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Kimasa
Posted: Monday, May 20, 2013 2:15:02 PM

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Have you ever pressured a girl who won’t agree to full sex to give you a hand or blow job to relieve you and been satisfied with that as a compromise?

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Guest
Posted: Monday, May 20, 2013 2:28:30 PM

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Only the girlfriend if she's not in the mood. If I'm getting far enough with a random girl for her to agree to oral, then barring some kind of medical reason I can't see why she wouldn't want to move on to intercourse after that. And yeah pressure is the wrong word.
matt55
Posted: Monday, May 20, 2013 3:13:08 PM

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When you use the word "pressure" the answer is no. Now to ask for a bj or hj, sure.
pricklypear
Posted: Tuesday, May 21, 2013 4:21:59 AM

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pressure them? nah.

ask for a helping hand? sure.

as for bj, i never get those even when i have asked. only get excuses. cussing
hankyspanky
Posted: Tuesday, May 21, 2013 4:59:23 AM

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Of course,it shows the lady cares & wants to relieve the pressure.
Kimasa
Posted: Wednesday, May 22, 2013 5:13:17 PM

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matt55 wrote:
When you use the word "pressure" the answer is no. Now to ask for a bj or hj, sure.


Pressure can be asserted in many different ways:

Persistent requests until she gives in.

Making her feel guilty about causing your hard on in the first place and it’s her duty to do something about it.


My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, May 22, 2013 6:50:42 PM

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Using pressure sounds very shabby, indeed. Asking for one or the other seems a shade unmanly to me. If the fellow doesn't have what it takes to deal with it, I'd not respect him nor I think would his woman.
elitfromnorth
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 10:15:12 AM

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Saying "pressure" gives a really bad ring to the whole thing, like you're blackmailing her or something.

Although I've never been caught in the situation, I'd hope that my persistant nagging would finally go through in the end, or that I manage to find ways to turn her on even if she's not in the mood bootyshake

"It's at that point you realise Lady Luck is actually a hooker, and you're fresh out of cash."
Kimasa
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 11:40:20 AM

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elitfromnorth wrote:
Saying "pressure" gives a really bad ring to the whole thing, like you're blackmailing her or something.

Although I've never been caught in the situation, I'd hope that my persistant nagging would finally go through in the end, or that I manage to find ways to turn her on even if she's not in the mood bootyshake


I would say that persistent nagging is pressurising

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Fenton
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 5:20:22 PM

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I would like to think that she would not need pressure. IF refusal is a persistent problem, I would dump her.
sprite
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 5:28:36 PM

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Fenton wrote:
I would like to think that she would not need pressure. IF refusal is a persistent problem, I would dump her.


goes both ways. if a guy isn't willing to get it up for me 3 or 4 times a night, he'd better move his shit out of the house - when a girl needs an orgasm, she needs an orgasm.

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
pricklypear
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 11:13:09 PM

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sprite wrote:


goes both ways. if a guy isn't willing to get it up for me 3 or 4 times a night, he'd better move his shit out of the house - when a girl needs an orgasm, she needs an orgasm.

*re-reads your profile* book

okay, so apparently you aren't a lesbian. don't worry...your secret's safe with me. Shhh

altho now i'm curious if anything on it was factual.
tampmark122
Posted: Thursday, May 23, 2013 11:48:33 PM

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Kimasa wrote:
Have you ever pressured a girl who won’t agree to full sex to give you a hand or blow job to relieve you and been satisfied with that as a compromise?
so have you ever been pressured to do any of those things ?
sprite
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 12:54:30 AM

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pricklypear wrote:

*re-reads your profile* book

okay, so apparently you aren't a lesbian. don't worry...your secret's safe with me. Shhh

altho now i'm curious if anything on it was factual.


yes, it's all made up, after all i AM a fictional character *points to avi*

no, seriously, i was making a point... and the lesbian tag is too long of a story to go into even if i wanted to *major sigh/face palm*

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
pricklypear
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 1:04:07 AM

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sprite wrote:


yes, it's all made up, after all i AM a fictional character *points to avi*

no, seriously, i was making a point... and the lesbian tag is too long of a story to go into even if i wanted to *major sigh/face palm*

harassed by pervs, huh? :(
sprite
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 9:01:39 AM

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pricklypear wrote:

harassed by pervs, huh? :(


nope - more like, since i'm married to another woman and i don't play around with guys anymore (i actually label myself as bi) i thought it would be best to id myself as lesbian as for as the site goes - and yes, it does tend to cut down a bit on random OMs, so that's an added blessing. :)

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/hardcore/west-coast-games-part-one-the-beach.aspx
WellMadeMale
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 11:49:25 AM

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That boner who just won't go away? Why not just ask Garrett directly?


If ya can't beat 'em... pay someone to do it for you.
pricklypear
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 11:53:14 AM

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sprite wrote:


nope - more like, since i'm married to another woman and i don't play around with guys anymore (i actually label myself as bi) i thought it would be best to id myself as lesbian as for as the site goes - and yes, it does tend to cut down a bit on random OMs, so that's an added blessing. :)

ooooooh. :B

Kimasa
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 1:23:06 PM

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tampmark122 wrote:
so have you ever been pressured to do any of those things ?


Yes I have, many times.

However, you didn't answer the question, you posed another one

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Kimasa
Posted: Friday, May 24, 2013 1:27:20 PM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
That boner who just won't go away? Why not just ask Garrett directly?


I did but only found a website offering me advice on turbochargers!

My latest story:

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-school-reunion.aspx
Guest
Posted: Saturday, May 25, 2013 2:04:31 AM

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Kimasa wrote:


I would say that persistent nagging is pressurising


I would completely agree !

I never do any more than drop a hint or occasionally a blunt compliment such as "you look hot babe, i'd love to get my hands on you later" with my girlfriend ! If she then doesn't drop a sign back, i would never nag or pressure because persistant chasing is desperate and doesn't do anything for me sexually, I need to be 'wanted' or i wont enjoy the sex that follows
Guest
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 8:03:09 AM

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nope,
paul_moadib
Posted: Sunday, June 02, 2013 4:55:14 AM

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No, I don't like to pester my wife for sex. Either she's in the mood or she's not.

A girl that wants it is a turn on for me.
DrMcNasty
Posted: Sunday, June 02, 2013 6:27:25 AM

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I hate BJs. They always look so awesome on porn or pictures, like it's the best thing in the world. In reality, I get bored of them in about 1 minute. No mater what any woman has said to me: "I'm the best", "I've never had any complaints", "My lips are amazing", "You've never had a woman like me", LIES! lol. I have never had any that were worth mentioning. So the answer to your question is ... when I was in high school (10th grade, I believe), I talked my then girlfriend into giving me a BJ because I didn't have a condom so she wouldn't have sex ... was not impressed nor was I satisfied afterward. I might be a bad guy for this, but I lost interest in her that night. We broke up the next day.
ManInNewHampshire
Posted: Sunday, June 02, 2013 6:52:59 AM

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hughizzy wrote:


I would completely agree !

I never do any more than drop a hint or occasionally a blunt compliment such as "you look hot babe, i'd love to get my hands on you later" with my girlfriend ! If she then doesn't drop a sign back, i would never nag or pressure because persistant chasing is desperate and doesn't do anything for me sexually, I need to be 'wanted' or i wont enjoy the sex that follows


I completely agree. I can't imagine using any "pressure".
ChasteCuckoldDresden
Posted: Wednesday, June 05, 2013 6:36:51 AM

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male chastity would work well for you for controlling your urges
tampmark122
Posted: Thursday, August 22, 2013 7:49:26 PM

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Kimasa wrote:


Yes I have, many times.

However, you didn't answer the question, you posed another one
`yes I have .and was happy getting what I could .
SereneProdigy
Posted: Friday, August 23, 2013 12:00:57 AM

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That boner that just won't go away...



The way you ask the question seems to imply that guys need a girl around to alleviate their every erection. I take what ladies have to offer, but surely won't pressure them for anything.



VegaStyles
Posted: Thursday, August 29, 2013 1:17:11 AM

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No but I've been pressure to get a bj lol. I had to run out of the party because she was so plastered and kept pulling my boxers down... She remembered everything and hates me to this day because I "made her look like a fool"... Underwear parties...
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