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llghant
Posted: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 7:28:21 PM

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I present multiple questions...1) How do you prefer to be asked for oral? 2)If I do it for you, am I wrong to expect reciprocation?

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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 7:30:50 PM

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I agree. If I'm receiving I have no problem giving. Of course, I usually give anyway. tee hee :) I havent been asked for it in along time. It usually just happens.
Ravyn
Posted: Wednesday, March 27, 2013 8:10:30 PM

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Of course reciprocation should be given. However, many of us do not need to be asked to suck cock. As for how to ask others, that I can't really say other than to be direct depending on the person and situation of course. Tit for tat so to speak is not an unreasonable request.

meg816
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 2:08:05 AM

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I'm going to agree with the prior posters: some ladies don't need to be told to suck cock, as they do so willingly. I believe that oral is a two-way street, in that if you're going to verbally ask for a blowjob, you better be giving your lady some oral.

One time, after a date, this guy blatantly asked me: "Is there any chance in getting a blow job?" We hadn't had sex yet (and we never did), just made out. I was definitely turned off by this, and declined and went home. His asking made me feel cheap.
Kimasa
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 3:42:50 AM

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I like being told to do it, I like the feeling of submitting to someone else's demands and I don't expect or sometimes even want reciprocation. I'm happy giving.

Don't get me wrong though, I don't do it unwillingly I love doing it.

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Beckey
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 5:36:57 AM

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I like if he asks or begs for oral sex. If he demands it , it is even better
PhilAnders
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 6:05:13 AM

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I don't think anyone should ask for or demand oral sex. If it happens spontaneously, that's great.
Kimasa
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 6:30:37 AM

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PhilAnders wrote:
I don't think anyone should ask for or demand oral sex. If it happens spontaneously, that's great.


That's great if that's the way you like it but life and sex would be boring if we were all the same

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PhilAnders
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 7:08:38 AM

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Kimasa wrote:


That's great if that's the way you like it but life and sex would be boring if we were all the same



To each his or her own.
Nikki703
Posted: Thursday, March 28, 2013 7:56:09 AM

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I have never had anyone have to ask me to perform oral, man or woman. I enjoy it and am usually the one who initiates it. It is different if a guy playfully says "suck my cock" or in the heat of dirty talk says things like "suck my fucking cock like the slut you are", but thats all part of the game since he already knows Im going to willingly suck him and love doing it.

As far as reciprocation, I do expect it and 99% of the time it happens, especially with women.
Urbabygirl_1978
Posted: Friday, March 29, 2013 7:32:12 AM

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I'm a firm believer in the give and take. How can you expect someone to give it and not want something back?
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Posted: Saturday, March 30, 2013 2:35:17 PM

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I love fulfilling my man's needs without being asked and to be honest he normally doesn't have to. However, I would like him to reciprocate it ever once in a while.
ByronLord
Posted: Sunday, March 31, 2013 9:16:12 PM

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BettyBoop4U wrote:
I'm a firm believer in the give and take. How can you expect someone to give it and not want something back?


I think it is very different for men and women. I actually prefer to give than receive.

For a man oral sex is an appetizer, for a woman it is often the main course. So when a man doesn't reciprocate he is doubly neglecting his duties.

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Posted: Sunday, March 31, 2013 9:21:29 PM

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ByronLord wrote:


I think it is very different for men and women. I actually prefer to give than receive.

For a man oral sex is an appetizer, for a woman it is often the main course. So when a man doesn't reciprocate he is doubly neglecting his duties.


Agree!!!!

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BelleduJour
Posted: Monday, April 01, 2013 3:40:48 PM

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Good sex, like a relationship, is about give and take. Personally, I'm a giver and take great pleasure in pleasing my man but I do like to know that my man wants and especially enjoys pleasing me as well. There is no room for selfishness when it comes to great sex.

Frank
Posted: Monday, April 01, 2013 4:58:46 PM

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BelleduJour wrote:
Good sex, like a relationship, is about give and take. Personally, I'm a giver and take great pleasure in pleasing my man but I do like to know that my man wants and especially enjoys pleasing me as well. There is no room for selfishness when it comes to great sex.


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adeleeve
Posted: Monday, April 01, 2013 5:20:14 PM

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Love to give, I prefer my boobs played with but still enjoy him having me
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Posted: Tuesday, April 02, 2013 12:24:18 AM

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I totally believe in reciprocation. Oral doesn't always have to be requested. No one's gonna refute a blowjob or a good pussy licking. However, if you want to ask, the approach depends on the person. There's really no way of going around it other than to ask directly. If you don't feel comfortable enough to ask for it, then you don't need it.



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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 2:00:37 PM

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Beckey wrote:
I like if he asks or begs for oral sex. If he demands it , it is even better
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I insist.
pegasus2126
Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 3:22:54 PM

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I luv oral but prefer 69 until she cums but I don'tas I want to cum inside her
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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 4:23:35 PM

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I always thought it was part of the whole deal called sexual pleasure for both my partner and me.

I am not sure a guy every had to ask me, unless it was in jest.

I would be disappointed if my partner did not return the favor, even if he/she is not as skilled as they could be, but Mama is more than will to help you perfect your skills.






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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 8:34:57 PM

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I think if it's not reciprocated spontaneously within a short while, I would talk to my partner about it outside the bedroom. COMMUNICATION!! It's a cure-all for a multitude of things.
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CrazyTexan
Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 9:45:24 PM

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I don't view oral sex as a two way street. It's not something that should be treated as a "you do me I do you" sort of thing. But then again, I absolutely love performing oral sex (just look at my profile pic) so I'm not offended when she doesn't want to get on her knees for me. I'll find other ways to get myself of (hopefully with her help).
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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 10:29:42 PM

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Mmmm...Absolutely Love It:):P

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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 10:47:45 PM

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I lOVE ORAL SEX SUCKING COCK OR E ATNG PUSSY
radi0act1ve
Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 11:24:14 PM

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Quote:
1) How do you prefer to be asked for oral?

Politely. Example: Please suck my cock you filthy whore. That "please" is very important.

Quote:
2)If I do it for you, am I wrong to expect reciprocation?

Can't help you here, I hate oral. Receiving, that is. I'm happy to give it without any sort of reciprocation. Sex is not something you should use to keep score.
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Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 11:48:15 PM

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Oral is part of all sex encounters to me....foreplay at its best!
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Posted: Thursday, May 30, 2013 12:00:17 AM

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I love to give oral. If I get it back, great but being able to please my partner so completely and to hear the results of my efforts...no, that alone is enough to get me so excited that I'm ready for the main course right afterwards.

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simplyjohn
Posted: Thursday, May 30, 2013 12:33:03 AM

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I love to give oral too and would love for my partner to reciprocate. However if she really didnt want too then I would accept that ... I dont think I would enjoy it in the knowledge that she wasnt enjoying it too.
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