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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, July 17, 2013 12:14:09 PM

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I don't trust them less than anyone else. I do like to see something that I can relate to them, it is better when it comes to memory. I'm probably one of very few that don't hide Lush from anyone. My family and friends as well as acquaintances on other social sites know I'm on here and have read my writings, I tend to be very open. Not everyone can parade around on a site like this.... Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!
jollylolly
Posted: Wednesday, July 17, 2013 12:31:55 PM

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Honestly, people who have no pics on their profile seem more trustworthy than (most, not all!) people who have dozens of pics of themselves set to public. After having been here for a while, I prefer to just send pictures to people that I've gotten to know and want to share my lovely self with.glasses8
gdtm07
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 7:33:21 AM

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Personally I have not found an Avatar yet for Lush, that I like
FitBusinessPro
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 7:57:01 AM

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I think you should post something for your Avatar, not just the default. Give us something to know you better.
Jinxy
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 9:55:26 AM

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I don't care about seeing others, because I don't have any either. This to me is an online fantasy world, where I come and enjoy myself away from the real world. I have shown my photo to 4 people on Lush, and I see them as all close friends of mine. I won't ask someone for their photo, because I am not so willing to show mine either. I can't ask for something, I'm not willing to do myself. I choose to keep my life private, and keep it from coming online. Those who do share, that's cool, more power to you.

I think someone above me said it best. Her post is long, but true. :)

†Jinxy Approved†

suezq
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 10:02:13 AM

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For privacy reasons, I only use and avatar that doesn't show my face. Yes, it's me, just not all of me. I'm not in a situation where I can be open about being on Lush.
I actually prefer a bit of mystery. While it's nice to see someone's face once we have had a chance to get to know one another a bit, picture after picture of equipment seems over t he top.
ineedfun1
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 10:23:35 AM

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I hate blank avatars
Poppet
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 4:28:55 PM

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I’m one that doesn't put my photo out there ever, I just won’t. That’s my choice. I know a lot of people who do, and a lot who don’t. I also know a great deal who’ll only show certain parts, mostly there “goodies”. I never understood that, but to each their own.

I’m rather private, and I don’t want to expose myself on the internet more than I have to. I’m not like this with just photos, my name, and even where I live I keep fairly private also. I come here to write, make some friends, and have a good time. I don’t find it necessary to plaster myself out there for the world to see. Those who I want, and choose to see the “real” Poppet, will, when and if I ever want. The odds are slim to none, however.

I agree with a few others who said they don’t for they don’t want their real world friends, families, coworkers and so on to find them, and can you really blame them? I can’t.

I think its fine if some want to, but I think people need to respect those who don’t, and so many don’t respect those who don’t want to. I hate nothing more than one someone pushes me to tell them my name; there is nothing wrong with calling me Poppet. It’s a rather good name, I think. :3

Hokay, My rant on this matter is done. xxx



Lustyrose4u
Posted: Thursday, July 18, 2013 9:03:40 PM

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Well, my pictures are all me.... No screen clips, etc, just me.

"When its too kinky for everybody else, its just gettin' good for me."
(Kinky Freedman)
Ravyn
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 12:39:09 AM

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JordanMan09 wrote:
that they r ugly and doing us a favor by hiding it


Wow....Really? I can only imagine how well you do in the real world with that enlightening attitude.....*turns off sarcasm*

mentalcase
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 12:53:07 AM

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just private or new
Kage
Posted: Friday, July 19, 2013 10:22:21 PM

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Personally, it doesn't really bother me if they have pics up or not. Like others have mentioned, I think it's better to at least change your avatar to something other than the generic red and white one. Honestly, I prefer seeing someones bio over pictures.
1lush
Posted: Monday, July 22, 2013 12:26:59 PM

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It is their choice, personally I haven't taken any photos of myself or been in any for years. My work takes me many places and that is what photos I have an use. Did catch some hell from a member for not having photos or playlist up, but its a choice we make for ourselves.
Guest
Posted: Monday, July 22, 2013 1:08:52 PM

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Naughty_Talia wrote:
Do you trust them?
I don't trust too many people in real life. Why do you think i'm here? HUH ?
juicydrop
Posted: Wednesday, July 24, 2013 8:29:40 PM

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I think they have respect for themselves.
narresh
Posted: Wednesday, July 24, 2013 10:07:03 PM

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Lush is my escape from the real.I mean,i come here to relax,detach myself from what's real.I can't be open about being on lush,though i have few great friends here who respect each other's choices.


As others have already said,i can't stand the red and white default avatar either.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 11:50:46 AM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:
I don't trust them less than anyone else. I do like to see something that I can relate to them, it is better when it comes to memory. I'm probably one of very few that don't hide Lush from anyone. My family and friends as well as acquaintances on other social sites know I'm on here and have read my writings, I tend to be very open. Not everyone can parade around on a site like this.... Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!
Maybe they're just cruisng thru and haven't decided whether or not they are going to stay.
Genteel1957
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 12:04:42 PM

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I don't mind that they have no pics. What bothers me is When they don't for their avatar. Come on people put something up do you really think that this is me?
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 12:12:21 PM

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Why did you have to say it 5 times? Lwinking
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 1:40:32 PM

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Not a big fan
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 4:15:18 PM

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BlackHawk1967 wrote:
Maybe they're just cruisng thru and haven't decided whether or not they are going to stay.


That's probably the case most times, I don't add people unless I've chatted with them or seen them around for a while though. So my quest of no red/white continues(I do have one now, since writing this lol)... Very good point though :D
Dani
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 4:47:58 PM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:


That's probably the case most times, I don't add people unless I've chatted with them or seen them around for a while though. So my quest of no red/white continues(I do have one now, since writing this lol)... Very good point though :D


I used to be the exact same way. I used to just blindly accept requests. But then I stopped. But now I don't care. I'll add pretty much anyone who requests me, unless I have a particular reason for rejecting them. Usually I deny people who add creepy messages to their requests, like "Would love to cyber fuck you some time." Other than that I don't really mind. I don't put anything personal on my profile, and if/when I do, I put limits on who does/doesn't have access to it.

The flip side of that is that when you do the blind accepting thing, everyone wants to poke/black box/ private chat you all at once, so I do most of my Lushing undetected. But even still, if someone sees me posting on forums and such, they know I'm online.



Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 4:55:01 PM

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slipperywhenwet2012 wrote:


I used to be the exact same way. I used to just blindly accept requests. But then I stopped. But now I don't care. I'll add pretty much anyone who requests me, unless I have a particular reason for rejecting them. Usually I deny people who add creepy messages to their requests, like "Would love to cyber fuck you some time." Other than that I don't really mind. I don't put anything personal on my profile, and if/when I do, I put limits on who does/doesn't have access to it.

The flip side of that is that when you do the blind accepting thing, everyone wants to poke/black box/ private chat you all at once, so I do most of my Lushing undetected. But even still, if someone sees me posting on forums and such, they know I'm online.


Agree 100% I always kept my list under 20 because it was overwhelming. It blew up after submitting a story and with over 50 friends it was too much. Back down to 20ish and still have to hide out in stealth mode just to write or hang out in the forums uninterrupted. Apparently the 'AWAY' option doesn't work LOL
Actually I received the best random message today! It said "Hello Mrs. Big Boobs" attached was a cock pic.... dontknow
Things like that make me a little more selective in my befriending process.
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 6:15:29 PM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:


Agree 100% I always kept my list under 20 because it was overwhelming. It blew up after submitting a story and with over 50 friends it was too much. Back down to 20ish and still have to hide out in stealth mode just to write or hang out in the forums uninterrupted. Apparently the 'AWAY' option doesn't work LOL
Actually I received the best random message today! It said "Hello Mrs. Big Boobs" attached was a cock pic.... dontknow
Things like that make me a little more selective in my befriending process.
i've never initiated a pm to anyone on here because it just seems kind of intrusive imo. I do respond to pms even if they're trying to fuck with me. As if they know what i'm trying to say , better than i do, for example.


I wouldn't just send you a random pm and pic of my cock, but i might send ya an autographed pic of my cock though. Lwinking
Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 6:55:32 PM

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BlackHawk1967 wrote:
i've never initiated a pm to anyone on here because it just seems kind of intrusive imo. I do respond to pms even if they're trying to fuck with me. As if they know what i'm trying to say , better than i do, for example.


I wouldn't just send you a random pm and pic of my cock, but i might send ya an autographed pic of my cock though. Lwinking


Autographed photos are accepted, even encouraged!kekekegay ..... Please oh please be the real Johnny Depp Pray
Dani
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 7:04:11 PM

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BlackHawk1967 wrote:
i've never initiated a pm to anyone on here because it just seems kind of intrusive imo. I do respond to pms even if they're trying to fuck with me. As if they know what i'm trying to say , better than i do, for example.


I wouldn't just send you a random pm and pic of my cock, but i might send ya an autographed pic of my cock though. Lwinking


This is BY FAR my biggest pet peeve. Being PMed about something I say in the forums. The forums are there for a reason...to discuss the topic at hand in there. I have no interest in reading a PM about why something I said in the forum was wrong. I have no interest in debating outside of the forums.



Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

BiMale73
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 7:27:46 PM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:
Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!


But... ?

Guest
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 7:36:47 PM

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BiMale73 wrote:


But... ?



I kid you not, I thought of your avatar! Hahahaha... I remembered seeing it on another post. laughing8
BiMale73
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 7:50:25 PM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:
I kid you not, I thought of your avatar! Hahahaha... I remembered seeing it on another post. laughing8


But that makes it even worse crybaby

TeilaWolfe
Posted: Thursday, July 25, 2013 8:14:39 PM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:
Red and whites don't make it to my page though, that's just lazy!


How about mine? :P Is mine creative enough to pass?

Lush is a secret side of me that not many people in my life know about. I also like to keep the mystery which is why I don't put up any real pics. It doesn't make me untrustworthy, it just makes me feel safer. I hate guys who keep asking me for Pics and such so I don't put any up, cause as soon as I put anything even slightly real for others to see, they pressure me into posting more and more. And if I refuse they get all jerk like and abuse me. I agree that people should steer clear of the default, but they don't have to change it completely, just add a twist to it. Something that people can identify as you, as an individual and not just another random.

Hey there, I'm an inspiring erotic writer. I take story requests and write about most anything so hit me up if you have a crazy fantasy that you would like me to bring to life ;) Also, please check out my stories and comment and vote if you like them!
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