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I have a bit of experience with this. My 1st husband was 19 years older than me. It wasn't our age difference that was the problem, it was his desire to change me, & his cheating that did us in. My 2nd husband was 9 years older than me. As with the first husband, it wasn't an age issue that caused our demise, but his drug use and cheating ass. My current husband is almost 2 years younger than me, and we've never been happier. He doesn't do drugs, he doesn't cheat, he doesn't try to change me, and we respect each other. To me, age has always been just a number. It's about the relationship the two people share. It is harder for couples with an age gap as so many don't understand. But here's the thing... a good man is a good man, a cheating bastard is a cheating bastard. Doesn't really matter how old or young. Any man that expects a woman to change to what he THINKS he wants is doomed. Any woman who thinks she's going to change her man to what she THINKS she wants is equally doomed. My husband & I have accepted our differences, we respect each other, and learned from one another what works & what doesn't. We've even discovered new things that the other liked that we like. The key is communication. I wish you luck in your relationship.
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I don't think age should really matter at all. Your attracted to who you are attracked too, no one should have a problem with anyones age. Hey as long as the relationship/sex is consensual then the only person it should matter to is you or your paretner. Love certainly is not goverened by age, or race, or relegion of polotics or anything else. You fall in love with the person not their age. I usually have gone for girls younger than myself and yet I lost my lesbian virginity to someone older and my current partner/ on off type thing is a lot older than me and yet the time we do spend together is great.
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My wife is 9 years older than I, but it doesn't show in sex...
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Age difference should not be a problem. My first woman was 52 to my 14. We were together till i was 19. Now i've had my fair share of older & younger woman. My wife is 4 yrs older than me but she has been told she looks in her early 30's instead of being 45.
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Trust me age doesn't matter one bit. It's all a state of mind, imagination and craativity.
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Age is unimportant; however, maturity is. Although I tend to stick with girls around my age, I would love to have an relationship with a much older woman.
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don't know. would have to have the situation of a younger man present it self...lol..
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my self I love younger men and women
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MLogan wrote:My boyfriend is a lot younger than me, and I would like to know what you guys think..
what age difference do you think would be too much? Judging by your profile... 22 years. Judging by your pic rather less.
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just love the older man
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Have been in relationships with younger by 8-10 years an older 8-17 years had no real difference. It's just a number.
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i'm 21 and my wife is 28 we have our fights and she thinks I care about our age but I don't love is love just like lust is lust it doesn't know there is a age issue there so why think about it then
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Sex: yes
relationship: maybe
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damilesky wrote:Sex: yes
relationship: maybe Why would sex matter if relationship would not. I personally don't about the girls age as long as she as a mature out look on life and we get along. There are girls older than me that still act like they are in High school and girls that are in high school act like they are in their late teens early 20s, So your age doesn't say much but when you were born not how mature you are.
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