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frogman1
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 6:22:18 PM

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Ok I may get a lot of flak over this, what’s the best way to know if she wants a quickie (quick and fast) or the long lasting ( slow hard and all night). Been told “is that it” and “stop it doesn’t have to be a marathon” any advice ??
RickeO
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 9:37:55 PM

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Well, maybe talk a little before just to see if you're both on the same page, go with the flow, or find a happy medium.
BelleduJour
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 9:42:53 PM

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I agree with RickeO, try communicating with each other. I'm still so surprised that 'talking' is the last thing that crosses men and women's mind when it comes to sex. Geez tard

Guest
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 10:01:56 PM

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Mhmm They both have their place, but I prefer the long all night. With lot's of kissing and tasting. Just me!
YourWildestFantasy
Posted: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 10:19:31 PM

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I agree with some of the other comments on here. Next time you slip inside of her, lean down and whisper in her ear. Tell her how hot she's got you, how bad you need it. Then, ask her, "How do you want it tonight, baby? Quick and hard? Or slow and sensual?" Love it when a guy asks me like that!
miss_petitepussy
Posted: Wednesday, May 01, 2013 4:38:29 PM

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Both are preferred. It really depends on the moment. Go with the flow. I like to switch it up. Nice and slow all nighters are with those I connect with. Quickies in the morning or unexpected moments in random places.
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Posted: Friday, May 03, 2013 1:33:04 AM

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frogman1 wrote:
Ok I may get a lot of flak over this, what’s the best way to know if she wants a quickie (quick and fast) or the long lasting ( slow hard and all night).


A quickie occurs on the kitchen counter top, washing machine lid, back deck in the hammock in the afternoon, or in the data communications closet on the unpopulated 14th floor.

Everything else is - take your time, pardner.

That's the short answer.

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Posted: Friday, May 03, 2013 1:34:01 AM

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There's a time and a place for both.. Ask her. Mind you, if you are locked in the bathroom at a friends house during a party or in a club....personally I would go with the quickie.

frogman1
Posted: Saturday, May 04, 2013 11:14:43 AM

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oh we have talked about this and many other things along this line, she just sometimes doesn't understand how someone can want her like i do and want to plesure her first. She was in a very one way relationship before I came along. She enjoys the long oral pleasure that i give her and that she can cum just from that and gush like she does LOl wish I love!!!
psychiee
Posted: Thursday, May 16, 2013 3:41:53 PM

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YourWildestFantasy wrote:
I agree with some of the other comments on here. Next time you slip inside of her, lean down and whisper in her ear. Tell her how hot she's got you, how bad you need it. Then, ask her, "How do you want it tonight, baby? Quick and hard? Or slow and sensual?" Love it when a guy asks me like that!

From a rookie scribe... really hot comment... I agree it is such a shame.. that somehow romance has been chased out of sex... it is because of mechanical pull and push has become more important that what ones partner seeks, has taken the back seat .. particularly it can be heaven if one can make the girl too actively participate rather than think she is just fulfilling a chore...and wait for the man to roll over and start snoring... L O L!
I just LOVE the suggestion...I always whisper how pretty she is ..
Guest
Posted: Thursday, May 16, 2013 7:54:22 PM

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That depends on so many factors. How long has it been since you had sex, for example, and how badly do you want it now. Passion drives often for a so-called quickie and if you have time (make time!) that can stretch into a longie, hours, days...If you are sentient and empathic, you can tell when you need a quickie and women are often both more knowing about this as well as more flexible. However...if all you give her is a quickie that gets you off and not her, you'd better make it up later. To me the best of all is a long protracted session of flirting, seduction, foreplay, and then longie 'til dawn or so. On the other hand, a quickie can break the "ice" so to speak...again women can be "right forward" about their needs (thank goodness!). If you pick her up for a dinner date and she's licking your cock before you pull out of the driveway, she'll probably be wanting a quickie, you know? So pull back IN the driveway and make her cum once or twice before heading back out to dinner. Be a gentleman.
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Posted: Monday, June 24, 2013 12:14:39 PM

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Ok as other people have said - It Depends. If I am crazy horny and all I have available to me is a quickie then lets do it. However, there is nothing like a slow and long sex session with someone you are completely comfortable with and want to please them in anyway possible for as long as it takes.
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Posted: Monday, June 24, 2013 1:13:45 PM

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My CHOICE, LONG! I want to be tired and sticky!! But what ever time lets you do is what I'll do

countrygirl58
Posted: Saturday, January 25, 2014 10:04:49 PM

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I say go with the flow and see how things go. I like it both ways but slow and sensual is so sexy....
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Posted: Wednesday, January 29, 2014 6:36:26 PM

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I love a good quickie with the attitude about it. However, there is nothing like an all night of passion and sex.
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Posted: Friday, January 31, 2014 8:00:42 AM

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Both have benefits a quickie with the promise of a long slow all nighter when time permits
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Posted: Friday, January 31, 2014 8:30:48 AM

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Two words: "situation" and "communication"

Situation = Sometimes one is more appropriate. Trinket's example of a bathroom tryst at a friend's party, for example. Office sex would be another probable quickie (unless it was after hours in an otherwise empty office)

Communication = Establish going in what she wants and let her know what you're after. If she just wants to get off and get going, then you're into a quickie regardless of situation. If she's in need of some serious, slow, sensual lovin', then be prepared for a marathon. If you need something different than her, then you need to find out how to accommodate both needs.


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Posted: Saturday, February 01, 2014 8:53:58 PM

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blackteengirl
Posted: Friday, February 28, 2014 1:41:44 AM

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Chances of getting caught. ..... Go for quickie otherwise delayed lovemaking

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Posted: Friday, February 28, 2014 4:57:07 AM

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I personally like both. A quickie is so great, when you are overcome with lust and you just need to have him right now or you are somewhere not completely private. A long night of slow lovemaking can be great too. Discovering and just caressing, taking your time. However there is such a thing as too long.
But I'm going off topic here. You can try to read the situation the way she acts. But the best way to make it satisfactory for both of you is to just talk about what you want. I know not what most guys want to hear.

Frank
Posted: Friday, February 28, 2014 5:24:01 AM

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blackteengirl wrote:
Chances of getting caught. ..... Go for quickie otherwise delayed lovemaking


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