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nil4sin
Posted: Saturday, June 08, 2013 10:30:28 PM

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t1517 A young lady from Delhi (India) opined that I am sexually perverted. This is one allegation that I accept happily. Yes, I am kinky. But I would like to ask one question to all those who are present on Lush: what are they doing here, if not exploring their sexual fantasies? It is not to accuse or malign anyone. It is just to make the simple point that we all nurse some or other sexual fantasies.

The fact is that hunger and sex are the two basic instincts of all animals, including human beings. However, human beings have evolved into a social being. They try their best to suppress some of their fantasies and don't reveal the kinky part of their personality, in most cases, to their near and dear ones. This creates lots of complexities in the behavior of men and women. Those complexities are bizarre but quite normal.

Men and women are constantly in search of openings to give vent to their fantasies. Hence, persons like me flock on social sites like Lush. Friends, what would you say?

Neel
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Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 1:57:07 AM

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What was the question? dontknow
She
Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 2:18:24 AM

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By definition we cannot be all kinky. All is a tad too strong word, however I do believe that we all are curious enough to try and desire what we dont have or didnt get yet.
Sexual revolution happened in previous century, so in modern western world, changing positions, using the whole house as bedroom, taking steam out and having quick or rough sex and so on, is not considered as kinky as it might be considered in India or in Abu Dhabi; however, your people wrote book about sex, Kama Sutra, so now I am wondering what kind of pervs did you pull on her..
simplyjohn
Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 3:07:23 AM

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trinket wrote:
What was the question? dontknow


For goodness sake T .. keep up will ya!!


ok my penneth ... 10:06 GMT.

oh and btw someone I know called Kiera may like this thread .. omfg she is so so so so and even so so KINKY!!! woot woot ..
kiera
Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 3:19:26 AM

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simplyjohn wrote:


For goodness sake T .. keep up will ya!!


ok my penneth ... 10:06 GMT.

oh and btw someone I know called Kiera may like this thread .. omfg she is so so so so and even so so KINKY!!! woot woot ..


LMAO thats Kinkykiera if u please, but i have to agree with Trinket before i can respond with my vast knowledge in the kinkyness department. "What was the bloody question" pmsl xoxo
curious3045
Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 6:15:08 PM

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Lustyrose4u
Posted: Sunday, June 09, 2013 8:13:33 PM

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A very wise person once told me that the only people that are NOT kinky are those that you don't know very well . . .

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
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writergirl
Posted: Monday, June 10, 2013 8:28:41 AM

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RoseOfDesires
Posted: Friday, June 28, 2013 8:49:28 PM

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I certainly agree that it is a general nature to try and want what we can't have or is frowned against, similar to what She said. But you have to consider people with things like Paraphobia, the fear of sexual perversion. Or asexual people, voluntarily or involuntarily. Look at the one House episode where an asexual couple came in, the man actually had a disease that caused erectile dysfunction, but still made him completely fearful of having sex in any way. Even if it was a character on a show, it's a good example of what can happen. Not everyone is naturally kinky.

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Posted: Friday, June 28, 2013 11:14:01 PM

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You know, it's only "kinky" the first time.
DontHaveASexyCliche
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 1:24:01 AM

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What are we defining as "kinky"? It's kind of a subjective term. We are sexual beings, we all have desires, biology creates us this way. How wild, crazy, and kinky a person is varies by personality, just like a persons talents, hobbies, and interests.
And yeah, I'm not sure if I'm answering the question, cause I'm not sure what it was either?
AdrianCf
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 4:59:29 AM

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I think we are all kinky, one way or the other.
Sexual fetishism is the sexual arousal a person receives from a physical object, or from a specific situation.

Normally this is associated as kinky and only for freaks, SM, perv's and other people with a strange taste.
I don't look at it like that

A woman that loves to wear latex during sex is considered to be kinky, latex is her fetish.
But a woman that loves to wear the plain old cotton undies is also kinky, cotton is her fetish.
Even if you prefer to be naked, not because it is easier but because you love the feeling of being naked.
Then being naked is your fetish... so you're kinky.

Some guys only want to date blondes..... pretty kinky if you ask me, blondes are their fetish
Some guys love BBW's.... yep, that's kinky. BBW is their fetish
Some guys only want to have sex "doggy style"..... you can guess it by now, right ?

Personally I don't consider anything to be kinky.
It all depends on your own sexual background.

I've done many things that might considered to be kinky by other's,
and as C50T said "It's only kinky the first time"

Our sexual education and the moral values ( laid upon us by society ), are making us feel a bit strange
when we do things out of the ordinary. We are "taught" that it is WRONG and BAD.
But is it ?

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besub4me
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 5:42:46 AM

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Robz17
Posted: Saturday, June 29, 2013 10:30:53 AM

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I am quite kinky, but some of the previous generation would think that I'm perverted
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Posted: Monday, July 01, 2013 10:20:50 PM

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t1517 i'd say we all embrace that sexual creatures that we are. kinky to various degrees and perverted to others.

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Posted: Monday, July 01, 2013 11:28:31 PM

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If we aren't kinky, what are we doing here?
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Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 1:00:02 AM

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CoopsRuthie wrote:
If we aren't kinky, what are we doing here?


Yep, I'll drink to that!
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Posted: Monday, April 07, 2014 7:10:43 PM

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yeah we are in all different kinds of ways it just depends on what u consider kinky.

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Posted: Monday, April 07, 2014 8:04:44 PM

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DontHaveASexyCliche wrote:
What are we defining as "kinky"? It's kind of a subjective term. We are sexual beings, we all have desires, biology creates us this way. How wild, crazy, and kinky a person is varies by personality, just like a persons talents, hobbies, and interests.
And yeah, I'm not sure if I'm answering the question, cause I'm not sure what it was either?


Enquiring mind Think - so I went looking and here's what I found (cut/paste from wikipedia)

Kinky = having unconventional sexual behavior

Conventional sexual behavior = vanilla sex = often refers to the missionary position.

The British Medical Journal defines (bless them) vanilla sex between homosexual couples as "sex that does not extend beyond affection, mutual masturbation, and oral and anal sex.

SO


Straight vanilla = man on top, woman on bottom = in/out all done.

Homosexuality vanilla = affection, mutual masturbation, oral and anal.

Straight kinky = affection or mutual masturbation or oral or anal

Vanilla homosexuality = not kinky.

Wait til I tell Jerry Falwell there's now medical evidence that supports homosexuality over kinky vanilla sextoast





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Posted: Monday, April 07, 2014 8:56:43 PM

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We are all kinky in our own ways because we all have a fantasy or two that we love to do or dream about everyday and it would be awesome if we could work out all of our wicked thoughts with the hottest chicks all the timeHugs
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Wait a goddamned minute, you mean all this stuff in my head isn't normal? WTF?
1LovelyKinkyKitsune
Posted: Monday, April 07, 2014 9:54:50 PM

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nil4sin wrote:
t1517 I would like to ask one question to all those who are present on Lush: what are they doing here, if not exploring their sexual fantasies? It is not to accuse or malign anyone. It is just to make the simple point that we all nurse some or other sexual fantasies.

Men and women are constantly in search of openings to give vent to their fantasies. Hence, persons like me flock on social sites like Lush. Friends, what would you say?


sex Of course, I agree with your logic.
I am not sure if everyone is kinky, though... I really begin to wonder (and I know some people are Asexual, though perhaps not on this site. Plus, I do not really think we are all on Lush for the same reasons eother, though we may share some similar enthusiam. I came here because I had never been on a site like this and craved the srxual and adult atmosphere to read with my boyfriend and hopefully write. It was an exploration thing, yes).

I kinda felt like everyone has their kinks, their need for certain sexual things and sexual appetites~venues and outlets, but I have been reading and watching more closely, even here on a sexual and erotic site, and I think we are all different. Then again, that is what makes us great and interesting.

Some people are more intune with who they are and are naturally more aware or honest with themselves (?)

I AM kinky (hence the name...) and "pervy"? - "Pervert"? - I do not consider it to be an insult. I, also, consider the source and that is a definition that depends greatly from what one person considers (and what things) -to another person. I thought we all are in our own way, but maybe I was wrong.

I do not know anymore.

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Posted: Tuesday, April 15, 2014 3:25:05 PM

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Sorry.....I'm the only one who is not kinky.

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Posted: Tuesday, April 15, 2014 3:25:29 PM

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Sometimes I tell lies

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Posted: Sunday, April 20, 2014 6:20:04 PM

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Kinky means different things to different people. But yes i'm pretty damn kinky and thats part of the reason I joined this site
LukeD2000
Posted: Sunday, April 20, 2014 9:00:40 PM

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I certainly think all of us on Lush and all of the various porn sites are at least somewhat on the kinky side, but I don't believe for a minute that if we could magically lift away all of mankind's individual inhibitions, they would all come rushing to our web site. If we could draw some kind of imaginary Bell curve of everyone after all of their inhibitions were removed, I think we would still find ourselves closer to a side of that Bell curve than to the middle of it.

Remember that we are a self-selected audience, here in part because we find others of like mind. But the more time we spend in this rarified environment, the more 'normal' it may begin to seem. Reflect though, on "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" by James Thurber. Everyone has fantasies, but I think for most people, their fantasies are more in the style and content of Mitty than us.

As for me, I can't believe how mch beautiful pussy there is on this site! I'm staying!

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heat23
Posted: Sunday, April 20, 2014 9:17:52 PM

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Ruthie wrote:
If we aren't kinky, what are we doing here?


completely agree with you
Candylips1960
Posted: Sunday, April 20, 2014 9:25:49 PM

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3some Yes my friends love my kinky side.
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Posted: Sunday, April 20, 2014 10:49:42 PM

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Great posting - and lots of interesting replies. I have not done or seen scientific research on the topic but I would guess there is a % of people (maybe 20%) who are mainly through upbringing what I'll call "content vanilla" - they don't experiment or even think of doing anything other than what they've always done. Then I'd guess there is about 10% who are the "experiment almost everything" types with wide ranges of likes/dislikes and would be considered by most to be highly kinky.

The rest (70%) run the spectrum of kinky fantasies - some might be latent - some slightly active (i.e. role play, fantasy chat, etc.) - some more active (i.e. do stuff with an escort) - and some even more active but not yet taken all restrictions off. I think a site like Lush is a great outlet for all of those folks - which I think is awesome as it gives people an opportunity to test their kinkiness - try different things - some of which might just stay online in nature - but some of it might get tried in the real world.

I also think a big part of "kinky" comes down to how open minded a person is - chances are the more open minded, the more likely he or she is to try things considered kinky.

And, finally, what is kinky to one could be vanilla to another based on experience and other factors. Just like with race, religion, height, size, etc, the world is a better off with a wide variety of kink and kinky people :)
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