so size does not always mean a great time.
I would also say that men seem obsessed with length when I've always thought it was the thickness that gave the most pleasure.
Don't obsess about the length of your cock, you've got hands, fingers and a tongue that, if used well, will bring far more pleasure than a 12" cock! d'oh!



I agree. Pointless walking around with a big toolbox if you haven't a clue how to use it!

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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 8:25:34 AM

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I always smile at these questions and the responses. The truth is, don't worry about it. Women always point out how big dicks can be attached to bad lovers and they use that to show how small to average guys can be fantastic lovers... well.... how about this for a change? Guys with big cocks CAN and often ARE great lovers too! lol And guys with small to average cocks are often times TERRIBLE lovers and can't satisfy anyone. Same with girth.

I just get tired of "pumping up small guys" while slamming "bigger guys". And yes, that is how it comes across time and again. ;) So please folks, think about what you post and how it might look to others.

People seem to think it is an all or nothing thing. There are plenty of guys out there that are well endowed who are great lovers, and they ALSO use their fingers, tongues, toys, etc.

Guys... stop obsessing over penis size!

(It often comes across much like if guys kept saying women with big tits are stupid, or that if you work out you are an idiot, etc.)
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 8:56:54 AM

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16 or 17 inches is ideal!!
pixiedust65
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 9:09:47 AM

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I don't believe there is an " ideal penis size".

For example, you are doing a math question, your pencil is sharp but you don't know how to add.


Your sharp pencil is no help without the knowledge behind it. My 2 cents

blazestcyr
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 9:28:03 AM

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if u have to ask the question...surely you know the answer...

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the ORGASM matters ....the orgasm

next most NON searched question ever...
Aletheia
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 11:18:13 AM

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My husband's penis seems perfect to me, so I'd have to say 7 1/2 inches long with a 4 inch circumference.
TheDevilsWeakness
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 11:31:35 AM

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There really is a perfect penis size.

Surprisingly, I had this conversation the other night with a friend. I had to liken it to a pair of shoes to drive the point home.

You're not going to stuff your feet into a pair of shoes that are too small or too narrow. Nor are you going to swim in a pair that's too large or too wide.
Everyone's feet are different. Same goes for vaginas and penises. You just need to find that "perfect" fit.

My perfect fit is going to be different than someone else's. Too long or too wide and it's going to hurt. I'm all for a little pain in sex play but when I'm uncomfortable that's not my idea of a good time.

Size really does matter... But finding out who your perfect fit is half the fun.

But that's just my theory. dontknow

Dancing_Doll
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 11:54:40 AM

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I love this guy's article. There's more to it, but I've pasted a good portion of it (sans pics, of course). Given all the stress about dick size on Lush, it's a good read. It also explains how to properly measure, porn myths, and a website where you can digitally create/compare penis sizes. Enjoy.

Oh, and to the OP - yes, 7 inches is a great size. Don't stress.

http://www.size-exposed.com wrote:


The average penis size is 5.5 to 6.2 inches in length and 4.7 to 5 inches in girth. A fully erect penis that's less than 5 inches in length and less than 5 inches in girth is classified as small and a fully erect penis that's less than 3 inches in length is called a "Micropenis". A penis that's from 7.1 to 8 inches in length and at least 5.5 inches in girth is classified as large and a penis that's over 8 inches in length and at least 6 inches in girth is classified as huge or very large.

When asked about penis size most women say their ex was 8 inches, their boyfriend is 9 inches, their husband is 10 inches, they've had sex with a guy who's 14 inches, or they've seen a penis that's 15 inches. So many women talk like every man's penis is supposed to be at least 8 inches and if it's less than 8 they wont get any pleasure out of it and many women have personally told me they need at least 8 inches to feel satisfied or 8 inches is the smallest penis they've ever had. My penis is 8.3 inches in length and 5.7 inches in girth but when those same women who say they need at least 8 inches or 8 inches is the smallest they've had see my penis they say "Oh my god, that's the biggest dick I've ever seen, it must be at least 10 inches". No, it's 8, but when I tell them that they still think its bigger. I don't have any reason to lie and I won't get any pleasure out of them thinking it's bigger than it really is when most women can't handle 8 inches anyway.

Vaginas are different sizes too. The average vagina is 4 inches deep when it's unaroused and gets an inch deeper when it's fully aroused. It can easily accommodate an average size penis even though larger sizes are difficult to handle but most women feel pain or discomfort during intercourse because their vagina wasn't aroused enough before being penetrated and not because their partner's penis was too big. Large vaginas are usually a result of multiple childbirths. Most women with large vaginas need large penises to feel satisfied while women with small or average size vaginas can be satisfied by average and slightly below average size penises. It's simply matching penis size with vagina size. A small penis isn't going to satisfy a woman with a large vagina and a large penis will cause pain or discomfort to a woman with a small vagina.

Plenty of women go through their entire lives without seeing a penis that's over 7 inches long and most women don't know what an 8, 9, or 10 inch penis looks like. It can't be measured by looking and guessing how many inches it is. Doing that isn't any different than looking at a jar of jelly beans and guessing how many are inside. The only way to know the size of a penis is by actually measuring it with a measuring device such as a ruler or tape measure. If every man was as big as he claims to be, less people would be having sex for the simple fact that most women either have a small or average size vagina and sex would be more pain than pleasure because of genital mismatches. That proves that a lot of men are lying about their size and a lot of women are lying about their partner's size and the size they prefer. Men lie about their penis size because they know that women don't carry rulers around ready to measure dicks and that exaggerating an inch or two is easy to get away with and women lie because of what they hear other women say or to make men feel inferior by saying they prefer outrageous penis sizes they've never actually experienced or seen before.

People think most men have big penises because of what's advertised in porn without realizing that porn isn't reality. The biggest male porn stars are Mandingo who's penis is 11.7 inches in length and 7 inches in girth, Shane Diesel who's penis is 10 inches in length and 8 inches in girth, Jack Napier who's penis is 10 inches in length and 7.5 inches in girth, Shorty Mac who's penis is 8 inches in length and 8 inches in girth, Lexington Steele who's penis is 9.5 inches in length and 6.5 inches in girth, and Ron Jeremy who's penis is 9.7 inches in length. Even the legendary John Holmes was only 10 inches in length and a porn star named "Long Dong Silver claimed to be 18 inches but was actually 9 inches and wore a 9 inch penis attachment that can be bought at any adult novelty store. Other male porn stars are 6.5 to 9 inches in length with the majority being between 7 and 8 inches.

Porn is filmed with high powered cameras, magnified lenses, and lighting techniques, to make penises look bigger. Trimming or shaving pubic hair also makes a penis look bigger and most porn stars use penis pumps right before filming starts. They do that because porn is meant to be "Fantasy" and is mainly directed towards a male audience. The directors make sure the men look big and the women look pretty because it's not a fantasy if the men watching know they have an equal size or bigger penis than the men being filmed and the main purpose of the fantasy is to give the illusion that men need big dicks to have sex with beautiful women. If people knew the truth that would be bad for business and destroy the illusion so that's why porn stars lie about their size in interviews and anything media related. A penis in porn is measured in "Porn Inches". 1 porn inch equals 3/4 of a real inch so when a porn star says he has a 10 inch penis it usually means it's 7.5 to 8.5 inches. With that being said why is everybody claiming to have a big penis when the highest paid porn stars are slightly above average guys?

Many researchers and condom companies have found that 50% of men are between 5 and 6 inches in length, 25% are less than 5 inches in length, 25% are more than 6 inches in length, and less than 10% of are over 7.1 inches in length.

Another problem is that men lie about the size of condoms they wear, usually claiming to wear large size condoms such as Trojan's "Magnum" condom but Magnums aren't as big as most people think they are. A Magnum condom completely unrolled is 8 inches long (205 millimeters) including the 15 millimeter reservoir tip and is made for men who are over 7 inches in length and at least 5.5 inches in girth. The standard condom is 7 inches long (180 millimeters) including the 15 millimeter reservoir tip and is made for men with average length and girth. 1/2 inch equals 12.7 millimeters so since the reservoir tip is 15 millimeters, the length of the condom that can actually be used is the full length of the condom minus 15 millimeters which would make a Magnum condom 7.4 inches long (190 millimeters) just 1/2 millimeter under 7.5 inches and since the standard condom is an inch shorter at 180 millimeters, if you subtract the 15 millimeter tip that would make a standard condom 165 millimeters long which equals exactly 6.5 inches and also proves that the average penis size is about 6 inches. If a penis is 8 inches or longer it would have to be equal in length or longer than a Magnum condom including the reservoir tip and if a penis is 7 inches or longer it would have to be equal in length or longer than a standard condom including the reservoir tip. If every guy who claimed to have an 8 inch penis actually had an 8 inch penis Magnums wouldn't be labeled as large size condoms, they would be labeled as standard because so many men claim to have a large penis.

The correct way to measure the length of a penis is by placing a ruler or tape measure along the top of the penis and measuring from the base to the tip without pressing into the pubic bone. Measuring any other way will give an inaccurate measurement from 1/4 inch to 2 inches and measuring from the side or underneath is classified as cheating. Some men actually sit down, measure from their asshole, and say they're 8, 9, or 10 inches to anyone who asks how big their penis is. Misleading information like that leads to a false perception of penis size and makes men who are under 7 or 8 inches feel like they can't please a woman and that they have to lie about their size or waste money on condoms that don't fit just to say they wear a large size condom. Some men have gotten so depressed that they've had a sex change or expensive high risk surgery to enlarge the size of their penis and some men have even committed suicide.

Please tell others to read this and visit www.mraverage.com/sizer.php to digitally create a penis and compare it to a 5.5 and 6 inch penis or go to www.thevisualiser.net to digitally create a penis and compare it to porn stars and men around the world.



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Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 2:03:56 PM

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Good article and spot on. And perspective and scale are huge issues too. A guy who LOOKS like he has a big dick may have under average, but HE is short and thus by scale he looks big. Movie actors are picked like that. Most of the great "action heroes" are very small guys, they just have good proportions and look good on camera. It is also why famous people are always told "I thought you would be bigger" when people meet them in real life.

The same is true with cocks. More so when most guys love to do forced perspective shots and shots with NO real comparison to real objects around. As the article stated, most could not tell the size and length of a cock by just looking at it anyways.

So once again.. don't stress about cock size! lol You are more likely to turn a woman off by bad breath or bad personality than you are with your cock size. And the same with attraction. I have never seen a woman go, "He is a complete asshole, has an ugly face, and nasty body, but his COCK.. OMG!!!!! I just have to have him!" But.... you can rest assured that all other things being "good" in her eyes, the cock isn't really a deal breaker.
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 2:16:00 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
I love this guy's article. There's more to it, but I've pasted a good portion of it (sans pics, of course). Given all the stress about dick size on Lush, it's a good read. It also explains how to properly measure, porn myths, and a website where you can digitally create/compare penis sizes. Enjoy.

Oh, and to the OP - yes, 7 inches is a great size. Don't stress.



Great Article. But I still say 16 or 17 inches is ideal!! I miss that guy who had the 16" cock!!
crazydiamond
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Nikki703 wrote:


Great Article. But I still say 16 or 17 inches is ideal!! I miss that guy who had the 16" cock!!


Nahhh, that was just LM taking pics of his forearm again and passing it off as his cock . kekekegay

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crazydiamond wrote:


Nahhh, that was just LM taking pics of his forearm again and passing it off as his cock . kekekegay


Really? sad1 I think this is what Nikki was talking about. I really thought LM was 16" at least after getting this pic he sent in his "Welcome to Lush" introductory PM. Eh? Bummer!





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sign10 6 to 7 is great ..i hate it when some one is excited and bottoms:out cuz his dick is just too big.
Nikki703
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 3:25:22 PM

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CurlyGirly wrote:


Really? sad1 I think this is what Nikki was talking about. I really thought LM was 16" at least after getting this pic he sent in his "Welcome to Lush" introductory PM. Eh? Bummer!



Well most of the guys truly think they are really big, especially when they use their Lush Penis Measuring Tool!

Hey Bevis, she said Tool, hehe!!


pixiedust65
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 3:51:05 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


Well most of the guys truly think they are really big, especially when they use their Lush Penis Measuring Tool!

Hey Bevis, she said Tool, hehe!!





Honestly, how many of you used this when she posted it? lol evil4

CurlyGirly
Posted: Wednesday, January 23, 2013 3:51:30 PM

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Nikki703 wrote:


Well most of the guys truly think they are really big, especially when they use their Lush Penis Measuring Tool!

Hey Bevis, she said Tool, hehe!!




Definitely explains the Lush 9" phenomenon, huh?? evil4







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lafayettemister
Posted: Thursday, January 24, 2013 7:43:40 AM

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crazydiamond wrote:


Nahhh, that was just LM taking pics of his forearm again and passing it off as his cock . kekekegay


CurlyGirly wrote:


Really? sad1 I think this is what Nikki was talking about. I really thought LM was 16" at least after getting this pic he sent in his "Welcome to Lush" introductory PM. Eh? Bummer!



My cock WAS 16" until you two insatiable cumsluts kept sending me all those pussy pics and making me have cyber and phone sex with you. All that friction and it's been whittled down to a nub.





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CurlyGirly
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lafayettemister wrote:


My cock WAS 16" until you two insatiable cumsluts kept sending me all those pussy pics and making me have cyber and phone sex with you. All that friction and it's been whittled down to a nub.


Making you? I thought you loved when I "made you" have cyber! a1089 Are you saying you don't wanna be my bitch anymore? *Hmmmpf*

Also, did you start taking those pills I got off the internet for your nub issues?? evil4






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crazydiamond
Posted: Thursday, January 24, 2013 11:36:34 AM

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lafayettemister wrote:


My cock WAS 16" until you two insatiable cumsluts kept sending me all those pussy pics and making me have cyber and phone sex with you. All that friction and it's been whittled down to a nub.


Was that what that was?? Phone sex? Jesus, i really can't understand Cajun.... I thought you were ordering a pizza! x f-hihi



lafayettemister
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crazydiamond wrote:


Was that what that was?? Phone sex? Jesus, i really can't understand Cajun.... I thought you were ordering a pizza! x f-hihi



Is that why you were confused when I said I have a 12 incher, hold the sausage?





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crazydiamond
Posted: Thursday, January 24, 2013 11:40:17 AM

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lafayettemister wrote:


Is that why you were confused when I said I have a 12 incher, hold the sausage?


Ha! I knew you were lying, 16 inches my ass!

FarmgirlJill
Posted: Thursday, January 24, 2013 4:28:31 PM

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Debs wrote:
This does seem the most common question from men and I'm always surprised by how many men have Lush I.D's like 'BigCockDave' as though that's the most important thing about them! With the exception, I suppose, of a small penis less than maybe four / five inches long, the size becomes unimportant.
I've had sex with men who had huge 8" - 10" cocks and they all thought that alone meant they didn't need to do anything with it and the sex was crap!
Likewise I've had men with average sized (about 6") dicks who were the greatest lovers ever, so size does not always mean a great time.
I would also say that men seem obsessed with length when I've always thought it was the thickness that gave the most pleasure.
Don't obsess about the length of your cock, you've got hands, fingers and a tongue that, if used well, will bring far more pleasure than a 12" cock! d'oh!



I think you answered this the best Debs.

For me in addition to your answer would be that it depends on where their going to stick it. I've had all sizes and like Debs I enjoy the thick ones most but don't tell. Shhh
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