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Alex7
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:15:58 PM

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I got invited to one once. I didn't log in because it would have been 3am my time, and I usually have FAR better things to do at that time of day. Seriously, though, to me it all sounds like attention seeking bollocks. I would like to read a post from someone who has actually got 'married' and hear their point of view, and what it meant to them.

Sometimes the fun comes below the waistline, sunshine.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:23:22 PM

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LadyX wrote:
My only thoughts are further questions:

If you're online-married, is it a pre-requisite that you be real-life single?
Can you get online-anulled after you've cyber-consummated the marriage?
How lengthy is the online-divorce process?
Has anyone ever had online-kids? (if so, don't comment...actually, just forget I asked that)
Are there online honeymoons?

Those are all serious questions.

Okay, one more:

Is there online-marriage counseling?


Thought provoking questions for sure. I would think that one's real life status is not important, especially if he/she is in a 'claimed relationship' in Lush already. Honeymoons? The world is at our fingertips. Annulment and divorce? A simple mouse click away, I suppose. Online kids? I'd like a dozen, please...mustard, no ketchup. No counseling please. Thanks for making this thread fun.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:28:29 PM

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overmykneenow wrote:
Have you heard of the term "carney marriage"? That's what it reminds me of. A vague intention of staying kind of monogamous, for a while.

Out of interest how many of those six weddings are still in blissful online union? Most of the ones I end up hearing about turn quickly into car crashes.



5 out of 6 are still here and still married. Blissful? Idk. One car crash. No survivors.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:31:29 PM

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NickiC wrote:
I say do what makes your life bearable, happy, content and feels good to you. You do not have to answer for, explain or defend your choices. Now is it for me? No but I don't judge, I will even be the wedding planner if need be.


Great answer. Isn't it odd where we draw the line between real and fantasy. It's tough and the damn line keeps shifting. Thanks for your open mind..
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:43:36 PM

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Ardentmale wrote:
LMAO!!! Oh damn... One of the best threads I have read in a while... I love the humor of lushies, you always keep me laughing!... As far as a cyber wedding?? Well... It comes down to the people involved... Is it something they just want to do to pass the time and have fun? Or is it that they truly are committing themselves to their partner? I totally get adding "In a relationship" to your status, as you are proud and want everyone to know how much another means to you... Making it a marriage? I dont know... definitely not for me... But as others have said... To each their own and hope everyone has happiness and drama free fun in Lush!!... :)


Good answer, John. Thanks for your thoughts.
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 4:47:10 PM

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happy1
SereneProdigy wrote:
Hello people, I was walking my cyber-dog and came accross this thread.

I take things here one step at a time. Cyber-marriage is still too early for me. First, I'm planning to rent a cyber-apartment here on Lush. There's a nice one that has been offered to me ; it's a nice cozy place just between Art & Entertainment and En Vogue, which I think is practical since it's pretty much located in the trendiest part of Lush-City. It fits my cyber-lifestyle. I'll have to check my cyber-budget though, as my current cyber-career (polling in the Ask the Gals neiborhood) is not that lucrative. I thought about offering my services as a cyber stand-up comedian in The Pub as a sideline job. Worst case scenario I'll be the cyber-janitor in the Hardcore section for a while.

But seriously...

I just don't understand the phenomenon. In general, I just browse the forums rapidly and create on average 2-10 posts per day, and I'm already starting to think that I'm investing too much of my real-life time on Lush. I mean, the interactions with people here are very limited ; you can't cuddle, kiss or fuck, let alone 'build' something together (eg. living together, having children, etc). Hell, you can't even have dinner or watch a movie together. The only things you can do is exchange words, opinions, ideas and vague feelings (and maybe offer visual stimulation through Skype), so why not just call it intimate friendship?

Sorry to those who actually participate in those things, but personally I just don't get it.


Appreciate your thoughts. But, we can watch movies together right here very easily. We even have popcorn.happy1
Dani
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 5:21:26 PM

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theplayer wrote:
happy1

Appreciate your thoughts. But, we can watch movies together right here very easily. We even have popcorn.happy1


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sprite
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 5:25:29 PM

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Buz
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 5:38:28 PM

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Well, at least there's no alimony to pay when they get a Lush divorce. However, until you get a Lush Attorney and Lush Judge to sign the divorce decree, Lush husbands and Lush wives, your marriage break up is not official. Sorry!

Read it

Mazza
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 5:40:15 PM

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sprite wrote:
marriage is for suckers.


Amen
Dani
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 5:54:26 PM

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sprite wrote:
marriage is for suckers.


I agree...totally for suckers.





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VanGogh
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 7:26:13 PM

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CurlyGirly wrote:

It's not really my thing, but whatever if it works for them. I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of marriage and relationship hopping going on, but I guess it's all just a fantasy world here, right? The fantasies keep changing. dontknow


I'm with CG on her thoughts about the Lush Marriage.

I am amazed at the number of people I see here that are "so in love with Mr./Ms.A" and proclaim undying love, then, when that goes sideways (however that happens, who knows?) ..... you see the new status "so in love with Mr./Ms.B" ... and so forth thru the Lush Alphabet. confused5 And, let's not forget the anger/disbelief/temper tantrums that get posted on some threads about the jerk/jerkette. Seems like a right merry-go-round with some.

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Lush Marriage .... I think if that's what keeps people happy in their Lush relationships ... I wish them well.

I think to state one is in a relationship with another member is a great idea - especially for those who like to establish their "territory" and hopefully that deters the Lush Poachers.

But again, as DD stated ... Lush should be fun and a splash of fantasy as a lovely distraction to real life ~ sometimes.


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MadMartigan
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 7:43:25 PM

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Poppet
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 8:33:13 PM

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Erm, I personally wouldn't do it, however I wouldn't date someone from Lush again either. I've learned that lesson. But, someone did mention something about Role playing and I can understand that side of it, but on a place like Lush? Not so much, go find an actual role playing site for that. I've been invited to a few Lush weddings (two) and didn't attend either because I hardly knew the people. If this is a serious thing, why are you going to invite people who are basically strangers? Doesn't sound so serious to me. But, who am I to judge? I just won't go to them. Unless, of course, it's a friend I'm very close with.

DLizze
Posted: Wednesday, November 13, 2013 8:52:11 PM

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MUSICIAN AVAILABLE

Will cyber-play for cyber weddings.
50% of cyber-fee due at time of contract. Non-refundable without 30 days notice.
And, no, I NOT play The Chicken Dance, Proud Mary, or Jeremiah Ate a Fucking Bullfrog - I will play the version of Joy To The World that Isaac Watts wrote lyrics for in 1719 though, if you want that.

Edited to add the following:

And I won't play the jingoistic, chauvinistic "Proud To Ba An American" (real title, God Bless The U.S.A), either.

Seriously, though - My immediate reaction to this question is "Not only no, but Hell, no!". But would I form a lasting friendship? Sure - I have with some Lushies, and given the chance, I'd happily meet them IRL.

"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
simplyjohn
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 1:02:53 AM

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I know this is only some fun but seriously remembering that for so many this is all just fantasy and to some extent role play to me its just taking that approach to a higher, perhaps highest, level.

Everyone to their own as I like to say sometimes .....

ps. please please please always invite me to a Lush wedding if there is a free bar and quality buffet food .. thank you so much :p
Magical_felix
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 3:15:34 AM

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LadyX wrote:

Has anyone ever had online-kids? (if so, don't comment...actually, just forget I asked that)


This again? I was proved to be not the father... Again and again with this shit. Just cut it out.



Guest
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 3:19:35 AM

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I was approached on here recently by someone that wanted the online marriage thing. I ran a mile, laughing with every step.
My immediate reaction to the idea was that they were joking. Then when it became clear they weren't I just couldn't get to grips with the idea. To me it seems to make a mockery of both the idea of marriage and the reason for joining a site like this.
I'm still completely confuzzled by the subject. But, if some people want that, crack on. I just hope I never receive an invitation to one, I wouldn't be able to stop myself falling off my cyber-pew with laughter.
lightheart
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 5:19:41 AM

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well i was once invited for engagement party(as explained by that person) which i missed due to time difference...now after reading this thread i regret it so much ..i missed the ..ambience...people..friends...clothes..music and those special emotional moments when they must have exchanged rings and misty eyes....clapping...
well i cannot say yes or no or ridiculous because to give right opinion i think i should get married on lush....anybody to propose me?
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Dani
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 6:26:08 AM

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Buz wrote:
Well, at least there's no alimony to pay when they get a Lush divorce.


There will be when Xuani and I get done with them. evil4



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SventheElder
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 6:52:31 AM

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sprite wrote:
marriage is for suckers.


Amen

Probably - after 43 years (....!)
(As it's often been said - I'd have got less for Murder...!!)
Mysteria27
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 6:57:14 AM

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I was recently asked to officiate a cyber wedding. I was completely floored. First, I am not even that good friends with either party and yet they wanted me to write something and attend their "Cyber Wedding."

I told them that I could not commit to something like that. As I am a mother and wife and cannot commit to a time of day that I could officiate a pretend marriage.

This person is on my friends list but its not like we talk and I don't even really know him or his cyber wife.

I mean how could I make this "Cyber Wedding" special if I don't even know the people.

To each is own....
swollen
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 10:09:51 AM

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Lush weddings!!!! Jeez, if they were for real I'd have had more husbands than Liz Taylor! Still love 'em all though! :)
She
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 12:19:40 PM

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MadMartigan wrote:

I second this, exactly this. What a fun thread!
Just to put it out there, I am giving my money to LadyX, even my pussy moneyevil4
Red_Dragon
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 12:51:45 PM

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SventheElder wrote:
sprite wrote:
marriage is for suckers.


Amen

Probably - after 43 years (....!)
(As it's often been said - I'd have got less for Murder...!!)



occasion5 I totally agree with this assessment

Red_Dragon
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 12:53:17 PM

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Magical_felix wrote:


This again? I was proved to be not the father... Again and again with this shit. Just cut it out.



I dont know from what I heard your all their Father (that's what you get for being an alley cat)

Soleillalune
Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 4:33:03 PM

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The last three REAL weddings I went to, the marriages ended in disaster .. I mean, real shit shows. Not a huge fan of wedding here or HERE. So.. To all the weddings I'll never make to.. Congrats,good luck and all that good stuff ..




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Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 5:14:20 PM

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This is my first year here. I have already seen couples come and go.
I see the hurt in stories and poems from these people and I have see the speed in which they hook up with another semi permanent partner.

I think Honesty is more important to me then any said relationship status. That is what works for me.

Others need to look after themselves. its their lives, their worlds and their happiness not mine. Respect, Grace and friendship without judgement is what Lush to me is all about.

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Posted: Thursday, November 14, 2013 6:16:40 PM

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I'm feeling a bit naive...how do you attend a cyber wedding? What actually transpires? Is video involved? I can't seem to wrap my brain around the logistics of it. Will someone please enlighten me!
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