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Guest
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 1:50:18 AM

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Fisting my partner has got be the biggest turn on for me - what's yours?
lovelyvampire
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 3:47:40 AM

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the idea is there, but to me it just sounds painful and uncomfortable. Probably because Ive never tried it, but I'm open to anything ;)
OlderGent114
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 5:44:08 AM

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Sorry.....but doesn't sound fun to me.
Guest
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 8:36:41 AM

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Only a turn-on if she enjoys it and it gets her more excited.
Tanksdad
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 9:38:13 AM

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My turn on is a nice round ass scantily clad or naked. Love the curves.
c50t
Posted: Monday, September 23, 2013 9:33:26 PM

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In my little vanilla sex (mostly) world fisting has never really made sense.
Guest
Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 12:26:40 AM

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My partner loves the feeling of being 'full'! If she's turned on enough, wet and open, it takes her over the edge- try it, she may love it ;-)
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Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 3:04:38 AM

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Sorry but fisting just doesn't do anything for me. Just don't think there is anything sexy about it.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 3:55:24 AM

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It depends on many factors, but it must be done slowly and with care. If the girl is super loose and it is easy, then frankly that would not be a turn on for me. But neither would it be if she was in pain.
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Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 4:30:07 AM

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I personally think its awful !
Metilda
Posted: Tuesday, September 24, 2013 9:02:51 AM

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*Siiiigh*

The list of guys in my corner is very thin, I see. . .actually, that's not true. They're just not responding to this thread. AHEM!

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Posted: Wednesday, September 25, 2013 1:01:44 AM

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Metilda wrote:
*Siiiigh*

The list of guys in my corner is very thin, I see. . .actually, that's not true. They're just not responding to this thread. AHEM!


??!
Metilda
Posted: Friday, September 27, 2013 1:11:41 PM

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mrhornydog wrote:


??!


A lot of guys like fisting on this site - and just aren't stepping into this thread.

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Posted: Friday, September 27, 2013 2:30:20 PM

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Fuck no.

If I even foresee it being in a particular porn clip or what not, I immediately click the big red exit button.

Not my cup of tea.
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Posted: Friday, September 27, 2013 8:45:29 PM

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I thought only porn actors did fisting. No one ever tried that with me. Or they just know me better than that. Some forms of sex are good for some and disrespectful for others. I'd put this in the golden shower category.
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Posted: Friday, September 27, 2013 11:56:23 PM

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Metilda wrote:


A lot of guys like fisting on this site - and just aren't stepping into this thread.


I love it and so does my partner - she loves being full!
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Posted: Saturday, September 28, 2013 1:01:35 AM

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No. Not my cup of tea. Being loose is not a turn on at all.
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Posted: Saturday, September 28, 2013 4:03:18 AM

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I just personally think,that fisting a lady is gross &dissrespectful too!
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Posted: Saturday, September 28, 2013 5:13:13 AM

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Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.

I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.

But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL
Metilda
Posted: Saturday, September 28, 2013 8:12:08 AM

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JohnC wrote:
Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.

I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.

But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL


Well said. I don't follow the disrespectful comments either. How can consensual acts be disrespectful?

"Respect the vagina! Respect it!" Makes me giggle.

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Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 12:00:20 AM

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JohnC wrote:
Just a side note: Because you fist a woman it does not mean by default she is loose. Kind of like anal sex does not mean a woman's ass isn't tight by default either. Women give birth to babies that are a heck of a lot bigger than a hand is, and the vast majority of them don't suddenly become loose from that point on.

I don't see how fisting is "disrespectful" though.

But like a lot of sexual things, fisting is not for everyone. It does make me smile to see what seems "taboo" on LUSH what what isn't. There is absolutely no rhyme or reason to it. LOL


Spot on!
ZigDust
Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 3:18:37 PM

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If it was a fantasy of a woman I'm with, I would certainly give it a shot. But I seriously doubt it would be a distinct pleasure for me. Though I've never tried it....nor have I been asked.
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Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 4:06:03 PM

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Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 4:20:51 PM

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Did it to a guy once and only once, he loved it. I felt like I was working a glove puppet. Never again! Worried I might damage him if I got too into it.
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Posted: Sunday, September 29, 2013 6:01:57 PM

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I will do anything my partner wants... if fisting is her thing then that's fine... if not then I can do with out.
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Posted: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 2:40:53 AM

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only if she likes it ... if it turns her on :)
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Posted: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 7:20:18 AM

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Was not originally on my 'sex radar', however, I very carefully and slowly fisted my incredibly excited wife one experimental evening and it was amazing. She had the most amazing multiple orgasms. Glad we tried it. Definite turn on.

It is not something we do all the time, but it is part of our repetoire. Keep it fresh and keep it real.

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 9:24:41 AM

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Not a dude but I'd love to chime in!

The thought of fisting and even the image of it in porn is not a turn on for me. But<----BIG BUT... I enjoy the feeling of being full, fingering often starts with one or two fingers and then increases as the excitement increases. I don't see the difference between fingering and fisting!! My husband has tried it on me, to no avail and I am by no means "loose" I haven't had any vaginal births(not that I think it would make a difference) and my husband is only 5.5", it's still a squeeze and needs lube most times. There is nothing degrading about it, the same as there is nothing degrading about using large toys. Everyone enjoys different things and to different extremes. Would I let my husband fill me with his hand in the heat of the moment? Absolutely! Would I get punched in the vagina like in porn? Hell no!! Everything in moderation and in your comfort zone.... blah5
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Posted: Tuesday, October 01, 2013 10:32:46 AM

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Jessica_Heart wrote:
Not a dude but I'd love to chime in!

The thought of fisting and even the image of it in porn is not a turn on for me. But<----BIG BUT... I enjoy the feeling of being full, fingering often starts with one or two fingers and then increases as the excitement increases. I don't see the difference between fingering and fisting!! My husband has tried it on me, to no avail and I am by no means "loose" I haven't had any vaginal births(not that I think it would make a difference) and my husband is only 5.5", it's still a squeeze and needs lube most times. There is nothing degrading about it, the same as there is nothing degrading about using large toys. Everyone enjoys different things and to different extremes. Would I let my husband fill me with his hand in the heat of the moment? Absolutely! Would I get punched in the vagina like in porn? Hell no!! Everything in moderation and in your comfort zone.... blah5


Well said!
OlderGent114
Posted: Thursday, October 03, 2013 8:36:25 AM

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Feeling full i can understand. Asking me to insert a rather thick toy the size of my hand not a problem. Just doesnt seem the right place for a hand or arm. I guess one bad for me*lol*
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