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CurlyGirly
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 3:35:38 PM

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At one time or another, I'm sure most women have been called this. I'm curious if women find this a turn on?

To be honest, it is a complete turn off and mood killer for me. Someone said that to me this evening and it pretty much ended the conversation for me. Strangely enough, I love to be referred to as "my slut" by the guy I'm involved with, but being called a hot piece of ass pretty much just pisses me off. dontknow It's very objectifying for me.






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Nikki703
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 3:44:37 PM

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It's weird, if I heard that someone referred to me as a hot piece of ass, it wouldn't be a turn on but it wouldn't bother me either. BUT, if someone said to my face "you are a hot piece of ass", I would be really turned off.
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Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 3:47:41 PM

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It's funny if it's said in jest. Like if it's made clear that it's being said jokingly and not in a serious or role-playing kind of way.

Otherwise I agree, it's a total mood killer.



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LadyX
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 3:48:35 PM

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I'm similar to Nikki on this. If it got back to me that somebody called me a hot piece of ass, I'd be somewhere between indifferent and flattered (depending on who it was). But if they said it directly to me, I'd return vicious fire.

hmm...now I feel bad about the fact that I regularly refer to hot guys as "a hot piece". In my defense, I never say it to them.
MrNudiePants
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 4:20:14 PM

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LadyX wrote:
I'm similar to Nikki on this. If it got back to me that somebody called me a hot piece of ass, I'd be somewhere between indifferent and flattered (depending on who it was). But if they said it directly to me, I'd return vicious fire.

hmm...now I feel bad about the fact that I regularly refer to hot guys as "a hot piece". In my defense, I never say it to them.


Speaking just for myself, guys WANT to be referred to as a hot piece. You didn't know?

SereneProdigy
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 4:38:45 PM

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MrNudiePants wrote:
Speaking just for myself, guys WANT to be referred to as a hot piece. You didn't know?


I was about to say this too...



VanGogh
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 5:03:07 PM

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IF a guy said "my, you are a hot piece of ass" .... I'd look around at who he might be talking about.

Personally, I'd laugh. From there, it would likely get very awkward - mostly, because what do you say to that? Thanks?? hahaha

Is it a turn on? Definitely not.
Is it a turn off? Probably ... depends on his tone of voice and his followup.

*thinking* ... yeah, I'd say this line is a mood killer. There's much classier ways of saying ... "hey, I'm interested".





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CurlyGirly
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 5:16:23 PM

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PersonalAssistant wrote:
IF a guy said "my, you are a hot piece of ass" .... I'd look around at who he might be talking about.

Personally, I'd laugh. From there, it would likely get very awkward - mostly, because what do you say to that? Thanks?? hahaha

Is it a turn on? Definitely not.
Is it a turn off? Probably ... depends on his tone of voice and his followup.

*thinking* ... yeah, I'd say this line is a mood killer. There's much classier ways of saying ... "hey, I'm interested".



That was my exact response. sad1

Any flirty fun up until that time was completely killed dead in the water. I really think he believed he was paying me a huge compliment, tho. dontknow



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Mazza
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 5:32:40 PM

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I agree with what's been said above...

It's one thing to hear that "so and so thinks you're a hot piece of ass". There's a bit of a compliment in there, maybe, probably... Like being called a MILF?

But if someone said in sexy talk that they thought I was a hot piece of ass, well, there are plenty more original things to say, aren't there?

I guess that if it was someone I liked, I'd feel a bit disappointed if that was the best they could do?

Guest
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 6:08:31 PM

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LadyX wrote:
I'm similar to Nikki on this. If it got back to me that somebody called me a hot piece of ass, I'd be somewhere between indifferent and flattered (depending on who it was). But if they said it directly to me, I'd return vicious fire.

hmm...now I feel bad about the fact that I regularly refer to hot guys as "a hot piece". In my defense, I never say it to them.


I totally agree here.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Friday, November 08, 2013 6:27:54 PM

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I kind of see it as a tongue-in-cheek term, so it doesn't offend me if it's said by someone I'm involved with, if its part of dirty talk or a friend saying it in jest.

If it's some creepy guy, licking his chops and leering at me in a serious way, saying "mmm mmm... aren't you a hot piece of ass" - yeah, it's not something that would go over well. Then again, there's very little that a lecherous creepy guy *could* say that would go over well.

In general, it doesn't bother me much though. Worst case scenario I'd probably just roll my eyes or tell the person to fuck off.


LittleLuce
Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 9:10:41 AM

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It's a case of not trying to be hypocritical really as so many other women refer to guys and other girls with similar comments. Soooo I just don't let anything like that bother me. Big Hugs




AbigailThornton
Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 9:17:08 AM

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It's not the words that are important but who's saying them and the sentiment behind them. My BF often uses the term when I've dolled myself up and that is more than fine. If my boss called me a hot piece of ass, I wouldn't be quite so comfortable.

Bunny12
Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 9:49:00 AM

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I would take that as a total compliment and often say that to a few of my guys!

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Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 11:11:24 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:
If it's some way creepy older guy, licking his chops and leering at me in a serious, tent-poling way, saying "Nommm Nommm mmmm... aren't you a fine little hot piece of ass" - yeah, it's not something that would go over well.

In general, it doesn't bother me much though. Worst case scenario I'd probably just roll my eyes or tell the person to fuck off.


I've often thought you and LadyX and CHB were some really hot pieces. I'm so relieved that you two may simply roll your eyes at this confirmation.

CHB, on the other hand...has long realized that it's merely a term of endearment - although I believe she may be ready to set my old ass on the nearest curb soon.




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Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 4:41:39 PM

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PersonalAssistant wrote:
IF a guy said "my, you are a hot piece of ass" .... I'd look around at who he might be talking about.

Personally, I'd laugh. From there, it would likely get very awkward - mostly, because what do you say to that? Thanks?? hahaha

Is it a turn on? Definitely not.
Is it a turn off? Probably ... depends on his tone of voice and his followup.

*thinking* ... yeah, I'd say this line is a mood killer. There's much classier ways of saying ... "hey, I'm interested".





This has typically been my response.


Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 5:55:10 PM

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And don't tell a gf's dad she's the "hottest piece of ass" you've ever had. Happened on Opening Day this year, Safeco Field, Seattle, right next to us in the Beer Garden. Father proceeded to pummel the dumbass until security broke it up but that took more than a couple minutes of pummeling.
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Posted: Saturday, November 09, 2013 11:51:43 PM

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I don't really care for the term. Makes the user seem extremely juvenile, whether they are male or female.
DLizze
Posted: Sunday, November 10, 2013 9:23:12 PM

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That's just degrading. The only time I'd ever say that to a woman is if we were role-playing, and I'd just finished telling her she's a sexy little slut. But under those circumstances, it probably still wouldn't be a turn-on for her, nor would I intend it to be.

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Peri
Posted: Friday, November 15, 2013 1:51:46 PM

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Not many people know that legally this falls under the realm of sexual harassment. And in intimate relations, I think its disgusting so I try not to be around those who are beyond any moral or character improvement....
kirawildgirl
Posted: Saturday, November 16, 2013 2:18:12 AM

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In RL, my style has never earned me anything close to that remark.

But in a lez bar some years back, I was hanging out with a GF who is totally hot and was dressed to kill. A total dyke plunked herself beside us and called my GF just that. I think the first words out of her mouth were, "Babe, you are one HOT piece of ass!" She said it in a totally admiring but lustful way. But the conversation that ensued was a lot more civilized and pleasant. In the end they went home together.

On the other hand, I can imagine a thousand times that such a line would have been a complete failure. In RL most people expect me to be dyke-like (I'm tall and big-boned), but I'd NEVER say something like that to anyone, no matter how attractive they were.

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Posted: Saturday, November 16, 2013 3:05:53 AM

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Kristind wrote:
And don't tell a gf's dad she's the "hottest piece of ass" you've ever had. Happened on Opening Day this year, Safeco Field, Seattle, right next to us in the Beer Garden. Father proceeded to pummel the dumbass until security broke it up but that took more than a couple minutes of pummeling.

That's priceless, funniest thing I've read for ages.
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Posted: Sunday, November 17, 2013 3:25:12 PM

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Yes I have been called that and I am not offended at all.

However I certainly understand how many woman would.

Not sure I am, but if the man of the hour thinks I am is that not a good thing?






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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, November 26, 2013 3:52:13 PM

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I don't really care but it is really unoriginal. It might even leave me a little cold in dirty talk situations. While it is flattering to be found attractive, a little eloquence never hurt.
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Posted: Tuesday, December 03, 2013 4:31:35 AM

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CurlyGirly wrote:
At one time or another, I'm sure most women have been called this. I'm curious if women find this a turn on?

To be honest, it is a complete turn off and mood killer for me. Someone said that to me this evening and it pretty much ended the conversation for me. Strangely enough, I love to be referred to as "my slut" by the guy I'm involved with, but being called a hot piece of ass pretty much just pisses me off. dontknow It's very objectifying for me.








Nyaeve80
Posted: Monday, December 23, 2013 2:49:23 PM

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I think at the right moment I would have no problem with this, I would take it as a complement. There are moments when I have made great efforts to look hot, to look sexy and having a guy regard me as a hot piece of ass would be just fine by me.

Not that he should be stupid enough to think I am dumb though. if he did he would be quickly brought to his senses.
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