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impossible
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 5:59:46 AM

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I want to know what you want from sex? What do you want to receive?
Up4AlmostAnything
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 7:58:49 AM

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I spose for my first time i can only hope for caring, understanding, a bit of love... hahha just the fact that they are willing to go there with me means a lot
Buz
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 8:00:50 AM

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Fun!

Mazza
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 8:13:37 AM

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I want the build up, the excitement of knowing it's going to happen... Wide eyes, breathy gasps, the smallest touch causing an almost electric sensation in parts not yet touched.

The physical closeness, the feel of his hand, mouth, tongue...

Pleasing him, teasing him.

I want his weight on me, legs parting mine, sense of urgency building until....

Oh god, he's inside me, filling, all-consuming, giving myself over to primal instincts.

Faster, slower, harder, deeper, gentle, firm....

In short, I want it all, the whole gamut...
Stampede
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 8:16:48 AM

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Mazza wrote:
I want the build up, the excitement of knowing it's going to happen... Wide eyes, breathy gasps, the smallest touch causing an almost electric sensation in parts not yet touched.

The physical closeness, the feel of his hand, mouth, tongue...

Pleasing him, teasing him.

I want his weight on me, legs parting mine, sense of urgency building until....

Oh god, he's inside me, filling, all-consuming, giving myself over to primal instincts.

Faster, slower, harder, deeper, gentle, firm....

In short, I want it all, the whole gamut...


Very Well said!

Stay Sexy my Friend!!!!!
ginger86
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 8:19:32 AM

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hell, an orgasm would be nice

asleep
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 8:30:27 AM

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Even though this is "Ask the guys"...I have to say that Mazza and Ginger combined have pretty well stated what I would want to say. I would add that I would like the mental/emotional part of it also. I'm sure that is part and parcel of getting to that point, but I wanted to mention it.


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pricklypear
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 9:25:02 AM

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a bj to lead into it, for her to be willing to try several positions, and to know i satisfied her.




oh, and an orgasm would be nice.
reddeville18
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 9:39:07 AM

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it would be safe to say, mazza said a mouthful and hit every nail on the head....lettin me know that what we did was pure excitement. and enjoyment.
Dani
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 9:53:31 AM

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Mazza wrote:
I want the build up, the excitement of knowing it's going to happen... Wide eyes, breathy gasps, the smallest touch causing an almost electric sensation in parts not yet touched.

The physical closeness, the feel of his hand, mouth, tongue...

Pleasing him, teasing him.

I want his weight on me, legs parting mine, sense of urgency building until....

Oh god, he's inside me, filling, all-consuming, giving myself over to primal instincts.

Faster, slower, harder, deeper, gentle, firm....

In short, I want it all, the whole gamut...


Yep.



Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

Dirty_D
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 10:24:17 AM

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Buz wrote:
Fun!


This^^ If its not fun, why do it?


Guest
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 10:42:17 AM

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The unmistakable passion that says "This is my body, my mind, my heart, my soul - now make us cum,"
DLizze
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 11:24:52 AM

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Mazza and Naughtynurse pretty much nailed it (no pun intended) but I'd add: and friendly. If it isn't friendly, there's no afterglow. Oh, and I'd change all the pronouns in Mazza's post to demale gender - I'm pretty much hetero.
And to be honest, I have to say I don't even need the orgasm to feel like it was really good, if all the rest is there. (Shit! I must be getting old! LOL)

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
Mazza
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 11:49:12 AM

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DLizze wrote:
Mazza and Naughtynurse pretty much nailed it (no pun intended) but I'd add: and friendly. If it isn't friendly, there's no afterglow. Oh, and I'd change all the pronouns in Mazza's post to demale gender - I'm pretty much hetero.
And to be honest, I have to say I don't even need the orgasm to feel like it was really good, if all the rest is there. (Shit! I must be getting old! LOL)


Yes, laughs are important, well, at the right moments!
I do have a tendency to smile and giggle in that post coital glow and that level of closeness and actually feeling able to express yourself that way is hugely important.

You'll notice I never mentioned orgasm at all. It's lovely to have one, or more, but it's not about that as a denouement as far as I'm concerned...

Actually, for me, the very very best bit is when he's looking deeply into my eyes as he pushes inside me... Or the same, kissing, murmuring into my eyes, gauging my reactions as he fingers and explores...
Rrrrr
Bad_4You
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 9:10:47 PM

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I agree with all that is written above and I especially want to ensure that she is completely sated. To be fulfilling for me, however, sex has to be more than just sex. At its very core there has to be a real connection for me to find it satisfying. The physical alone isn't enough; I guess I'm just an old fashioned guy.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, July 07, 2013 10:20:19 PM

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Bad_4You wrote:
I agree with all that is written above and I especially want to ensure that she is completely sated. To be fulfilling for me, however, sex has to be more than just sex. At its very core there has to be a real connection for me to find it satisfying. The physical alone isn't enough; I guess I'm just an old fashioned guy.


Nothing wrong with being old fashioned.
Magical_felix
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 12:30:48 AM

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yourmisterdork wrote:
The unmistakable passion that says "This is my body, my mind, my heart, my soul - now make us cum,"


INTENSE!

laughing8





Magical_felix
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 12:31:10 AM

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I want to bust a nut. Skeet skeet.



Guest
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 12:35:05 AM

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I want to know that I completely satisfied my partner. Leaving her breathless and gasping for air. To cover every inch of her body, mind, and soul. Bringing her to the edge of a mind shattering orgasm only to back off and let it build until we both explode in a sexual frenzy. Then tenderly hold her, telling her how much I love her and listen to her softly fall asleep on my chest.
Jack_42
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 1:55:12 AM

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I don't find this an easy question to answer. Fun seems a rather mild word to use regarding sex throwing a frisbee around is maybe fun. But sex oh it's a whole world of intensity desires feelings all rolled into one. When you think about it in a cold practical way it can appear a little ridiculous definitely not dignified to do or look at. An urgent feeling that seems to be circulating in the blood in a way it's sort of drug like. I suppose its the feeling - and prolonging that in your partner and yourself for as long as possible and then the emotional release and pleasure that someone can give you heightens how you feel about them that is their making you feel so good is part of how you feel about them.
Noreasonneeded
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 3:31:05 AM

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Oh this is too rich. Even here, in an Ask The Guys forum, the women need to lead us to our answers. (thanks ladies, but this was in ASK the guys not TELL the guys...lol... but your feedback here, as in real life, is never unwelcome... or unstoppable)

What do I want from having sex. With a woman.

Everything? I don't know that i've ever actually experienced gratuitous a unemotional sex. For me it's always been with someone close. So I thinks for me its all about her, wanting her pleased, feeling her responses, seeing her enjoy. I can be alone and get off. But getting her off, watching her enjoy and respond, and react, and return pleasure, that completes it for me. makes it fulfilling.

Because that's what i want. to be fulfilled. To be satisfied physically and emotionally, and to connect on a personal level afterwords, touching, reassuring, cleaning up... getting some water. laughing.



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Mazza
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 3:45:26 AM

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I never noticed it was in Ask The Guys...

Oops
She
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 5:11:50 AM

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Mazza wrote:
I never noticed it was in Ask The Guys...

Oops


Dont stress! They are anyway in ladies part of town all the time happy8




From sex? Orgasms, of course, lots of them, multiple are fine as well evil4
..everything else are the reasons why would I have sex with him.
Mazza
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 6:33:56 AM

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She wrote:


Dont stress! They are anyway in ladies part of town all the time happy8




From sex? Orgasms, of course, lots of them, multiple are fine as well evil4
..everything else are the reasons why would I have sex with him.


Hee hee, thanks She!!

seeker4
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 8:37:19 AM

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Pleasure, both physical and the pleasure of their intimate companionship. Orgasm is part of it, but I also find just the intimacy of being naked and sharing pleasurable sensations is important, too.


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Lustyrose4u
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 8:04:49 PM

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An orgasm so powersful that it curls my hair...

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
ricinatl
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 8:25:40 PM

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Great question.
I want it to be constantly changing. Techniques, positions, controls and styles.

When I want to be dominant, I am very dominant.
When I want her to be dominant I want her to get what she wants and then ride me like a cowgirl gone crazy.
Guest
Posted: Monday, July 08, 2013 10:53:47 PM

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I just wanna shoot my load evil4 bates
EDWolfe
Posted: Tuesday, July 09, 2013 10:48:05 PM

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There's a lot that people have covered already. I'd have to say exploring what buttons to push on a lover (or, if the situation arises, lovers) to give them the most intense orgasms they've ever had. I'd like to try and get the best orgasms I could, too.

At some point, I'd like kids to come out of having sex, too.thumbup
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, July 10, 2013 12:12:54 AM

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Pleasure, mutual satisfaction and no side effects. Physically or emotionally.
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