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fireman35
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 2:41:09 PM

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Very recently I've been very sexual deprived. And I've been thinking about my exs when I masturbate, that I'm fucking them. Has anyone else had the same feelings about there exs?
HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 3:07:26 AM

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Yes but then as soon as the blood returns to the big head I remember why they are exs and get over it

AriOli101
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 4:09:53 AM

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No.

My exs are exs for a reason.

A couple are attractive, sure, but their personality pissed me off so much I can't think of them as anything else than an arsehole cussing

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HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 4:35:04 AM

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I think you can have erotic thoughts about the times you spent with that ex without really having feelings for that person.

Maybe it is just a guy thing .... it is easier for us to have sex without feelings I think.

I have masturbated to memories of having sex with exs and in those fantasies while I am masturbating they are still sexually attractive to me and still turn me on. But in the reality there is no way I would take any of them back.

As I said they are exs for a reason. Hell I have even had sex with my ex-wife a few times in the past 2 years, but there is no way in hell I would ever get back together with her. And we both know that.

Dani
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 10:57:32 AM

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It's definitely something I've experienced when I'm alone and single. If sex is good, it's hard to just forget about it once you start craving it. And it would piss me off when I thought about how good sex was with some past idiot. But these things tend to happen when we're alone at our weakest and most vulnerable moments, usually when we're single and crave closeness...or really good sex...or both. Especially right after a breakup, no matter of you parted amicably or with hostility. And I usually snap right back to my senses, so I never make it to the mastubatory fantasy of an ex. If my thoughts even trailed that way while masturbating, I just stopped altogether. Ugh.

But it does suck that the people we want to forget about the most are the ones we think about the most. I've been there, and thankfully I'm not there anymore. You get past it.



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Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 12:01:17 PM

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The plural of "ex" is surely "exes", no?

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JordanMan09
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 12:45:03 PM

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sucks and is almost impossible 2 get over 1st luv
Guest
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 12:53:15 PM

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Definitely not! I was with my ex for 6 years, we've been apart for almost 5 and a half now and I haven't had a single good thought or memory of him.
Sirene_Jaune
Posted: Sunday, July 21, 2013 12:02:44 AM

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I am fresh from splitting from my ex who I was dating for over 8 years. Due to concerns I had to leave him for my own sanity and safety. My ex and I got on so well, my mum said we were a pigeon pair. My ex and I were each other's shadow.

However the reason I left was his mental health. I have a rebound.

My rebound and I met each other the first week I started to work in the same building. We didn't really talk to each other. Just the general hello.

Well when things came to a head with my ex and I. I needed someone to talk to and found myself chatting to my rebound. We found we had things in common and I suggested a sexual relationship I needed to get my ex out of my system sexually.

Whenever my ex would post disgusting comments to me, I called my rebound and we fucked.

After four months I find I am thinking less of my ex and more of my rebound. I don't think we are going to move on more then a rebound. He kind of encourages me to find someone else to start to date.

Yeah my love/sex life is complicated.

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realz
Posted: Sunday, July 21, 2013 4:50:18 AM

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My ex wife is a great friend, and confidant, but there is nothing sexual between us. We are both remarried, and in very different lifestyles.
Guest
Posted: Sunday, July 21, 2013 4:40:15 PM

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That would be a big negatory! We have two awesome kids as a result of having sex but that's about as much as we did in the bed.
1lush
Posted: Monday, July 22, 2013 12:30:58 PM

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My first love has just recently passed away and have been thinking a lot about her lately. There are a few ex's that do come to mind when a song or a place we have been is revisited. So yes sometimes they do return.
freakycactus
Posted: Monday, July 22, 2013 1:03:46 PM

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I have, yes but, for now at least, that's done. I sometimes masturbate thinking about guys I've hooked up with.

mentalcase
Posted: Monday, July 22, 2013 3:06:16 PM

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happy feelings for him? Hell no. But I do remember the happy times every once in a while. Then I remember why we broke up. No sexual feelings for him at all
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