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DamonX
Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 2:13:51 PM

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I've been with a few girls that get really turned on by the act of cheating on their significant other. I, for one, love being with a girl when I know she's cheating on some other guy.

Do any females out there get turned on by cheating?
Lisa
Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 2:32:15 PM

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Each to their own, but it's more of a turn-off than a turn-on to me. I'm not comfortable with the idea of being someone's bit on the side. I don't want to be with a man who's breaking the trust of another woman to be with me. It's just not my thing.

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Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 3:00:07 PM

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Lisa wrote:
Each to their own, but it's more of a turn-off than a turn-on to me. I'm not comfortable with the idea of being someone's bit on the side. I don't want to be with a man who's breaking the trust of another woman to be with me. It's just not my thing.



Same



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Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 5:08:46 PM

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Total turn off....

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 5:12:28 PM

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techgoddess wrote:
Total turn off....



I know this is in the ask the gals section but cheating is a huge turn off.
DamonX
Posted: Tuesday, February 02, 2010 5:33:25 PM

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It seems people are missing the question. Do YOU get turned on by cheating?
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 03, 2010 9:01:22 PM

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It depends, do you mean as a fantasy in a story, yea sure, there are some incredible cheating stories. But in my personal life, no.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 04, 2010 12:11:40 AM

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I know it is the women's section but it is a slow night on the forum.

I think you would have to be a pervert to get off on cheating. What kind of relationship could one possibly have where fucking someone over turns them on? What kind of life would one have being that kind of person?
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 04, 2010 3:43:43 AM

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Kyle wrote:
I know it is the women's section but it is a slow night on the forum.

I think you would have to be a pervert to get off on cheating. What kind of relationship could one possibly have where fucking someone over turns them on? What kind of life would one have being that kind of person?


Well said!
Guest
Posted: Thursday, February 04, 2010 9:46:45 AM

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DamonX wrote:
It seems people are missing the question. Do YOU get turned on by cheating?



It seems to me you missed the answers looks like so far it's a big NO!!!!
Dontholien
Posted: Monday, February 08, 2010 10:34:00 AM

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No, its not a turn on at all. In fact its bloody heartbreaking and totaly emotionally draining. I cant imagine anyone who would be happy with that situation.
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Posted: Monday, February 08, 2010 11:25:10 AM

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No way...
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Posted: Wednesday, February 10, 2010 12:42:09 AM

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ali2teaseu wrote:
Kyle wrote:
I know it is the women's section but it is a slow night on the forum.

I think you would have to be a pervert to get off on cheating. What kind of relationship could one possibly have where fucking someone over turns them on? What kind of life would one have being that kind of person?


Well said!


Okay, fine and good...but what we're turned on by and what we are smart enough to seek in long-term relationships aren't necessarily the same things, right? Yes, everyone's lining up to say 'no', one by one, and I'm sure they're sincere answers, but I think it misses the point to argue that it doesn't turn one on because it's a bad idea in a relationship. Lots of impractical things serve as turn-ons for various people.

I say: YES.

Cheating/Infidelity/Fooling Around is a potent and dangerous concept, and potent, dangerous things often turn me on. Does this mean I target kept women in life, or look for opportunities to cheat on girlfriends I've had? No, it doesn't. Who among us aren't aroused by naughty things?
lisaswe
Posted: Wednesday, February 10, 2010 6:20:04 AM

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actually no, it's not a turn-on.. well it's not a turn-off either for me, as I do not think about that during.. you know..
LadyX
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Ya its a turn on. I like the power to sway somebody. Not like I have to have it to get turned on but to think about how dirty and wrong it is, thats hot I admit, lol.
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Posted: Wednesday, February 10, 2010 9:56:05 PM

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I have never cheated on someone ~ I figure it's a lot less heartbreaking if I break the relationship off before disrobing and playing with other person!

So ~ cheating is not a turn on for me.

Now ... if the question was .... Do you find it a turn on to have your partner cheating on their significant other WITH you as the "other person" ~ the answer MAY be different! hehehe Shhh

Van
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Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 12:39:45 AM

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Somebody must get turned on by it or the "loving wives" category would not be so incredibly popular...I think second only to incest on Lush...and I have a "loving wife" story with more views than my recent incest story...so, someone finds it a turn-on...perhaps not actually doing it, but the fantasy of it...


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WellMadeMale
Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 7:52:05 AM

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There are a lot of posters here, who have never set a virtual foot inside any of the Lush Chatrooms.

Can you imagine how many story readers and authors @ Lush, who have never visited the forum section yet?

If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
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Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 10:00:00 AM

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Yes, cheating is a turn on. The rush of excitement when you are about to meet them and then the moment takes over and it´s too powerful to resist. There´s some guilt afterwards, but even when you try to tell yourself it´s the last time, you know inside it won´t be.
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Posted: Thursday, February 11, 2010 11:20:30 AM

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Kyle wrote:
I know it is the women's section but it is a slow night on the forum.

I think you would have to be a pervert to get off on cheating. What kind of relationship could one possibly have where fucking someone over turns them on? What kind of life would one have being that kind of person?


agreed
ShaniceHaughton85
Posted: Friday, February 12, 2010 4:48:28 AM

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VanGogh wrote:

I have never cheated on someone ~ I figure it's a lot less heartbreaking if I break the relationship off before disrobing and playing with other person!

So ~ cheating is not a turn on for me.

Now ... if the question was .... Do you find it a turn on to have your partner cheating on their significant other WITH you as the "other person" ~ the answer MAY be different! hehehe Shhh

Van


Same
castlequeen
Posted: Friday, February 12, 2010 10:23:19 AM

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Cheating in a fantasy, maybe, (no, definitely, not maybe) but in real life? Never happen. We've had ten blissful years of total honesty and open communication, so any issues that might lead to it get sorted out long before they become problems. Besides, any woman that even LOOKS at hubby with that thought is obviously dealing with a death wish.

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WellMadeMale
Posted: Friday, February 12, 2010 11:02:29 AM

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When I was 19, I cheated on my 18 year old gf - the reasoning in my immature mind then was - retaliation for her having done so 'to me' a few weeks earlier. Mark that one up to stupidity - as I felt some remorse later.

When I was 31, I technically cheated on my fiancee (who I knew had cheated on me with a good male friend the previous weekend) and the next morning I broke off the engagement with the woman. I did not feel one ounce of remorse, regret nor guilt.

There have been a few times in my 20's and late 30's when I wasn't seeing anyone on an even remotely monogamous basis, and I am fairly sure at least a half dozen sexual encounters were with women who were stepping out on their husbands. Some were one-and-done fuck-n-chucks, a couple were brief month long flings. I felt no guilt nor remorse. I did begin to question my sanity, after being confronted and accosted in a grocery store parking lot by the estranged husband of one of the women in 1998. I knew she was married, she told me she was...separated. 14 years, the last six, they lived in the same house - in different areas of the house (by her account) - staying together for their two children. After I learned there were younger kids involved I backed out of that situation, but a week later...the extremely upset husband confronted me while I was placing bags of food in my vehicle for a little heart-to-heart. I did feel some remorse for that situation. He admitted that yes, they lived apart in the same house, but that he was still madly in love with his wife and hoped for reconciliation...and he asked me as politely as one can in that situation - to stay the fuck away from 'my wife'. And I did.

I later learned from her, two years on, that her husband committed suicide...on their former bed, on Christmas morning 2000. Distraught over his marriage situation and her ongoing dalliances. I have not heard from her since that January day in 2001.

I have learned that the internet is a great place for cheating spouses to hook up. But since 1998 I have taken to fairly 'extreme' measures to ensure that I am not messing around with another man's wife, or another guy's girlfriend/fiancee. The online dating websites are rife with remorseless liars of both genders.

I will do a lot of risky and adventurous 'things' for the pursuit of a good time...but getting whacked is not one of them.

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HunkySpunk
Posted: Friday, February 12, 2010 4:48:22 PM

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No, not at all. Cheating=BAD haha
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Wednesday, February 17, 2010 4:50:17 PM

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Seems I have done it all! I have cheated (but then broken up with the guy a week later), I have been cheated on and I have been 'the other woman'... technically it's not cool...
BUT if I'm being totally honest, if its just sex, it can be incredibly hot...
Not that I'm advocating...


LadyX
Posted: Thursday, February 18, 2010 7:12:07 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
Seems I have done it all! I have cheated (but then broken up with the guy a week later), I have been cheated on and I have been 'the other woman'... technically it's not cool...
BUT if I'm being totally honest, if its just sex, it can be incredibly hot...
Not that I'm advocating...


lol me neither, dont want people to get hurt just to get hurt, but ya cheating is a rush in the moment, thats no lie. I have done it and I have broken up with the guy afterward. Comes down to the fact that I dont look around for another if I am satisfied with the one I've got.
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Posted: Monday, March 15, 2010 4:31:43 PM

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Extreme Turn on. Could it be just a one time thing? Or do you mean repeated times with the same person? That seems to loose the excitement. But I can understand how some would be turned off.

Is it cheating if your husband knows about your sexual partner or knows that when you are out alone there is a good chance you will end up in a sexual situation.?
DamonX
Posted: Wednesday, March 17, 2010 9:13:20 PM

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WHR43 wrote:
Extreme Turn on. Could it be just a one time thing? Or do you mean repeated times with the same person? That seems to loose the excitement. But I can understand how some would be turned off.

Is it cheating if your husband knows about your sexual partner or knows that when you are out alone there is a good chance you will end up in a sexual situation.?


I agree. For some reason, the one night stand seems naughtier. Very Sexual. An ongoing affair implies an emotional connection. Although some of the hottest experiences I've had have been with a girl that has been cheating on her fiance for quite a while.


If he knows about it and likes it, then I would call that swinging.
DazzlingLove
Posted: Saturday, March 20, 2010 11:42:01 AM

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I guess to some others it is but it doesn't really appeal to me.
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Yes..
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