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doctorlove
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 3:13:05 AM

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If you have one, please list if you work together and if you re married..etc.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 3:29:03 AM

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I have one, we do not work together (thank ye Gods) and I'm not married, neither of us are, actually. We met in college and sex was the first thing we spoke about, he suggested we have sex, I gave him a blowjob and eight years down the line we still mess around together. In case you're wondering, neither of us fancy each other or have feelings of love. It's all based on sex and that's how it's staying, until one of us meets someone and then we'll stay faithful to whomever we meet.

Also, it's "etc", not "ect". It's short for et cetera, please get it correct next time.
tryagian
Posted: Thursday, October 25, 2012 1:21:36 PM

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freinds with benifits, well, since I'm married I do not cheat on my wife and never will. but I do have female friends that give me other benifits, friendship,other looks at any questions or problems, also a chance to talk to some one with different views. did those wild times they were fun but when I commetted to her Igave that part up. we both have lush accounts and are ok with fantasys with others, it spices things up but we know are limits.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 8:11:44 AM

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I'm 19 and when i was 16 me and a boy i was at school with became friends with benefits because neither of us wanted a relationship. It meant we both got those urges under control without the hassle of a relationship. it was good because we were only together for sex i could still get good grades and that. But now we've both left school we decided to become a couple as we work so well together. People thought being friend with benefits was weird but it worked for us and it was kind of fun keeping it secret for about 4 months!
hornyinsa
Posted: Saturday, October 27, 2012 9:03:54 AM

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I've had a few, never at the same time mind you, and never while I was married. Sometimes you just need sex to get over something.
secretspice
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 6:06:40 PM

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Yes I have a friend with benefits from work...
janet_haney
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 7:30:03 PM

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I have a little circle of friends with benefits I have know for years. I am not married but some of them are.
kylie_kained
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 9:03:07 PM

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Yes I have friends with benefits they often give me what my partner can't.
















Buz
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 9:20:55 PM

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I am married and monogamous.

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DLizze
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 9:37:03 PM

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not currently - have in past. FWB is a little dangerous though; people can easily get hurt.

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Makavelli
Posted: Sunday, May 26, 2013 9:52:36 PM

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Yes, I have hot friends with benefits!!!
evie_j
Posted: Monday, May 27, 2013 8:37:39 AM

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I have a bunch. I'm not married, but a couple of them are
CleverFox
Posted: Monday, May 27, 2013 7:35:01 PM

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That seems to be a rather personal question. Why don't you tell us about any friends with benefits that you have DoctorLove?
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, May 28, 2013 2:06:42 AM

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Any proper relationship I've had has started off from deciding to have sex, becoming friends with benefits and developing feelings on the way. I just find it the best way to connect with girls, dating someone for a month before having sex isn't really my thing, and I'm not very good at expressing my interest like that.
LadySharon
Posted: Tuesday, May 28, 2013 11:25:17 AM

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I had a friend with benefits when I was 21, and it didn't work out. I'm not married, not dating, and I prefer to not have a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits.

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1lush
Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 4:45:23 PM

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Have had a few. Not any in the last decade or so. While divorced had one just about every night.
SeaSiren
Posted: Wednesday, May 29, 2013 6:26:21 PM

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First off...I want to be just like Janet Haney!
Years ago while married I had benefits but would never call them friend :/
curious3045
Posted: Friday, June 07, 2013 6:29:38 PM

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I do not have any :) However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
curious3045
Posted: Friday, June 07, 2013 6:29:45 PM

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I do not have any :) However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
curious3045
Posted: Friday, June 07, 2013 6:29:47 PM

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I do not have any :) However, there are many temptations on Lush :)
scarlet
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 7:48:04 AM

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I have a happy open marriage! Basically yes lol
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 7:55:32 AM

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I was in an unhappy marriage and had various friends with benefits. Some I would consider really good friends to this day, I just happened to fuck them also.

I feel I learned at lot from them sexually as they could be open and honest about what they liked, what worked and didn't work, without the usual 'don't want to upset my partner' fears.

Now I am in a new realtionship and manogamous. But I do miss my 'friends' and the variety sometimes ;)
Guest
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 9:11:39 AM

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I have both the female is married the male is not
Ardentmale
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 9:25:04 AM

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I had one a couple of years back... It ended badly due to her assuming my feelings about the relationship had changed since hers had...

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bixxx
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 9:36:06 AM

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Have had a few. They have never ended badly for either party in my experience.
You need rules to be laid out before anything happens and it normally ends with one person getting into relationship or moving away.
javabomber
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 9:43:48 AM

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Would not mind having fwb, looking to have some. Any pointers..
mowerman05
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 10:45:46 AM

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I have thought about it, but it hasnt went any farther than that. Not saying that if the right friend came around that i would object to it.
mentalcase
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 11:07:28 AM

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once their married, they are off the market. plus i'm more of a relationship girl
BelleduJour
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 11:17:17 AM

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I've never had one but have had offers over the years, even when I was in a very long and unhappy marriage. I never took anyone up on their offer or let things go any further than just talking about it. Perhaps I thought I couldn't handle it emotionally? I think I would consider it more seriously these days (at least in between relationships) and maybe even take the plunge provided there were indeed some 'rules' - I think the rules would be kinda important.

Fishbinder
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 11:53:31 AM

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Yes I do, and we are both married.

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