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Dommehere
Posted: Thursday, November 28, 2013 9:15:22 PM

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Joined: 11/25/2013
Posts: 1
Location: Dallas, United States
I will not read a few pages on the internet, have a look through a book and then declare myself an experienced Domme with many years of experience and several "trained submissive" under my belt. I have taken the time and trouble to attend workshops and seminars and have perhaps had lessons from or sought advice from other Dominants more experience than myself.

I care about the people around me, and though I can be authoritarian and powerful, I have the utmost respect for others and a high level of care and consideration.

I take responsibility for my submissive/s in my life. I control and dominate them, but I am empathetic to them and sympathetic to their needs, understanding that for any submission to give their best, they must be secure and confident in their submission.

I don't have to demand respect, I gets that anyway. I doesn't have to announce to the world who I am , because my reputation and the respect of my peers precede me.

I does not say "My way or the highway" but more " My way, but we can discuss it and I will explain it so that you understand what I am asking of you."

And I don't have to blow my own trumpet!

Approach me if you are interested in me.
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 30, 2013 7:45:45 AM

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There is a thread for people looking for subs under BDSM Lifestyle. You might want to post there instead. Hope it helps!
hornyirishman
Posted: Saturday, November 30, 2013 8:21:52 AM

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I know you said you won't read a few pages on the internet, but you should.


Chivalry is the only "wingman" you need.

Please read and comment on my story http://www.lushstories.com/stories/oral-sex/a-night-to-remember.aspx
beccales91
Posted: Saturday, November 30, 2013 1:27:02 PM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 11/12/2013
Posts: 8
Location: in bed with Katie, United Kingdom
Not usually being very dominant in real life it's fun to be domme in the bedroom
Guest
Posted: Saturday, November 30, 2013 9:20:59 PM

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Posts: 537,826
Sounds like you've had to be trained to be a Domme, which makes you more submissive by nature. Quite odd. Just give in, be a sub! (And just because you're A Domme, doesn't mean I have to bow down to you because I'm A sub, because I ain't Your sub. Technically, I'm a switch, anyway). Since when did Lush become Craigslist, anyway?
Ravyn
Posted: Saturday, November 30, 2013 11:20:41 PM

Rank: Cock Connoisseur

Joined: 4/26/2010
Posts: 2,091
Location: Bend, United States
It seems the many of the long time posters as well as some of the relatively new ones like to get snarky to brand new Lush members. I have seen this over and over in the various threads on Lush. This site is open to all members and that includes the forums. It would be nice to see the new members not get blasted for starting a post that some deem not important or unworthy of discussion. Just because there is a forum post doesn't mean someone needs to reply in it. Read it and move on, there is no need to make the member feel badly for posting, all that does is make people think twice before starting a thread. Lets make them feel welcome to the community instead of pouncing on them for a post you may not agree with :)

adagio_sabadicus
Posted: Sunday, December 01, 2013 6:07:40 PM

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I was denominated most likely to succeed in skoolconfused5 dontknow confused5

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Guest
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 8:01:53 AM

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I think some of the feelings in this thread may not be simply trying to gang up on a new member, or to bash anyone; but instead that it (the OPs post) shows complete selfishness and not caring about the forum in general to make such a lengthy post (and thread of its own) when clearly there is a STICKY thread dedicated to this topic. I for one don't buy the idea that someone might not understand basic forum etiquette and practices concerning SEARCH and STICKY. In this day and age, I just don't buy it at all. I absolutely believe that grace and understanding should be given as often as possible, but blatant things can really get on people's nerves... and thus they post.

It is also true that no one is forced to read or even post in a thread. If they don't like the topic, the person posting, or what is said, they can choose to just ignore it and move along. SO TRUE! :) But that, if I may, applies to chastising as well. :)
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 8:25:43 AM

Rank: Alpha Blonde

Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 6,301
Location: West Coast
JohnC wrote:
I think some of the feelings in this thread may not be simply trying to gang up on a new member, or to bash anyone; but instead that it (the OPs post) shows complete selfishness and not caring about the forum in general to make such a lengthy post (and thread of its own) when clearly there is a STICKY thread dedicated to this topic. I for one don't buy the idea that someone might not understand basic forum etiquette and practices concerning SEARCH and STICKY.


To be fair - this thread was originally posted in another section of the forum. I moved it to the BDSM section.

I also agree with Ravyn's post.


Guest
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 8:41:44 AM

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Dancing_Doll wrote:


To be fair - this thread was originally posted in another section of the forum. I moved it to the BDSM section.

I also agree with Ravyn's post.

To be fair, I don't think anyone KNEW that. ;) And was it possible to place it in the appropriate STICKY thread? Just wondering.

With that said, being that the forum has clearly laid out sections, I don't really know if you actually made the OP look better, or worse. dontknow It kind of supports what I said above.
Guest
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 8:50:12 AM

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It has been a rough week or so... so please everyone take my posts accordingly. I am done with it all. I don't want to cause problems or get into any internet tit for tats. I apologize.
Dancing_Doll
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 8:51:03 AM

Rank: Alpha Blonde

Joined: 2/17/2010
Posts: 6,301
Location: West Coast
JohnC wrote:

To be fair, I don't think anyone KNEW that. ;) And was it possible to place it in the appropriate STICKY thread? Just wondering.

With that said, being that the forum has clearly laid out sections, I don't really know if you actually made the OP look better, or worse. dontknow It kind of supports what I said above.


No. It was not possible to place it into a sticky. I simply moved it to a section that was more on-topic.

Apologies if the mere existence of this forum thread has raised anyone's blood pressure. geek


RockLover22
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 9:15:14 AM

Rank: Active Ink Slinger

Joined: 6/17/2013
Posts: 22
Location: United Kingdom
Any doms, male or female feel free to do as u wish to me
TheSickRose
Posted: Monday, December 02, 2013 10:37:18 AM

Rank: Rookie Scribe

Joined: 11/29/2013
Posts: 3
Location: India
Ahhh! I do... I do want to be dominated, if anyone can.... ;)
Dani
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 8:45:16 AM

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Posts: 4,725
Location: Under Your Bed, United States
Dancing_Doll wrote:


No. It was not possible to place it into a sticky. I simply moved it to a section that was more on-topic.

Apologies if the mere existence of this forum thread has raised anyone's blood pressure. geek


laughing9





Baby put your arms around me, tell me I'm a problem...

Magical_felix
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 2:01:52 PM

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Location: California
JohnC wrote:
It has been a rough week or so... so please everyone take my posts accordingly. I am done with it all. I don't want to cause problems or get into any internet tit for tats. I apologize.


That's what online forums and message boards are. You post a thought then someone responds to it. If you don't like it you're better off writing your thoughts in a diary were no one can respond to what you said and you won't have to constantly keep apologizing.

This is like jumping in a swimming pool then getting upset because you got wet... Don't jump in and you won't get wet.



thor12300
Posted: Monday, December 09, 2013 2:18:32 PM

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Location: Poole, United Kingdom
I would rather dominate. Not sure why have tried being dominated but it didnt give me the same buzz.
meluvulongtime
Posted: Friday, December 13, 2013 11:38:39 PM

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Is this a trick question...yes? Please? Its nice to see you have put the work in to claim that title...the workshops and seminars can be a lot of fun and you learn a lot too and seeing all the diverse faces and people from different backgrounds is pretty cool too. Welcome and I hope you find what you're looking for.
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Posted: Friday, December 13, 2013 11:57:09 PM

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Depends are you a Cowboys fan?

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princessrach
Posted: Saturday, December 21, 2013 6:21:21 AM

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Location: chesterfield, United Kingdom
id rather be the sub and be dominated :)

Princess Rach xxxx
stephanie98
Posted: Saturday, December 21, 2013 8:40:40 AM

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Joined: 11/13/2013
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Location: spokane, United States
yes, I love being totally dominated, blindfolded and never know what's to come
dpw
Posted: Wednesday, December 25, 2013 5:03:59 AM

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Joined: 9/15/2013
Posts: 3,220
Location: Liverpool, United Kingdom
Ravyn wrote:
It seems the many of the long time posters as well as some of the relatively new ones like to get snarky to brand new Lush members. I have seen this over and over in the various threads on Lush. This site is open to all members and that includes the forums. It would be nice to see the new members not get blasted for starting a post that some deem not important or unworthy of discussion. Just because there is a forum post doesn't mean someone needs to reply in it. Read it and move on, there is no need to make the member feel badly for posting, all that does is make people think twice before starting a thread. Lets make them feel welcome to the community instead of pouncing on them for a post you may not agree with :)

WHAT! Well I wasn't going to post until I read yours.
What gives you the right to criticise other members? Did you read the pile of crap in the op? My reputation precedes me, other doms respect me but I'm not here to blow my own trumpet!
Get real, she's asking to be shot at! If she was that good she'd have subs queueing up and not having to post ads for her services
Ravyn
Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2013 2:35:19 AM

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Posts: 2,091
Location: Bend, United States
dpw wrote:

WHAT! Well I wasn't going to post until I read yours.
What gives you the right to criticise other members? Did you read the pile of crap in the op? My reputation precedes me, other doms respect me but I'm not here to blow my own trumpet!
Get real, she's asking to be shot at! If she was that good she'd have subs queueing up and not having to post ads for her services
.

I have the right as any other member to state my opinion. I did not criticize I merely stated my opinion. If you do not like it, then that is your prerogative. I stand by my post, as for your reputation preceding you, I have no clue of who you are or what you claim to be. Respect is earned not given freely, if you feel you are respected by other Dom's, if that little tid bit is what helps you sleep at night, then more power to you.

dpw
Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2013 7:35:14 AM

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Ravyn wrote:
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I have the right as any other member to state my opinion. I did not criticize I merely stated my opinion. If you do not like it, then that is your prerogative. I stand by my post, as for your reputation preceding you, I have no clue of who you are or what you claim to be. Respect is earned not given freely, if you feel you are respected by other Dom's, if that little tid bit is what helps you sleep at night, then more power to you.

"My reputation precedes me" etc are not MY words they're in the op so you might be better directing those comments at her. As for your right to give your opinions it's a two way street, you seemed quick enough to jump on others when they gave theirs'. I'd suggest you reread the whole thread to refresh your memory!
Ravyn
Posted: Tuesday, December 31, 2013 5:09:43 PM

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dpw wrote:

"My reputation precedes me" etc are not MY words they're in the op so you might be better directing those comments at her. As for your right to give your opinions it's a two way street, you seemed quick enough to jump on others when they gave theirs'. I'd suggest you reread the whole thread to refresh your memory!


I am all for free opinions, my only point was that many are quick to judge someone for the question they ask in the forums. It makes people apprehensive about posting and asking questions.

Meggsy
Posted: Wednesday, January 01, 2014 3:49:44 PM

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Location: Australia
Domination is not in my list of likes - I like to share my pleasures and enjoy the fun and excitement of being together in a mutually egreeable partnership.
I have tried mild BDSM but it didnt give me any highs. I can and do occasionally enjoy a slap on the bum during a doggy., but that is not BDSM in my book.
dpw
Posted: Wednesday, January 01, 2014 5:16:10 PM

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Ravyn wrote:


I am all for free opinions, my only point was that many are quick to judge someone for the question they ask in the forums. It makes people apprehensive about posting and asking questions.

My point is didn't it occur to you that your comment might make the people you were criticising be apprehensive about making their feelings known?
If the original op was against rules it should have been deleted or locked and an explanation sent. As it was in the public domain it is fair game to be lauded or shot at!
Don't you agree?
The op was like a speech for class president at Miss Whiplash's School for Domiinatrices!
SusanHarper
Posted: Friday, January 03, 2014 3:33:39 PM

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Location: United Kingdom
Wow,

You sound like the kind of woman I could really respect.

Respectfully


Susan
Casualguy1st
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 6:32:54 AM

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yes, I love being totally dominated, blindfolded and never know what's to come

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Minim
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 5:40:16 PM

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