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I agree this thread is somewhat depressing only because it's sad that people put others down to elevate themselves. I truly believe that. I've had very hurtful things said to me as well. I agree with Iszofia, I don't want to repeat them. I must say because of it all I have thicker skin now. I hope all of you have nothing short of a really great day. 
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I've heard some pretty good zingers from some very verbal, very soon to be ex-girlfriends. The one that stands out now went sort of like this...as she was standing at my front door - livid (I'd caught her in a bald faced lie and called her on it). "I'm going home right this fucking minute and taking a scalding 30 minutes shower and scrubbing every single molecule of you off my skin....and then I'm...I was smiling/giggling when I slammed my front door in her face before she could finish her 2nd part. She was a verbose cunt when she wanted to be. That really pissed her off. Nobody hangs up on, or slams a door in her face, by gawd! She smoked those tires & laid rubber 100 feet up the street as she accelerated off in her big assed Chevy Tahoe SUV, leaving my house.
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next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
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to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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I wish I could give you all a huge hug and help make the hurts go away. I didn't find out my own daughter was bullied some in high school even though I thought she was 1 of the strongest young women I knew. Her being DIFFERENT (she is gay) caused the nastiness in her life. The bastards are really lucky I did not know it happened back then. Some bully/s just might have had to seek medical attention.
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A few things, but I'm thinking they may have not been that worse since I don't remember them, but I do remember one. It's not totally bad, but it hurt my feelings. My first day on my Job at a Wendy's (a little over 2yrs ago) There was only one register the other one was broken and my managers/ co employees left me alone, I was sooooo slow. There was literally a line out the door and this old guy yelled in my face, "Can we get someone else here, this is ridiculous" His face was all red because of how angry he was, it just stuck with me. I'm a shy person, and my eyes were all watery, I'm sorry I was so slow dude! 
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I've been called every rude thing you can think of by my father. We've never gotten along, it only got worse as I got older until I moved out. (Now we can at least get through a conversation without agruing, which is no small feat.) So after a while you just get numb to it. I know what I am and who I am. I could give a rat's @ss what anyone else thinks of me. Mostly, it depends on the perosn. I've gotten in agruements with ex boyfriends or friends, they've said I was acting like a bitch, hearing that didn't bother me at all. Guess I can thank my dad for my thick skin.
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We should not be able to count the sorry shit our parents or adoptive parents tell us. I don't mean that to lessen the importance of the slights. Far from it.. Those deserve their own special, cruel thread. I learned my lessons from Hollywood movies. Zombies... hard to put down.
The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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geez I don't even know where to start. I have even been called things that dont make sense at all for me. I've been called worthless, pathetic, a slut, whore, bi*ch, fat, anorexic, c*nt, amazon, green giant, abnormal, huge, beanstalk, giraffe, lion, disgusting, loser, a nothing, stupid... I can keep going on and on with this. Really the worst thing isn't only one thing, it's all these things added together that killed my self esteem... People can be so mean. I suppose it makes me stronger, but it still hurts sometimes...
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I have had many hurtful things said to me in my life. Some that I will never forget.
But I feel that because of my experiences, I have learnt to be a better person, a stronger person.
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There was this really awesome guy at school I started talking to last year. He was handsome, in ROTC, funny, athletic and very intelligent. We got along really well and he even told me I'd make the perfect girlfriend for him... if I lost 10 pounds. I couldn't believe my ears. "Excuse me?!" I asked him. "You're really hot and great person", he replied, "and I'd totally fuck you but I could never be in a relationship with you. You have a good body now but I like my girls much more toned. Don't you think you'd look a 1000 times better if you just dropped 5 or 10 pounds?"
I felt completely embarrassed and totally insulted. Needless to say, we are not dating... or talking anymore for that matter.
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Deviant - you cannot just leave it @ that... We need to hear your eventual reply to that wanker.  I mean...you zinged him later, right? Singed his eyebrows or ass hairs?
The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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Well of course I flipped out on him and told him he was a conceited jerk. He followed that up by trying to explain himself further and subsequently said I was a psycho. I honestly thought I would rip his eyes out so I told him to fuck himself and walked away.
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The worst thing ever said to me... saying that I will never be loved, that I will always be alone. Those things said over time loose their punch but the one thing that I will always remember was from my one and only major crush of nine years. He told me that he wanted me to stop looking at him because I was ugly.
Hands down, the worst I have ever felt. I don't know if he ever knew how I felt about him but then again it didn't ever matter cause I supposedly repulsed him anyhow.
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Someone said to me, 'you look geeky with your glasses on, and bit like ugly betty!' 
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I`m not sure if this the absolute worst, but a guy I was chasing told me I should get a boob job. End of chasing!
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"Maybe this time I won't let you up. Drown you like a kitten nobody wants, you fucking worthless piece of shit" my ex. we call him 'The Monster' for a reason. i don't share those words often, but i have never forgotten them and sometimes, when i'm at my lowest, the ring loud and clear in my head.
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"I love you.. but I'm not in love with you anymore." My wife told me that..
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sprite wrote:"Maybe this time I won't let you up. Drown you like a kitten nobody wants, you fucking worthless piece of shit"
my ex. we call him 'The Monster' for a reason. i don't share those words often, but i have never forgotten them and sometimes, when i'm at my lowest, the ring loud and clear in my head. Those are words that should never ring loud and clear at any time.. burn them from your memory.. it was his loss.. not yours..
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392OhMyGoodness wrote:The worst thing ever said to me... saying that I will never be loved, that I will always be alone. Those things said over time loose their punch but the one thing that I will always remember was from my one and only major crush of nine years. He told me that he wanted me to stop looking at him because I was ugly.
Hands down, the worst I have ever felt. I don't know if he ever knew how I felt about him but then again it didn't ever matter cause I supposedly repulsed him anyhow. he's an idiot. that is all.
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My dad always said cruel stuff to me; stupid girl, without me you're nothing, you're good for nothing, and it goes on and on and it's really affected me at some point but I try to ignore him most of the time now, no one wants to be around some control freak maniac.
To unravel the truth behind everything, Megan is forced to leave everything behind to save herself and protect those she loves. Now on her own, this young woman will face challenges and dangers, relying on her only assets; her strength and determination. Read When The Truth Hurts by TashiTasha http://www.lushstories.com/stories/novels/when-the-truth-hurts-chapter-1.aspx
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None of you should have had to endure the abuse (verbally, and sadly, physically).
As depressing as sad as they are, I still believe these fires of life have forged something
beautiful; tenderness, appreciation, empathy, character, strength...the list goes on. :)
Are you truly awake?
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My heart goes out to all of you.
After mocking escort ads in my local paper to my ex. He turned to me and said "Can you imagine what the people I went to school would think if they knew I was dating someone like you."
I laughed it off pretending it didn't hurt me. However I was pretty hurt. Especially since he went to a snobby all boys school. I thought what was it, that I'm ten years younger then him? that I'm slightly overweight? Mixed race or that I have weak muscle tone?
Let's just say after that week I dumped him.
"Sexual pleasure in woman is a kind of magic spell; it demands complete abandon; if words or movements oppose the magic of caresses, the spell is broken."
Simone de Beauvoir
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My ex girlfriend told me I wasn't fun anymore and found another girl to play with.
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Guest wrote:I have a very long list of stuff like this but ones that have stuck are: "You are the biggest disappointment. You can never do anything right. Life would be better if you werent around. No one would notice If you never showed up again. You are worthless." That sounds a little too much like my husband when he gets on one of his kicks
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"Babe I do not care what you do, I can't go even one more time."
What could be worse than that. hehe
The girl who started early at this game of sexual pleasure, This girl that never seems to get as much as she wants, at least from the right people. But now certainly the woman that will test all the paths of pleasure with you.
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Like most of the posts on here i have had a life time of name calling, usually because of my weight. However the worst thing ever said to me was when someone accused me of being the reason some committed suicide. Only to find out later it was a prank.
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