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bisoccermom10
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 12:52:59 PM

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Ever since I was introduced to anal sex, I've been crazy about it. And not just being fucked in my ass by a great cock. I adore it when a man goes down on me and licks and uses his tongue on my asshole as well as my vagina. I can almost cum from a guy tongue fucking my asshole!

I love it so much that I've asked several first-time lovers to please give me a good rimming9 before we get into anything else. They (both men and women) have always been happy to do it, but I wonder whether they think I'm a little too kinky.

What do all of you think?
tango48
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 1:03:35 PM

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would love to do it
and love it more if i was asked
that will make it easy for me to please in more ways than a few!

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bisoccermom10
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 1:11:45 PM

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Thanks, tango, I bet you would be an expert at it.
Poppet
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 2:09:11 PM

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I’ve never really done anything anal. I’ve had an ex “lick” my arsehole once, and it felt nice, but we never took it further than that. Neither of us were all that big into anal.

Since joining Lush, I’ve had a few people ask me if I’d do it, and always said no. However the last person I was with, we talked about it a lot, and I thought if we ever met, I’d do it with him. He wanted to do both tonguing me and fucking me. I enjoyed the idea, because it seemed to turn him on so much.
I’m not sure if I’d do it for just anyone though.

And on doing it on him, I’d use a strap-on to fuck him. I think the idea is hot. Of course, only if he wants it. Not all men are open to the idea of being fucked with a toy in the arse. As for using my mouth, I’m not sure.

It always comes down to knowing what the back end is actually used for. That’s what gets me every time I think about anything anal. So, it kind of puts me off it.


Dancing_Doll
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 2:23:51 PM

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I don't think it's that kinky. A lot of people do it - they may just not openly talk about it with peers and friends. From my experience, I would say it's definitely more the norm than not these days (depending on maybe the age bracket of your sex partners). Asking for it or begging for it 'in the moment' is probably even a turn on for them. I hope you reciprocate though. :)


Eaglesclaw
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 2:29:34 PM

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Do you do the guy? Or is it one way only. And if you met a guy and he asked you to rim him right away, how would/do you feel?
danran
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 2:48:31 PM

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I love giving and receiving. It adds to the excitement of the moment.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 2:54:40 PM

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I agree with Dancing Doll. And I definitely find it incredibly sexy if my girl straight up asks me to lick her ass.
Robz17
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 3:53:36 PM

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Its the most intimate of sex acts
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 4:32:31 PM

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I think it depends on the relationship.

My wife isn't into anal in any way, but an ex-GF loved it when I'd rim her while finger fucking her vagina or have a couple fingers up her ass while eating her out.

She'd also rim me and the orgasms I had after those were incredible - whether they were from her sucking me or our fucking.
Noreasonneeded
Posted: Tuesday, August 13, 2013 6:23:36 PM

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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 8:50:21 AM

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You can ask me anytime!
Dani
Posted: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 9:07:26 AM

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Of course it's not asking too much. As far as kinks go, it's pretty mild, actually. I personally love it. It really depends on the guy/girl you're asking. But if someone is already willing to go down on you, I'm sure they'd be willing to dip a bit further, especially in the heat of the moment.



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curious3045
Posted: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 9:26:49 AM

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I agree with slippery, never hurts to ask, and if it is getting intense there is not better time to ask.
Jinxy
Posted: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 10:42:34 AM

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Its not going to far, but u have to respect it if they dont want to do it. :)

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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, August 14, 2013 9:51:21 PM

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I love it and I really enjoy doing it for my man.
FitBusinessPro
Posted: Thursday, August 15, 2013 7:48:53 AM

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No, it's not too far. If you're giving head already, and in the neighborhood, might as well visit the next door neighbor...
goofygus42
Posted: Friday, August 16, 2013 4:17:13 PM

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I think the second time I ate pussy way way back, I slipped down and stuck my tongue up her ass and licked away. I have been doing ever since. Ver few women do not seem to like it and I respect that. It served me well a few years ago when I was tending bar. A really hot lady came into the bar. She said she was in town for only one day and ended up asking me to fuck her. As a gentleman I agreed. It was all very good. When I was eating her and slipped on did a good job on her asshole. She seemed to love it and it was a good night but she had to move on the next day. The next night she came back in the bar and said made arrangements to stay over because she wanted to do it again. She said no one had ever eaten her and she loved it and asked if she could do it to me. I of course said yes, I even screamed it. We went at it again and ate each other's asses. It was great and she left town and I never saw her again. It was a great two nights. I like having it done to me but really love doing to a lady.

You know those guys on the corner with signs that say "Will Work For Food"? I sit on Canal street with a sign that says "Will Do Anything For Pussy".
Guest
Posted: Sunday, August 18, 2013 4:51:13 PM

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Nope
Guest
Posted: Sunday, August 18, 2013 11:38:50 PM

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I think it's a huge turn on to have a partner tell you what gets them off and ask you to do it, it shows confidence and trust so I'd be only too happy to oblige!
c50t
Posted: Monday, August 19, 2013 9:02:28 PM

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I love asking, being asked, being licked without being asked, not asking but taking ...
Excuse me ... I think I need a shower
Plushbunny
Posted: Monday, August 19, 2013 9:50:51 PM

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I adore it and often wake Screwloose up in the morning by licking his asshole...yum

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Guest
Posted: Friday, August 30, 2013 10:01:02 PM

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It really turns me on when a partner asks for that
She
Posted: Monday, September 02, 2013 2:51:35 PM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
I don't think it's that kinky. A lot of people do it - they may just not openly talk about it with peers and friends. From my experience, I would say it's definitely more the norm than not these days (depending on maybe the age bracket of your sex partners). Asking for it or begging for it 'in the moment' is probably even a turn on for them. I hope you reciprocate though. :)


This.
Although, I talk with my future partners about sex before it happens, so they know what turns me on..however time for me is the key, whatever is happening it should be hapening at the right moment with the right pace. But thats just me.
Shaman
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 7:35:08 AM

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never hurts to ask
Dirty_D
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 7:48:23 AM

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I don't think I'd ask a partner the first time, but after that sure. It's a mild kink.


1lush
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 8:07:34 AM

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I don't feel its to much, that said my wife has only ask once an in the heat of the moment she usually won't. She is willing to return the favor but I always have to ask. I think to ask is a way to reveal a intimate side.
Guest
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 8:40:22 AM

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I agree that it is certainly NOT going too far. In fact, communication is KEY to good sex. ASK AWAY!
emersonbosworth
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 9:18:26 AM

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after doing it and having it done to me, I love to rim whom ever I'm with male or female.
DutchMike88
Posted: Friday, September 06, 2013 9:18:29 AM

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She wrote:


This.
Although, I talk with my future partners about sex before it happens, so they know what turns me on..however time for me is the key, whatever is happening it should be hapening at the right moment with the right pace. But thats just me.


Me too!
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