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I constantly toy with the idea of my wife having sex with
another man. She knows its my fantasy, and sometimes while
we have sex, I whisper it to her in her ear and she just gets
WET! When I meet a male, I imagine what it would be like if
he was fucking my wife. I have even told my wife she should
hit on a guy down the street, she thinks about it, but says
nope, because she would be scared. But she always smiles at
him and hugs real close when he stops by. She even jokes with me that he is
going to visit her at night. This tells me that she does
get turned on by the idea! Is this a normal fantasy? I want
someone to seduce her, while I watch. How can I get her to
open up her legs to someone else? Help!
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Wasn't this recently asked? My only advice: careful what you ask for.
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Fantasy is one thing, but when you start bringing emotions into it you could end up with a result you never expected/wanted. The idea of it might be enough of a turn on for her. She may not want anything more than that.
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As they saying goes...Be careful of what you wish for as it may come true..
It is a powerful emotion to watch the one you love with another. Having experienced watching my wife with another man, it was very powerful. We make it that type of lifestyle work but the firm rules we have in place help make sure things don't get carried away.
The only advice I can give is to be absolutely sure this is something you both want....
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ali2teaseu wrote:Wasn't this recently asked? My only advice: careful what you ask for. Lisa wrote:Fantasy is one thing, but when you start bringing emotions into it you could end up with a result you never expected/wanted.
The idea of it might be enough of a turn on for her. She may not want anything more than that. they've already said what was in my mind, useless to repeat it. hmm... all i can type is... For me i'ts weird. she's your wife, I mean she should be like a special gem that you would not let others to touch only you. hmm.. something like that . I hope I made my point 
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I know several couples that have done this. Interesting to note that none of them are currently together anymore (and most were relationships that were from 2-6 years long at the point it happened). My thoughts are that it takes a special kind of couple to handle pushing this fantasy into reality. But if you are just flirting with the idea, its best to have several more serious talks with her because she may not be looking for this to actually happen.. just as a fun fantasy idea to get you both hot when you are together! As well with the couples I know who have brought others into their relationship/marriage, things are ok when the relationship is strong, but when things start to mellow (as many relationships do), or if you hit troubled waters, this will be the first thing you think of. The memory of this other man having sex with your wife may start to grate on you. And you might start to mistrust her when she is out and about. Kind of like dipping your hand into the cookie jar, and before you know it you're the cookie monster! Where does it end? What limitations/boundaries will you have once you go down this path? Just be sure you discuss them well before you begin! Good luck!
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Another point you should think about is how is the other man is going to react long term. Having sex is a emotionally powerful act and it is very possible that this guy down the street that you mentioned may not be willing to except a one time encounter and probably won't be excited to have you watch the next time h wants your wife. Are you prepared to have him pursuing her? Is she? These are just some of the possible ways this could become a problem. Another is will he be discreet, or is he going to tell other guys that you wife may be in play?
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sexycouple101 wrote:I constantly toy with the idea of my wife having sex with
another man. She knows its my fantasy, and sometimes while
we have sex, I whisper it to her in her ear and she just gets
WET! When I meet a male, I imagine what it would be like if
he was fucking my wife. I have even told my wife she should
hit on a guy down the street, she thinks about it, but says
nope, because she would be scared. But she always smiles at
him and hugs real close when he stops by. She even jokes with me that he is
going to visit her at night. This tells me that she does
get turned on by the idea! Is this a normal fantasy? I want
someone to seduce her, while I watch. How can I get her to
open up her legs to someone else? Help! This is a very dangerous game your playing; with your wife! Do you want her to run off with the next man she feels does it for her more than you! Or do you want her to be in your life; or are you playing this game coz you have your eye one someone else as well. If I was your wife and I went with another man because my husband had a degree of control over this; and I found he was better than you! I would walk my friend. You had better be carefull, your playing with fire!
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Dancing_Doll wrote:I know several couples that have done this.
Interesting to note that none of them are currently together anymore (and most were relationships that were from 2-6 years long at the point it happened).
My thoughts are that it takes a special kind of couple to handle pushing this fantasy into reality.
But if you are just flirting with the idea, its best to have several more serious talks with her because she may not be looking for this to actually happen.. just as a fun fantasy idea to get you both hot when you are together!
As well with the couples I know who have brought others into their relationship/marriage, things are ok when the relationship is strong, but when things start to mellow (as many relationships do), or if you hit troubled waters, this will be the first thing you think of. The memory of this other man having sex with your wife may start to grate on you. And you might start to mistrust her when she is out and about.
Kind of like dipping your hand into the cookie jar, and before you know it you're the cookie monster!
Where does it end?
What limitations/boundaries will you have once you go down this path?
Just be sure you discuss them well before you begin!
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to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
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I have toyed with this type of scenario before with past girlfriends. If you want to try it, its best to do it on vacation or some situation like that. If the women sees the same guy (or guys) over and over, then there is a chance that they will form an emotional attachment and that is a recipe for disaster.
Without going all the way, there are a few things that you can try to get your feet wet. When you're having sex, get your wife to tell you about some of her past sexual experiences in detail. If that gets you jealous, then its best not to go further.
Another thing that I like to do, is have your wife role play and pretend that she just got back from having sex with someone else. This can be very very hot, since she can get as dirty as she wants with her details.
These are good ways to test your own limits and let her know how much the idea turns you on. In general, women have problems with this type of thing because they fear that your opinion of them will change after. First, you have make sure that it won't, and second, she needs to be sure of that.
Good Luck
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I am amazed in the 21st Century and on Lush that so many people are concerned about the after effect. I have been with many men and some have been observed by my loving husband and he as had experiences with a large number of woman, some view by me. If a partners wants to revisit the experience, I would think it would be a compliment to our open relationship and open mindedness.
If your really love your significant other, why would you not want your love to experience pleasure in every form and to observe them in their pleasure.
An opinion from this corner of the bed.
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WHR43 wrote:I am amazed in the 21st Century and on Lush that so many people are concerned about the after effect. I have been with many men and some have been observed by my loving husband and he as had experiences with a large number of woman, some view by me. If a partners wants to revisit the experience, I would think it would be a compliment to our open relationship and open mindedness.
If your really love your significant other, why would you not want your love to experience pleasure in every form and to observe them in their pleasure.
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I believe that is a very normal fantasy sweets. and since you both get turned on by the idea, and you know she loves the idea, set it up. its probably that you're wife is nervous and shy, she probably doesnt want to come out and say to you, yes i want another man! kudos to her for thinking of your feelings. Id find a guy thats willing, secure a hotel room, take her to it and have him be there. she will probably be so surprised, she wont know what to do. i know someone that had another man walk into the room after they had already started fucking, she was so into the sex that all she could do was look surprised, things took their natural course from there, so you could try that too, that way your wife doesnt feel so much like she is being disloyal or a whore. just jump on it and i doubt either of you will regret it!!!! Kisses!
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Milik_The_Red wrote:Another point you should think about is how is the other man is going to react long term. Having sex is a emotionally powerful act and it is very possible that this guy down the street that you mentioned
may not be willing to except a one time encounter and probably won't be excited to have you watch the next time h wants your wife. Are you prepared to have him pursuing her? Is she? These are just some of the possible ways this could become a problem. Another is will he be discreet, or is he going to tell other guys that you wife may be in play? i agree. i would have the other man be an outsider. you dont want someone with any emotions involved. keep it simple adn to the point!!!! id probably go out of town for this escapade! after all, the point of the whole thing is to live both of your fantasies and strengthen your bond right? you dont want to switch to her finding a better partner down the street......keep it impersonal, keep it pure hormonal bliss.
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intelutside wrote:ali2teaseu wrote:Wasn't this recently asked? My only advice: careful what you ask for. Lisa wrote:Fantasy is one thing, but when you start bringing emotions into it you could end up with a result you never expected/wanted.
The idea of it might be enough of a turn on for her. She may not want anything more than that. they've already said what was in my mind, useless to repeat it. hmm... all i can type is... For me i'ts weird. she's your wife, I mean she should be like a special gem that you would not let others to touch only you. hmm.. something like that . I hope I made my point i agree. my lover and i are both openminded and very willing to accomadate each others desires, one desire is being with other people. we talked about it and agreed, another person is fine to play with, i will not fuck another man and he will not fuck another woman. I am allowed to play with another woman while he watches and i have, we have watched another couple. the point being, we love each other and hold our sexual bond as a sacred thing. i do not want another woman experiencing the same thing as me and he doesnt want another man coming near me, im his. we TALKED about it, came to these conclusions, and are happy. Read my story...you'll see what i mean, the story is true. i will occasionally play with another woman and she with me, but the actual joining, thats saved for us....noone else. COMMUNICATION!!!!
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In theory, It would be amazing to witness. I would love to have another man fuck my wife. Like one said be careful of what you ask for. Jealosy is ugly and will end a relationship quickly. Once you go down that road, where does it end. You are going to want to have sex with another woman and rightfully so, but the more you push the envelop the more dangerous it will become for your relationship. If you can pull it off, then i wish to be a fly on your wall. Remember a man can disconnect his feelings while having sex and woman can not easily.
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FULLYLOADED69 wrote: Remember a man can disconnect his feelings while having sex and woman can not easily. That comment is going to get you in to a lot of trouble with the women here on lush. lol
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As a professional guy who has now been wit a few couples andwives...I am amazed how many men and women hve this fantasy.... I have found from my couple experiences with married couples...the ones that enjoyed it...did it while out of town....no last names or phone number exchanges.....just found aguy who was willing to fuck the wife in front of hubby!!! I LUV It....and they seemed to also!
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