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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 12:50:59 PM

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I am not giving my opinion at this moment, but would to hear yours.
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curious3045
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:00:41 PM

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I chat with many of my friends on here with the black boxes and don't consider it privating I guess. In my mind private is directly related to cybering, to me...
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:01:40 PM

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My opinion is that it is a communication tool that Lush has provided so you can contact a friend who just came on or them you. It is a polite way to say something without totally disrupting a person. If both are free and want to chat that is what the chat window is for. I do not believe it is the same as a whisper or private chat.
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:02:59 PM

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I guess it all comes down to what the conversation is about. BB is faster and easier than chat rooms or chat windows. I use BB frequently but, as I said, it all depends on what the subject is.
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:16:21 PM

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Agree with who's_that_girl. Depends a bit on how you define privating...
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:18:49 PM

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I prefer the black box. It's all how you define your privating...

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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:20:28 PM

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I define privating as a conversation that no one but the participants can be a part of, regardless of the topic. Black boxes between two people, that no one else can see i.e. private.... is privating. No matter if you're cybering or if you're talking about lawn care, cooking, football, or twerking. Hell, someone reading my cyber sessions isn't nearly as troubling as someone reading any real personal/real life conversations i've had in private here.. via black box.





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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:21:19 PM

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I use black boxing to talk with people easier, it's fast and simple. Sometimes annoying, because the boxes are small. I don't think it's always "private" some things I'd say in public, if we were. But, it can be private things also. It depends on what we are talking about.

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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:22:03 PM

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I don't consider the BB as privating. I kinda have to agree with curious3045, I relate private chat with cybering. Just my opinion.
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:23:33 PM

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lafayettemister wrote:
I define privating as a conversation that no one but the participants can be a part of, regardless of the topic. Black boxes between two people, that no one else can see i.e. private.... is privating. No matter if you're cybering or if you're talking about lawn care, cooking, football, or twerking. Hell, someone reading my cyber sessions isn't nearly as troubling as someone reading any real personal/real life conversations i've had in private here.. via black box.


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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:32:47 PM

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Technically, if it isn't public, then it is private, so yeah, it is private messaging. It's a more "instant" form of actually inboxing someone, but if it is a conversation between two folk and nobody else, then it must be private.
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no I dont
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:48:03 PM

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Yes it is just like a whisper, no one else can see it but you and the person your talking to. So, technically its private not public...It's still private no matter if there is intimacy involved or not...
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:58:00 PM

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It's a private conversation between two people. I would think it is private regardless of what the topic is being discussed. I think that some in chat ask to "go private" and that could me BB, private chat as friends, or a private room in chat. That "private" conversation could be to cyber or just to chat. I'm actually now more interested in what prompted the question :-)

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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:00:16 PM

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I think it should be possible to press a button on the black box interface and have it present as private chat regardless of what the other person has as their setting.

Black boxes just get confusing. The chat interface is just a better way of organizing the conversation.

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I think it is, and then it doesn't make you feel bad because you never forget a black box because you can see it in the corner of your eye, but if youre privating its a totally separate window so you can forget about it and completely leave someone hanging ! so I think black boxing is better than privating. and on top of that no one can see it but you and the other person so its just as private as the window.

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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:09:08 PM

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Like some have said above, yes, black boxing can be cyber, throwaway, intimate, quirky, irreverent, sexy...

By it's very nature, it is a private chat between two lushies...

It could be an innocent chat, but just as easily a steamy sex session...
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:20:44 PM

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lol...To bad we can't vote on this some way and see the tally...
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:23:24 PM

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OK I should of said, do you think BB is a way to communicate with your friends when you see them online. This has nothing to do with cybering or sexual talking, or do you think it is privating?
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:23:51 PM

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Yes, it 's between you and the other individual.
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wow!!! nice avatar Angelheart
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TonyT wrote:
It's a private conversation between two people. I would think it is private regardless of what the topic is being discussed. I think that some in chat ask to "go private" and that could me BB, private chat as friends, or a private room in chat. That "private" conversation could be to cyber or just to chat. I'm actually now more interested in what prompted the question :-)


I agree with Tony, to me BB messaging and chat windows are both a private conversation between 2 people here. I rarely use chat windows I prefer bb messaging regardless of the topic its still a private conversation. I am also curious now as to what prompted the question??

If I have been mistaken all this time and people consider privates as only being about cybering then in future with regards to the would you go private with the person above you forum I will only be saying yes to one person, I always assumed it was to chat to regardless of the topic that's what a private is in my view.
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kiera wrote:


I agree with Tony, to me BB messaging and chat windows are both a private conversation between 2 people here. I rarely use chat windows I prefer bb messaging regardless of the topic its still a private conversation. I am also curious now as to what prompted the question??

If I have been mistaken all this time and people consider privates as only being about cybering then in future with regards to the would you go private with the person above you forum I will only be saying yes to one person, I always assumed it was to chat to regardless of the topic that's what a private is in my view.


My answers in that forum would change as well KK...God knows I'd go PRIVATE with you ...if I didn't think Ginger would come after me. And, you were into women.
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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:50:48 PM

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i agree with others...no one else sees it so its private...but i dont think it is always being pervy...it can be a quicker message then the inbox. i use them with a few ppl that i talk regularly to instead of trying to pull them into a chat room. :) and ofc im always good silly ones angel7

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DaisyDo wrote:
OK I should of said, do you think BB is a way to communicate with your friends when you see them online. This has nothing to do with cybering or sexual talking, or do you think it is privating?


You're talking to someone, so it is a way of communication if you look at the definition of the word. I'm not sure what you're asking for here. It's communication between you and another person that no one else can see. Maybe if you gave a tad more info then it would give some better paramters...

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ace_of_hearts wrote:
wow!!! nice avatar Angelheart


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Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:58:42 PM

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I would say yes it is private. I would also state "however, i am sure Gavin would be able to locate the records if he so needed to or desired, being the computer King here and all.
As we are always reminded, Nothing on the internet is every lost or private.

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Tranquil
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 2:58:50 PM

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I would say yes it is private. I would also state "however, i am sure Gavin would be able to locate the records if he so needed to or desired, being the computer King here and all.
As we are always reminded, Nothing on the internet is every lost or private.

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/erotic-poems/my-mother-warned-me-1.aspx



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I messed up....anyone wanna go private? lol...BB me!!
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