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JuniorJazzy
Posted: Friday, January 25, 2013 7:40:19 PM

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Just wondering, when it comes down to it, is it good or bad if you get to have the first time sex with a virgin? Purely curiosity asking this question. Would like a bit of feedback from you guys out there. Please and thank you! ~Jazzy
Cripto
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 12:01:57 AM

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It's not a bad thing to be honest. To me, a girl that is a virgin is a girl that can share my inexperience (also a virgin). A girl that isn't can teach me hot to be a better lover. :)
BIGTONY
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 1:21:39 AM

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should never be a bad thing its not for me
AnythingG0es
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 5:03:29 PM

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No thank you. I want a woman that knows what she is doing in bed.
JohnC
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 5:44:02 PM

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That is a difficult question. Frankly I would be scared with a virgin. While I would be honored to be her first, her expectations and different aspects about the first time would be a HUGE amount of pressure. Plus not being a small guy, that brings on more fears.

Yeah, I know some guys might say none of that bothers them, but I am a caring person. I also know that because of certain things, BETTER sex comes after that. So I would rather she be able to fully enjoy things without some of the physical discomforts and anxiety that comes with losing your virginity.

With that said, if it was really what she wanted, and I was her choice, I would do my best to make it as pleasurable as I could for her, as well as comfortable (mentally).

JuniorJazzy
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 6:12:23 PM

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Well, here's another twist, say she was a virgin to the pleasures of men, but she had experimented a little to far with toys, so in the physical sense, the pain and discomfort is already gone? Would that make any difference to the answers given?~Jazzy
JohnC
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 6:24:59 PM

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Yes. Then I would simply consider her inexperienced at best physically. But much of the pressure would be gone. The rest stands in my above response. :)


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Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 6:25:36 PM

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What if the virgin was someone like my age? :o Still inexperienced, but i have to admit that I do like masturbating from time to time.
JohnC
Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 6:27:15 PM

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Would all be the same as what I posted in my two responses, vijipies. :)

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Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 8:21:22 PM

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we were all virgins once upon a time&some may always be!
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Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 8:22:24 PM

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why should it be either? :)
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Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 10:09:37 PM

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Honestly, I'm indifferent.
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Posted: Saturday, January 26, 2013 10:33:16 PM

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oh has to be good, think how we all felt as one. her inexperance would be such a turn on and for her to give you her best kept pocession bliss.
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Posted: Sunday, January 27, 2013 8:19:29 AM

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Speaking as a virgin myself, I don't think it's a bad thing to be one.

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Dark_Lord
Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 4:21:44 AM

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Its not a bad to be a virgin and from a guy opinion to be her first is an honour.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 9:48:47 AM

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Never been someone's first and may never get the chance. As I suggested in another thread, I'd be rather nervous about being in that position but at the same time, I also think it would be a good sign that she/he trusted me enough to give me that role.


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Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 10:51:08 AM

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To me it doesnt really matter in the least. Good sex for me is mostly because of a great mental connection, so if you are on the same page and are communicative with your partner then the lack of experience can be rendered irrelevant.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 12:41:42 PM

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I was lucky enough to lose my virginity to a virgin when I was younger and even though it wasn't “great” sex it was still what I wanted.

However I maybe a female, this question can go for girls to. Would you have sex with a virgin male?

For me... Hell yes... I’m actually dating someone who is a virgin. I would love to be his one and only when the time comes. He feels the same way. Sure it’ll be different for me since I've not had sex with a virgin since I was in my teens. But I like the thought of being the one to sleep with him first, and hopefully last.

I think Roy is right. If you have a good connection with them being a virgin male or female doesn't matter. You shouldn't be doing it unless there are some feelings involved. Also that you both know what you want or hope to expect from it.


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Posted: Tuesday, January 29, 2013 8:27:10 PM

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It doesnt really matter that much, but the situation could. i wouldnt like to take someones virginity in a hot and heavy impulse cubicle fuck in a club, that would feel thrashy. and of course you always feel good about knowing you were someones first if its done right. ego thing i guess.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 12:40:12 AM

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Never had a virgin might be interesting but I love slutty women the best.
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Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 1:18:36 AM

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To me the Irish bomb stepped on an important piece; the situation. I don't want to be a guy that takes a girls virginity in a back alley and then never see her again. For all we know, it might end in pain and discomfort and it will all be a really bad memory instead of what should be if not a pleasurable then at least a half decent memory. As a long term partner it's different, because then you have the chance to explore, evolve and experience on the way from newbies to becoming a sex godess :D

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Posted: Saturday, February 02, 2013 9:14:14 PM

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Being with a virgin is not a bad thing at all. With a virgin i would first make sure if this is what she wanted. I would go slow and easy and at her pace. I want to make sure she enjoys her first time because it is not about me at all. I would do a lot of four play to give her as many new sensations as possible.
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Posted: Saturday, March 02, 2013 10:12:02 AM

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It's not a bad thing at all to be a virgin, i have never been with a virgin, but i would make sure it was what she wanted and everything was going as she wants.



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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 7:24:35 AM

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What matters is that her sex drive is compatiable with yours.
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 7:46:13 AM

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Well it's wonderful for a woman to be a virgin and to share that with a special man. For the man it is a sacred obligation to make sure it is AMAZING for her. As "first time" stories demonstrate it can be wonderful.
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 9:19:41 AM

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It was seat number 22 on Virgn Air, how is that
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 9:38:21 AM

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I have to go with neither. It really has nothing to do with whether or not she's a virgin. It's an odd question. Do people still make value judgements like this?
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 10:15:37 AM

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Surely it doesn't even come into question? If he/she is the right person, or it's the right time, or feels right, that's all that counts?
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 10:16:27 AM

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Surely it doesn't even come into question? If he/she is the right person, or it's the right time, or feels right, that's all that counts?
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Posted: Sunday, March 03, 2013 8:00:34 PM

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chris221090 wrote:
Surely it doesn't even come into question? If he/she is the right person, or it's the right time, or feels right, that's all that counts?


You sum it up perfectly, Chris.
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