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Ryario_Darkstar
Posted: Sunday, May 05, 2013 11:49:53 PM

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So after many years of complaining I finally lost my virginity, (I broke down and hired an escort)

However the problem is I barely felt anything it wasn't bad by any means its just I was really into it because I could barely feel it. And she was trying so hard but she couldn't keep up and she just couldn't keep up and eventually collapsed and couldnt go on.

My questions is anyone else like this:
That they can barely feel anything

Is this a good thing or a bad thing to have. ( I can see it being good for being able to go awhile before climaxing. But if the partner can't handle it the guy wont climax at all.)

Well at least I know now what its like.

Anyone can answer and comment not just guys.
pricklypear
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 4:09:45 PM

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yeah....i don't know what to tell you.
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 5:00:09 PM

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I don't know what to tell you either however I am very curious to see what others might post about this.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 8:57:10 PM

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6 Sounds like a personal problem. evil4

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VanGogh
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 9:51:10 PM

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Ryario_Darkstar wrote:
However the problem is I barely felt anything


ok ... I have to ask ... what do you mean you barely felt anything? were you wearing a condom??

this leads to other questions ....

when you masturbate, do you feel the skin of your hand on your cock?

when you entered her vagina, did you feel the slippery warm wet around your cock? (perhaps not because of the condom, if you wore one)

perhaps she was TOO loose? (hate to say that)

maybe try anal ... that may be tighter ... you'd feel that!

what about when you get a blowjob - do you feel that?? the pressure of the mouth, tongue, sucking??

.... gosh ... lots of questions!! confused1



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Brandi
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 10:06:47 PM

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I'm with PersonalAssistant. We need some info in order to help.
What DO you feel ?
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 06, 2013 10:31:32 PM

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There are so many variables to this equation, without further input no resolution is possible, only speculations.

You felt nothing physically? You may have developed neurosthenia, often caused by prolonged cockring use.
You felt nothing emotionally? What did you bring to the table? Were you going for the "girlfriend experience" or just standard prostitute behavior?
You felt nothing spiritually? Did you try to "connect" with the person within the escort?

What was it she couldn't keep up with? Were you using a boner enhancer like Viagra or Cialis? See above neurosthenia, as some men have said they feel detached from their penis when using these.
Did you try to bond with her? Did you expect to? Most genuine escorts are VERY expensive (we're talking $5000 minimum); was she a cheaper version? *caveat emptor* you get what you pay for.
What did you expect to feel? Empowered? Did you make your expectations known beforehand?

More data is required.
ManInNewHampshire
Posted: Tuesday, May 07, 2013 7:47:12 AM

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I agree with all of above. But if you felt nothing physically a doctor visit would be my first suggestion.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, May 07, 2013 10:05:32 AM

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Too much masturbation. Your grip might be much tighter than a vagina and you probably stroke yourself at a much faster tempo, and if you've only used your hand for all those years then it can be a problem to adjust. Especially with a condom on. All you can do is stop jerking off for a while.
WellMadeMale
Posted: Tuesday, May 07, 2013 11:29:53 AM

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Since you were a virgin and had not clue one what you were doing or supposed to do or what you should have expected (note: your hand is not the equivalent of a female's vagina (nor her mouth))...and I bet you didn't inform the escort that you were a virgin - out of embarrassment, most likely.... she had no idea herself about your lack of knowledge.

Not all condoms fit properly, nor are they all manufactured the same. Some are thicker and some are thinner and if you have an average sized penis when erect - you're not going to be able to wear a Magnum condom. No how, no way...that fucker is slipping off. You want the condom to fit snug and not slip off or - break. Don't be carrying around a condom in your back pocket for months or weeks or even days. Purchase a new pack of them on the day you plan to pay for your next piece of tail.

I don't know where you're located but there are a few decent condom manufacturers and none of them supply those coin operated devices you might find at a truck stop.

Get real with yourself and lower your expectations, talk to your next service provider and inform her that you don't know the first thing about how to fuck and your only means of information is what you've seen watching 10 years of bad porno on the internet tube channels. There is no shame in being ignorant or a virgin (we all are both at first) the shame is in being and staying - stupid.

Your escort may not have been properly lubricated herself. We don't know - we weren't there, we can only make assumptions.

Fortunately, you only let yourself down in this situation and you didn't scar some other curious virgin in the process. Lost virginity indeed. evil4

Incidentally, not every woman's pussy is going to feel the same around our erect cocks. Some feel better, some - you aren't going to feel no matter what position you try to shift yourself into.

That's just the way it is, Mr Darkstar.

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, May 07, 2013 12:39:57 PM

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Ryario_Darkstar wrote:
So after many years of complaining I finally lost my virginity, (I broke down and hired an escort)

because I could barely feel it. .


The only time i have ever felt a lack of sensation (i.e. loose and very wet) was after the girl I was shagging had just been shagged by someone else....so being an escort, theres a chance that maybe just happened. Normally women will be tighter, which will then heighten the feeling you get. If that wasnt what happened then i have no idea what to tell you.
Jason_NYC
Posted: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 8:46:31 AM

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she was trying so hard but she couldn't keep up and she just couldn't keep up and eventually collapsed and couldnt go on.


Seriously, Dude, I've never heard this mentioned as a problem before. Love to know what the Ladies have to say.
Ryario_Darkstar
Posted: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 4:23:25 PM

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I wouldnt say i felt nothing I did feel the heat and the moisture, I guess I thought it would be more incridble than that and it was a last minute thing so I did jerk off eairler without the knowledge of hooking up with someone
kylie_kained
Posted: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 5:59:06 PM

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This is a tactic often used by escorts and hookers to extract money in a very quick and calculated manor, often used with 1st timers who would often be scared to complain. How do I know this simple answer; I shared a house with a couple of working girls for around a year.
















Ryario_Darkstar
Posted: Wednesday, May 08, 2013 9:13:37 PM

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Ahh said the blind man
elitfromnorth
Posted: Friday, May 10, 2013 4:16:39 PM

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As many have mentioned, condom could be a factor(if you used one). There's a world of difference between a "normal" condom and one of the thinner types.

Also even just slightly adjusting the angle can do a lot too. Did that and it went from being super really awesome good to super really extra awesome good, and it wasn't by much I(or her, can't really tell) adjusted. So small details can mean a whole lot to the sensation, especially if you wore a condom.

Or it could just be the hooker trick that kyliekained mentioned. You haven't really given us much to go on.

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
Ryario_Darkstar
Posted: Friday, May 10, 2013 8:51:37 PM

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Well it was a lot better this time round. I think I just was expecting too much really.
elitfromnorth
Posted: Saturday, May 11, 2013 4:53:38 AM

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Ryario_Darkstar wrote:
Well it was a lot better this time round. I think I just was expecting too much really.


Or that geek

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
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