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this is a tough question I thought about before and noticed I didnt look at one thing on every woman, So I would say it depends on the woman
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Magical_felix wrote:I like how some guys said they notice personality first... What a bunch of bullshitters... How is that even possible unless you're blind? Idiots. Yanno what's even more ironic... those guys are also usually the 1st guys who will rush to send some woman with a lovely personality - their nude photographs across email - so they can show off their own unique personality as soon as possible, too! Yes...yes, I'm thinking of you - Rocco. 
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next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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WellMadeMale wrote:Personality. Always. As long as she owns the brightest, most optimistic outlook and healthiest sense of self confidence, everything else will be perfect too.
Beauty is only skin deep. Personality is forever or something like that. Dudealicious wrote:This ^ Plus her personality also has to show a level of confidence.
Look at you going all mushy and shit on us WMM! My mushy side is sequestered away from Lush. It's on display over @ Lisa's StoriesSpace website. My comment above was sarcasm, Dude. I'm not Stevie Wonder, I was blessed with working eyeballs. I look at a woman's shoulders first, then her ass/thighs & legs. Then if all the proportions are to my liking, I'll check out her eyes & lips. If I find her attractive facially - I'll scope out her tits, curve of her neck, toned biceps, taunt tummy and how much cellulite she's displaying overall. I'm a man and I know what I like. Call me a dawg, I don't give a shit. Personality plays into it, but only if she fits all the physical & visual criteria. If I don't enjoy looking at her, I don't really care to think about ragdolling her around the clock. About 25 yrs ago, I went for the Roseann Barr personality, first... That ended up burning me within just a few years. I learned my lesson & it only took one time. I reverted to thinking like a Cro-Magnon and it's worked out a lot better.
The best thing you can do for your fellow,
next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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I first notice eyes, lips, nose, hands. I usually don't care a lot about boobs, ass, legs, if a woman doesn't have an interesting and expressive face she could have the best body in the world but she will never catch my attention.
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her outfit
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her outfit
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Yes a tough question ... I would certainly look at the face first ... perhaps for that lovely smile .. nice lips and of course the eyes ... failing that the chest ...
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smile - lively eyes - overall figure - her outfit (especially the shoes) -
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And what is love without lust when lust is better for loving
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it really depends on what view i get first and what she's wearing. for instance if it's the summer and a girl has her back to me, then prob her ass, but if i'm facing her then it's prob. her chest. during the winter it's either hair or the face, it all just depends
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her hair, is it nice and kept or gross and matty
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there isn't one thing that grabs me...all women are different and beauty manifests itelf in many ways. Saying that I am a sucker for a cute ass!
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The way she carries herself. Posture & confidence. There's nothing sexier than a confident woman!
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The eyes have it
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Legs first, then ass and then everything else. Women are just too sexy!
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boobs
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I'd have to say like their general appearance. Are they cute, then smile eyes and what their wearing.
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It has to be her eyes and smile. The way she walks and talks etc .
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shawnababy wrote:You are all such bad liars Yes we are! I look at her legs and ass!!!
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To be honest her ass will always be on top of the list, but her hair, smile and eyes are right up there with being a priority. A personality is important, but if i'm just taking a look and have no intention on pursuing a conversation then her personality doesn't mean a whole hell of a lot.
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A girls beautiful hair is what gets my attention.
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ok i admit it its usually legs then the eyes
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How big his bill fold is .....
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definitely the eyes , need to know if the smile matches the eyes.
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I always look first at her face, to see her expression, as defined in her eyes, her smile, and observe her body language. It speaks volumes about the woman inside, if she is real or a stylistic expression of what she pretends to be.
If she is an 'act', I still allow my eyes to slowly take in the total picture, after all, she wants to advertise, and she appreciates the audience. Then I can relish their beauty, appreciate their curves and wish for a night, but little more.
But when I see a woman with real expression, that her eyes are alive, and her smile is real, and that her body language is in tune, then I really want to know her better... to create a lifetime of memories.
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shawnababy wrote:You are all such bad liars I first notice their lips to see if they are smiling or snarling, then their eyes because they are the windows to their soul, and then their boobs because I was breast fed as an infant and have been a life-long tittie lover. And that's the gospel truth. 
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To answer this question I really had to analyze my own behaviour as a lot of it is instinctive. I suppose it depends on what the situation is. If I'm ogling girls on the street or the metro I notice their legs then the rest of their bodies and faces. However if it's in a conversation I only focus on what social interaction is going on and don't really think in sexual terms straight away I just let any chemistry sort of develop like it would if I was making friends with a man. A man friend who is an incurable womanizer once told me ''they like you because you have no side you're so damn wizziwig.'' When I was younger very attractive girls would be sort of daunting but experience has taught me that if you're reasonably behaved and genuinely interested in someone such things are the least to worry about. It's an all embracing thing with me and each one is different and all have their own beauty as I do find women tremendously attractive and would rather have dinner with one than exchange sexual reminiscences with my friends in a bar.
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Greater distance =entire package ( OR ) general appearance & the way she moves, dresses hair color & length
Closer: Face, Smile, Eyes, teeth,
Closer yet; ability to carry on an interesting conversation.&n whether or not she displays an sense of humor.
Some where between length &closer Iv already looked at her fiogure..
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Im a ass man. So a nice butt always catches my eye
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tuffer3 wrote:Im a ass man. So a nice butt always catches my eye gud bulge catches my eyes
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if im behind her.. then the ass, but if im in front of her then i notice the eyes first
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