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i have had a ffm threesome on two occasions, the first time with a girlfriend at the time and someone we met, which was great for me! the second time was with two girls i met at a festival, was good fun if a little difficult as was in a tent...and probably looking back at it not very subtle! from a guys point of view though both times were great. would be interesting to see the difference with mmf but i dont know how that would be...a little awkward?
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My first threesome was an MMF. We were all in our mid-twenties and she was very much the most confident and most predatory of the three of us.
In honestly, neither me nor my mate saw it coming and neither of us had been that close to another bloke's erect cock before!!
To us it was just 'come down to my folks place for the weekend, see a gig, get drunk.'
Although, I remember that we both wanted her as our 'proper girlfriend'.
My memories of what unfolded from about 01:00 that morning are amazing but left me with a crushing emotional hangover.
It was also the beginning of the end of my friendship with the other M, but despite that I don't regret it at all. Indeed one of my stories posted on here is based loosely on the occasion.
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madhatttr wrote:i have had a ffm threesome on two occasions, the first time with a girlfriend at the time and someone we met, which was great for me! the second time was with two girls i met at a festival, was good fun if a little difficult as was in a tent...and probably looking back at it not very subtle! from a guys point of view though both times were great. would be interesting to see the difference with mmf but i dont know how that would be...a little awkward? Madhttr - it's only the Mark I Cock. Don't worry about it. Just get in about the lassie and don't worry too much what the other bloke is up to!!
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BSlain wrote:I find the idea of a threesome to be unfair. Simplest reason is the number, it's odd. I know people can argue the same amount of lovin' can be given to each person, but I don't believe that to be true. I feel that the amount of time could be shared but someone might feel left out for whatever reason specific to their situation. I suppose that's just me though, I may just be a selfish lover :p I agree completely and maybe its not being a selfish lover, but rather wanting to be enough? Wanting to be the only one who can bring your partner the satisfaction and pleasure they desire.
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Personally I would say that the ideal threesome would be three people that doesn't really know each other other than what turns each other on. But if you are a couple that's gonna do it then you need to be 100% secure and confident. Your partner could end up feeling left out and jealous, and maybe even sexually inadequate compared to your playmate. And if it happens with a friend of either of you then it can even be a bigger problem, because you have to meet this person again. I know for certain I could never be able to go through with a threesome with my girlfriend and another man. But I am sure that if I were invited to two girls then I'd more than happily say yes 
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I like the whole attention on my single partner and having a 3some or orgy will make me distracted, especially if both partners are smokin hot!  One human body on a bed is enough for me. If i go for a 3some ill need twice a number of limbs to care for all horny bodyparts. Jk! 
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I've never had one, but I imagine I would enjoy it, getting fucked in both ends at the same time.
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Ravyn wrote:
I agree completely and maybe its not being a selfish lover, but rather wanting to be enough? Wanting to be the only one who can bring your partner the satisfaction and pleasure they desire.
Well spoken...well said...I can relate to that too!
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Come on let's be honest - if you're sharing a bed with two women how long is it going to be before they're talking about shoes
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I had a girlfriend offer me a threesome with her best friend. I turned it down because what could another woman give me that I didn't already get from the girlfriend? But in hind sight, I see the girlfriend was just trying to sabotage the relationship. I should have said yes then let things end. Who knows? I may have ended up with the best friend as my girlfriend.
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I love 3-somes or 4-somes. All with just guys.... Quite sexy to have your cock sucked at the same time when you're being fucked... And watching another guy also being fucked at the same time...
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I love 3somes. I have done MMF, MMM, and MFF. Loved them all. And yes I would do them again. Of course they only work best when all partners are open and willing. It's fun to participate with your partners and fun to just watch as they pleasure each other too.
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Threesomes are great. The down side is the guy's sensitive ego might get bruised.
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personaly i like one on one because there is more action envolved and less jealousy. more cock and pussy vs fighting over cock and pussy. Though it must be pleasure for the guys i must admit. I've been in a couple 3somes and have enjoyed them but over all i'd rather have one on one.
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I think that it will change many friendships, because most aren't used to seeing their friends in that way...also the drunk threesomes are the ones you'll truly regret. A very strong relationship where you both are turned on by the idea of the threesome is best, and I would also suggest that third person being someone you aren't very attached too. Threesomes have a weird dynamic.
They can, however, be extremely erotic if all three members interact with each other. In FFM, I'd encourage the two women to at least kiss a bit so that no one's left in the dust. Same for men, but usually they are more stubborn about it. The key would be that two of the three are actually fucking, and the third would receive oral, so as not to be left out.
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I love the idea, und the thought is overwhelming,to see 2 guys in bed with you , both wanting to please you ...and their self ...und knowing how good it would feel ....no jealousy. just hot fun .....what could be better for a girl. im really not in to falling in love.....what i want most is friendship.....in love ..means ...giving heart away ....no thanks ...been there done that ....not again for me . i didd get a lot of this....... 
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Communication is crucial, especially if two of the participants are in a relationship with each other. There is always a possibility for jealousy and remember it does not have to be rational. Keep expectations and feelings in the open or someone might get hurt. Know your partners' preferences and outlooks before initiating.
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The downside is that the other man in a MMF may suddenly turn bi-sexual on you when you're not or at the other extreme go to sleep after one fuck and then his GF decides you're the much better lover and you have to deal with that. I suspect it can go that way with a FFM, too. It almost always gets complicated somehow.
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3 somes are great in whichever combo they come both being bi has an advantage there though. Only once did we have a I wouldn't say bad but more not what we expected so always research how you all would like things to work out.
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I've had two and loved them both. Both MMF and I adored being the centre of attention. The best one was with my two lovers and at one moment, I lay sandwiched between them and we all felt very close. Just wanted to stay that way and live like that. Both times, the men have been straight so I'm waiting for my first " triangle" type experience. Yum yum.
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Have many mff&usually with 2 bi gals&if 1 wasnt at fist,she usuajly was very satisified@the end!. I just watchf those 2 piay&got xtra horny&waitf 4 my turn with my gf&learnt heaps&heaps bout what the girls can show us guys!
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While I have not had a threesome, it is high on my list of things I want to do. I have been very close, but not to the point of saying it was accomplished. My husband and I have, however, had a foursome with another couple. It was an experience worth having, but after a couple times with these friends, things kind of got to an awkward stage. There is so much more to keep in mind than just the few minutes of physical activity. I think porn movies have given a lot of people a very confused message about how these encounters really do work, because in real life, people aren't picture perfect and not everyone performs magnificently at the perfect time. They can be very complicated and require some real emotional effort with your partner.
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LOVE them both MMF and FFM ...
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the only FMF threesomes I found that worked were where both girls were bi, that way when the male is drained, the girls can carry on and satisfy each other. The sight of two girls enjoying each other usually has a very positive effect on the man's recovery. So far I have not found any man who can completely satisfy myself and another girl on a single session. Or maybe I am just too greedy.
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Great if everyone can handle it
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It's a double edge sword IMO... I have only with fmf and have maintained sane
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With the right people it can be a lovely experience
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I have had a few with my husband and as long as you pick the other woman and he is a little nervous that you will get upset, hurt or even ruin your marriage then you should go for it, they are very intense and you will not be sorry (please be cautious on his reactions) it's better to have a stable lovelife than no love at all
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I have been in several threesomes. They can be very tricky. I found that it is very important to set some basic ground rules. The problem I found was that until I was actually involved in one, I didn't know what my reaction would be. So I couldn't really set any ground rules for the first one. Now I know this sounds strange, but I had absolutely no problem with my wife sucking the guy's cock or fucking him. What bothered me is when he showed any kind of emotion towards her. Like kissing her or even something as innocent as stroking her arm. That bugged the crap out of me. So the next time we did it with this guy, I told him to lay off of any of that kind of stuff. And I also set some ground rules in other threesomes I have had, all of which have been MFM deals with the woman either my wife or a gf.
The other thing that the woman has to be very careful of is making sure that she treats the whole thing on a rather impersonal way. It's just sex. It's not love or even like sometimes. This is much easier for men than it is for women. I know from reading posts about MFM threesomes that some guys really don't care if the wife or gf gets really into it with lots of kissing and hugging and so forth. That's not me.
One of the things that I really appreciated while my wife was being fucked by the other guy is that she kept looking at me with love in her eyes. That meant a lot to me. It didn't help that this guy had a much bigger dick than I do and I also knew that my wife got off on really big cocks.
I am in the process now of setting up a FMF threesome because before I kick the bucket I really want to experience two women taking turns sucking my cock. I had that experience once when I was in my twenties but I was too young and too dumb to really appreciate what was going on. At the time I wanted them to stop sucking my cock so I could fuck one of them who I thought was incredibly hot. All I could think about was fucking her.
Oh, and one other thing. I think it is risky to get involved in a threesome with one of your friends. It is much better to hook up with a stranger (as long as safe sex is practiced to the degree possible) because you can meet in a hotel or motel and when it's over you can all walk away and never have to see or deal with the other person again if you don't want to. For example, if it is you and your wife or gf and you hook up with one of your buddies and he likes fucking your mate and she gets off on what he can do for her that maybe you can't, it's just too easy for the two of them to get it on behind your back. With Craig's List and sexual bulletin boards all over the net it is very easy to find a threesome partner.
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