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Metilda
Posted: Sunday, August 25, 2013 11:04:07 PM

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You know, I have never been with a guy who was thin or muscled. Everyone I've ever been involved with has been a little on the heavy side, or overweight.

Anyone else realize they've only been with males of a singular physique?

I don't have a point - just curious. I hadn't thought about it at all until tonight.

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VirginalViet
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 12:40:31 AM

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Well I really like guys with toned arms and a strong chest? I guess I perhaps unconsciously select guys with strong arms? Usually not "skinny", but toned and fit is my body type.
SereneProdigy
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 1:35:56 AM

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One thing I believe in is that when you've been with a partner for some time, his/her physical features become attractive to you, even if they were not initially. Similar features will also remain attractive when seeking subsequent partners.

In your case (Metilda), you've always been pleasured by heavy men (sexually/emotionally), so it is highly possible that you've developped a special attraction for that kind of men.

Myself when I was around 19, I had a crush on a girl who displayed some masculine features in her face (wide jaw, strong cheekbones). I wasn't attracted to her appearance at first, but developped an attraction for her because I loved her personality. I truly feel I thus developped a special attraction for faces like hers ; to this day I still enjoy women with a strong jaw.

Her jaw/mouth were similar to those of Jessica Biel, and strangely enough I believe Jessica Biel is one of the most beautiful actress today. Coincidence?





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Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 4:02:28 AM

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Everyone I dated was different, and so is husband . I like variety.
Guest
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 4:13:38 AM

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I've always gone for tall, broad shoulders, not fat, not skinny, I have never intentionally dated anyone who wasn't like that, I guess it's just what I like to look at!
dean13
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 5:04:14 AM

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dean13
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 5:04:20 AM

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I have an ok body but I don't think that should effect anything.. I think people should chose a relationship on personality, looks are just a bonus
xXMister_TXx
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 5:29:24 AM

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now I think we have to seperate what being attracted means. Is it an "I want to have sex with him now" type of being attracted then yes looks are important. The girls I talked to and asked what they like in a man is he should be tall, well defined, some like their men with beard others prefer them shaved. Me, I'd consider myself average I do work out and have well defined arms and legs but I do have a problem in the stomach and waist area I've been overweight for pretty much my entire life and I don't think that will change naytime soon like I might lose weight but I will never have a six-pack or anything like that. I got used to that though and don't think it should be a factor on why a woman would say no
Jack_42
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 5:52:21 AM

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I'll never be muscled or tall and don't have a problem with it however to my surprise I've seen statements by women saying they like a guy to have a bit of a paunch and sometimes even be slightly grubby like the odd dirty finger nail etc that this is even sexy. Now this doesn't give me a sudden urge to develop these characteristics or anything but I am interested in knowing if any ladies do find this appealing. I forget who said this but it was some young modern female star talking to a girl reporter who agreed with her.
xXMister_TXx
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 6:15:02 AM

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Jack_42 wrote:
I'll never be muscled or tall and don't have a problem with it however to my surprise I've seen statements by women saying they like a guy to have a bit of a paunch and sometimes even be slightly grubby like the odd dirty finger nail etc that this is even sexy. Now this doesn't give me a sudden urge to develop these characteristics or anything but I am interested in knowing if any ladies do find this appealing. I forget who said this but it was some young modern female star talking to a girl reporter who agreed with her.


The last girl I've had sex with actually said she likes it if her man is a bit on the chubby side when I mentioned I'm not as fit as I would like to be
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, August 26, 2013 7:14:06 AM

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It's varied slightly but they all share the commonality of being fit guys. Within the fitness realm, it's ranged from lean yoga-body type to typical swimmer/surfer build to a shredded muscular build. Nothing excessively bulky though as that tends to be a turn-off for me in the same way that a skinny guy would be. Slightly softer (ie. less defined) bodies aren't necessarily a turn-off to me but there would have to be some general level of health and fitness. Heights have ranged - anything from 5'9 and up past 6".


ZigDust
Posted: Friday, October 04, 2013 2:44:14 AM

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SereneProdigy wrote:
One thing I believe in is that when you've been with a partner for some time, his/her physical features become attractive to you, even if they were not initially. Similar features will also remain attractive when seeking subsequent partners.

In your case (Metilda), you've always been pleasured by heavy men (sexually/emotionally), so it is highly possible that you've developped a special attraction for that kind of men.

Myself when I was around 19, I had a crush on a girl who displayed some masculine features in her face (wide jaw, strong cheekbones). I wasn't attracted to her appearance at first, but developped an attraction for her because I loved her personality. I truly feel I thus developped a special attraction for faces like hers ; to this day I still enjoy women with a strong jaw.

Her jaw/mouth were similar to those of Jessica Biel, and strangely enough I believe Jessica Biel is one of the most beautiful actress today. Coincidence?



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CurlyGirly
Posted: Friday, October 04, 2013 5:26:40 AM

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Nah, I'm all over the road.



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HappyEndings
Posted: Saturday, October 05, 2013 10:01:24 AM

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I'll admit that there are a few women on Lush that SEEM to want more than money but there are very few motivators stronger than money. You can talk about what women prefer for centuries but the women that can have any man they want typically are found on the arm of rich men. Trophy wives have their pick.





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MonicaVon
Posted: Saturday, October 05, 2013 10:13:30 AM

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My tastes have varied widely in terms of body types. As long as I'm not repulsed by a person and I'm sexually attracted to them mentally, they're a good candidate for sex.

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