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Jinxy
Posted: Wednesday, March 06, 2013 7:35:05 PM

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Joined: 10/10/2012
Posts: 2,827
Location: †Jinxy Approved†, United States
I sway more submissive but can be Dominate.

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BelleduJour
Posted: Wednesday, March 06, 2013 10:02:42 PM

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Joined: 11/13/2011
Posts: 1,509
Location: Canada
Well, I'm not sure if you're talking BDSM and if you are, I'm really not into that kind of sub/dom sex HOWEVER if you're asking about being sub/dom in terms of taking over in the bedroom and taking the initiative, I am very comfortable playing either role. It just depends on my man and the moment. Most of the time, it will start off one way and end up the other and that is just fine by me - a little tit for tat is always good.

aussiephil
Posted: Wednesday, March 06, 2013 11:35:59 PM

Rank: Advanced Wordsmith

Joined: 6/4/2011
Posts: 56
Location: Mount Isa
Dominant/submissive
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 06, 2013 11:45:53 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
I am more submissive. :)
Guest
Posted: Thursday, March 07, 2013 1:44:12 PM

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Posts: 537,397
Def more submissive.
Echo88
Posted: Saturday, March 09, 2013 11:36:51 PM

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Joined: 5/23/2012
Posts: 44
Location: United States
Submissive for sure
Andee
Posted: Sunday, March 10, 2013 12:01:56 PM

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Joined: 3/7/2013
Posts: 123
Location: Mostly the couch, Canada
I tend to be the submissive, but we don't have a relationship that is defined in those kind of "Fifty Shades" roles

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 11:31:10 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
I am both, somewhat, if i feel safe i can give my world away, however, I do like to take control sometimes, especially in the beginning of foreplay. ( I do like to see the pleasure on his face)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 14, 2013 11:43:33 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
Tend to be a little bit of both but more on the submissive side when it comes to my male partners.
paul_moadib
Posted: Monday, April 15, 2013 1:32:59 AM

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Joined: 3/31/2013
Posts: 497
Location: Docking bay 94
Dominant one.
Jack_42
Posted: Monday, April 15, 2013 3:23:06 AM

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Joined: 8/21/2009
Posts: 986
Location: Prague, Czech Republic
A friend who is a psychologist and I were discussing sex and I said my priority is pleasing the other person and he said that is submissive - yet I am not actually lying there passively whilst my partner does things to me but I am the one doing things to her. Not sure if that is submissive - though in his terminology my first priority is what determines the issue in his technical sense?
Soleillalune
Posted: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 3:17:47 AM

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Joined: 1/29/2013
Posts: 2,074
Location: If I was in your pants you'd know, United States
Submissive preferring dominate Loooooving man Big Hugs

janet_haney
Posted: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 6:49:09 AM

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Joined: 1/7/2013
Posts: 254
Location: United States
Dominate, but not in a formal BDSM sort of way.
Metilda
Posted: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 8:45:47 PM

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Joined: 3/10/2013
Posts: 983
Location: United States
I am whatever he needs me to be - does that make me a submissive or a switch?

Lately - he's been ill - so I've been the dominant and calling a lot of the shots.

When he's feeling better it'll switch around.

Whatever thrills him - I'm happy

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AudioLee
Posted: Wednesday, April 17, 2013 9:00:19 PM

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Joined: 4/17/2013
Posts: 16
Location: United States
I don't think we know yet in our relationship... maybe we're still working it out. Or maybe it goes back and forth as things change and develop.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, April 18, 2013 1:06:33 AM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )
Ravyn
Posted: Thursday, April 18, 2013 1:35:12 AM

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Joined: 4/26/2010
Posts: 2,089
Location: Bend, United States
I am a mother of two so outwardly I am very much in control, but my true inner self is very much a different person.

kamdev58
Posted: Thursday, April 18, 2013 5:37:20 AM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 8/14/2012
Posts: 7
Location: United States
Mystic_Angel_77 wrote:
I am more submissive -( but i think it also depends on who you are with )

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.



Naughty_Nurse
Posted: Thursday, April 18, 2013 6:47:06 AM

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Joined: 9/29/2012
Posts: 597
Location: Netherlands
We are quite equal, but if I have to choose I'm more dominant. (I'm not in a BDSM relationship)

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SeaSiren
Posted: Friday, April 19, 2013 1:06:08 PM

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Joined: 2/19/2013
Posts: 564
Location: Gulf Coast, United States
I am certainly submissive & He is strongly Dominant
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 9:57:00 AM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
We used to swap ;)
sprite
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 10:11:58 AM

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Joined: 6/18/2010
Posts: 14,585
Location: My Tower, United States
kamdev58 wrote:

generally,all woman are made submissive,first they take time to decide whether to get his seed or not,once they like,they simply surrender and open their legs,inviting to make them pregnant.only just for variety or when not satisfy by male,they take act in theit hand,and get self satisfaction.





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foxjack
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 8:55:26 PM

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Joined: 4/25/2010
Posts: 712
Location: Pierre, United States
When I meet new people I restrain myself until I get to know them so I don't offend them too much, this applies to relationships too, until I get to know here limits I'll play it on the safe side.

Now, once we've been together for a while I tend to be the more dominant one, but if she wants to take control of things I won't stop her from spicing things up :)
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 9:35:27 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
I am very submissive, but I also have times where I can be dominate.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 9:38:51 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
i am submissive
Z1992
Posted: Sunday, April 21, 2013 11:02:19 PM

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Joined: 1/29/2013
Posts: 44
Location: United States
I'm dominant. Unless she is on top, then she is dominant.
arabianny8
Posted: Friday, April 26, 2013 7:14:48 AM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 12/26/2012
Posts: 1
Location: kamloops, Canada
I am submissive I aim to please. I enjoy giving pleasure.
Guest
Posted: Friday, April 26, 2013 8:27:29 PM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
Posts: 537,397
I have always been submissive
Guest
Posted: Monday, April 29, 2013 9:55:51 AM

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Joined: 12/1/2006
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We are equals. Sometimes I take control sometimes she does.
Dfg99
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 8:25:26 PM

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Joined: 4/2/2013
Posts: 15
Location: United States
Sub but tries for some measure of equality with my love.
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