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Location: right where i should be., United States
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these folks recommending tantra are right on the money with their info. There is one person in the world were time was irrelavent and literally hours would go by. I must quantify this by saying banging would not describe it at all, more like constant, comfortable connection punctuated by ebbs and flows in energy levels and attraction level, but we never left each others contact. it just so happened we fit perfectly, and her sex drive is comparable to mine and there were no sandpaper issues. pornstar fucking, no, fucking each other comfortably, loving the other so much we couldnt bear to be apart once connected you bet. most amazing experience ive had with another person.
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Location: Marina del Rey, United States
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It's not "how long", it's "how well", in my opinion. After awhile, you want to change up. Steady solid hour- long "banging" is about as boring as a monster truck marathon. Slip in some sensual play, some oral, some "touching" and then go back to your "banging" (I really hate that word and concept). If it's really taking you hours and hours to reach a first orgasm, something is wrong.
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Joined: 2/6/2013
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Location: United States
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Like others it depends on some factors.....if it has been awhile since I came 5 to 10 minutes is good. Also it depends on if it is the first fuck of the night or the 2nd or...... first time I am usually good for 15 to 30 minutes depending on how hot it is. After that I can usually go longer after a good refractory period.
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I have to also agree that stamina is fine and well, but it is more important for both parties to get what they wanted/needed. Some times you need a sprint, and other times a marathon. But in either case, what is being done, the mindset of both parties, and other factors are truly the important things.... not simply "stamina".
I also have found that in the beginning of a relationship, the super extended sessions are fine, but the longer you are together you TRULY seek out quality over duration. Sure, duration from time to time, but I would prefer more "normal" length sexual sessions more frequently (and even a bunch of "quickies"), and mix it up, over trying to run a marathon every day.
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Joined: 6/6/2011
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Location: United States
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As long as I need to, but longer is definitely not always better. My current partner and I have never had one single discussion regarding length of our sexy time, and it could not be more fantastic. So in my opinion, the duration of time is really not an issue as long as you are in sync with your partner.
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Can keep going for as long as I want, but banging a girl long and hard has a numbing effect and eventually it may become difficult to actually get off myself. So I don't like marathons anymore. Long enough to make her cum once or twice is perfectly fine, at which point my gf will want to get my cum inside her anyway, and I can't deny her that when she asks for it.
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Joined: 12/31/2012
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Location: Canada
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Well if I am really tuned on then I don't last all that long sadly. If I am not as turned on or if I get my mind in the right place then I can last for over 30 min. Straight pumping. If you are just talking sex with lots of stoppages for oral then I last a hell of a lot longer.
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I have a bit of a hair trigger, so the first time I usually don't last long. If I can get it up again, the second round can last longer. Lube and a condom can help stretch that first time out a bit.
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Location: in the sun, Australia
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Watch the movie 'Great Expectations' four times and there's your answer
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Joined: 2/18/2013
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Location: My Home, United States
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If you include pussy licking I am good for an easy hour, but just banging maybe 5 min.
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Joined: 12/31/2012
Posts: 16
Location: LA-Lower Alabama, United States
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Making love = 3-3.5 hrs. Not really into "banging" for long periods. Interested in more of a connection than banging - generally. However, sometimes banging is what it's all about ;).
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Location: Dagobah, United States
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Its usally the best 3 minutes of her life
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Joined: 10/10/2012
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Location: †Jinxy Approved†, United States
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The whole thing I like to last about an hour, maybe an hour and a half. The "banging" I like to be about 15 to 30 minutes, I don't want to get bored. I like having sex but it doesn't need to be an all day event.
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the longest I went is 4 hours. Not all banging. Lots of foreplay and pussy licking.
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