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nvsb
Posted: Tuesday, November 27, 2012 10:55:12 AM

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SweetElle wrote:
I've thought it was love a few times... but it wasn't. Intense like, lust...whatever...it happens.

Except for once almost two years ago...and I cried myself to sleep every night for a year when our six year relationship was finally over. I will always love him, but it wasn't meant to be. There will never be another him or us.


yeah.... got into something similar... was a her not him :p

made me the asshole i'm today
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, November 27, 2012 11:53:56 AM

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Of course. It's a horrible feeling
real69luvr
Posted: Tuesday, November 27, 2012 11:59:01 AM

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Unfortunately yes I did. I was head over heals in love with a married woman. We had an affair for over a year and I was lost in her. Then her head couldn't handle it, and she broke it off. I was lost for a long time.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, November 27, 2012 1:45:02 PM

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yes a few times and it suck, worst feeling in the world
Green_Man
Posted: Tuesday, November 27, 2012 1:46:27 PM

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Oh, absolutely. Right now, as a matter of fact.

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 09, 2012 4:49:09 PM

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yes..... intense mind numbing pain
fifthrow
Posted: Sunday, December 09, 2012 5:07:15 PM

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never
Guest
Posted: Sunday, December 09, 2012 6:26:19 PM

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I ALWAYS fall for the wrong person!!!!crybaby
BelleduJour
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:51:59 AM

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Hmmm...I can't say that I've fallen 'in love' but I have most certainly fallen 'in lust' with several men over the years that I couldn't have for one reason or another. Sometimes it can be hard to tell the difference between the two and I learned THAT lesson the hard way as well.

NI_Chick
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 4:13:14 PM

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Yes, was horrible. Broke my heart. Said i was going of men forever, 2/3 months later fell in love again with someone new...still together now.
seanabumble
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:46:17 PM

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Yes and it hurt like hell
Guest
Posted: Monday, December 10, 2012 5:58:34 PM

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Yes, but she did not know it. She was 10 years older than me at the time. It was a terrible feeling to know I couldn't have her. crybaby
EllenJames
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 7:42:34 PM

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Yes - never knew if it was reciprocated but it began with me responding to things she said and did so I have my suspicions - we were both married with kids and careers - not seeing how we could avoid screwing up that many lives at a single stroke neither of us took it any further -- saw her again almost 2 years later and was literally knocked off my feet by how fantastic she looked - any sign at all from her that day and things would have taken a completely different direction

Ellen James

And what is love without lust when lust is better for loving
Poppet
Posted: Saturday, December 15, 2012 9:42:59 PM

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I've never fallen in love with someone I can’t have, but I have fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have because it wasn't right. I’m not sure if it’s the same thing. We didn't work out so I guess I shouldn't have fallen for him in the first place, but damn he still has my heart.

Headsupmax
Posted: Tuesday, January 01, 2013 9:49:44 AM

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Fallen in love, dunno but had an intense attraction to, yes. One of my ex's girlfriends, she was gorgeous inside and out, we had a lot in common, music, films, sense of humour. I thought about trying it on with her but my ex finally caught on and gave me the ultimatum. I made the wrong choice...
carnal_kitty01
Posted: Tuesday, January 01, 2013 8:04:02 PM

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Yep, I'm 32 and it's only ever happened to me once.... about a year ago, and I'm still trying to move on! No longer in contact with the guy but it still causes many sleepless night and tears. All I know is heartache can go f*ck itself and maybe time is the only way to heal? Lol, who knows...
Guest
Posted: Monday, January 07, 2013 11:15:31 PM

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yes i have..... and i was left feeling lonely... i will find someone though
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 6:50:40 PM

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Yes I have. And have been in love with more than one person at a time. The heart is what it is.
ShyVixen
Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 7:36:47 PM

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Yes, and it hurts like hell. You do and say what you can to make sense of it, to justify it, only to know its not going to be, that you can't have someone who doesn't belong to you. How do you get through it? Someone once told me, if you love him, fight for him. I think at times we just need to accept that there is a reason for everything.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Tuesday, January 08, 2013 10:42:42 PM

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Lust and infatuation, yes. A few times.

Real true love? Hmm... debatable.


Guest
Posted: Saturday, January 19, 2013 9:27:10 AM

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yes. she owns my heart
_foxxylady101_
Posted: Saturday, January 19, 2013 11:47:19 AM

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Very much so. I thought what was a summertime fling turned into something much deeper.
stellabird
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 12:50:31 PM

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LusciousLola wrote:
I have and it's a recipe for heartache.
It sure is...
BelleduJour
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 12:54:46 PM

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Unfortunately yes :(

Guest
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 2:19:50 PM

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Hasn't everyone at one time or another, part of life and growing as a person
janet_haney
Posted: Wednesday, January 30, 2013 4:42:03 PM

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Of course
oldhound
Posted: Monday, February 04, 2013 9:47:21 AM

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No real advice in here, guess Ill go with my plan of turning all the pain into a burning ball of rage, that should.keep me warm at night.
SittingBallerina
Posted: Thursday, February 07, 2013 7:04:07 PM

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In college, my TA. I think it was more infatuation though, because I never had that heartbreak that you guys are talking about. Although I could tell he liked me back. It was a lot of fun, until the semester ended. I've only come really really close to loving one person and I definitely will not go there.
findingnichole
Posted: Thursday, February 07, 2013 7:06:54 PM

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Yes. But as I learned more about them they were not the kind of person I thought they were and the feelings quickly went away.

You seem sweet, mind if I lick you to make sure?
oldhound
Posted: Saturday, February 09, 2013 6:36:06 AM

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Well apparently length of relationship and activities conducted during are the qualifiers. Ones feelings dont count a whit if the woman decides they dont. How convienant.
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