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seagrit
Posted: Wednesday, December 11, 2013 7:44:52 AM

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I am straight and have always love when a women play with my ass. My wife fucks me in the ass with her strap-on all the time and I enjoy it. To all the men out there try it. It does not make you gay.
Racer_Murray22
Posted: Saturday, December 21, 2013 3:03:57 AM

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If my fiance didn't find it weird, I would TOTALLY go for it!

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The moon always falls,
It feels like the end,
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dpw
Posted: Sunday, December 22, 2013 4:34:51 PM

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seagrit wrote:

To all the men out there try it. It does not make you gay.

Then why are the strap-ons usually shaped like a cock? If you really enjoy it surely it must make you curious as to how the real thing would feel.
cordite74
Posted: Sunday, January 05, 2014 1:06:08 PM

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Not necessarily. Different people can draw the line at differing places. While you might not be able to imagine that one could not, it doesn't mean that no one could. A man that enjoys pegging could in any of a number of places on the sexuality spectrum.
dpw
Posted: Sunday, January 05, 2014 3:00:09 PM

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cordite74 wrote:
Not necessarily. Different people can draw the line at differing places. While you might not be able to imagine that one could not, it doesn't mean that no one could. A man that enjoys pegging could in any of a number of places on the sexuality spectrum.

It's still a bit gay!
It's using a cock shaped appliance attached to a woman to assuage a man's conscience!
cordite74
Posted: Thursday, January 09, 2014 9:36:11 AM

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Gay is defined by the gender of a person and the gender(s) of the people that person is attracted to. Not sure why this concept is so difficult for some to grasp.

If you see it as gay that's your perception. You're mistakenly assuming that dildos are a gateway to cock. They can be but that doesn't mean that they are in all cases. It's rudimentary logic.
dpw
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 2:33:33 AM

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cordite74 wrote:
Gay is defined by the gender of a person and the gender(s) of the people that person is attracted to. Not sure why this concept is so difficult for some to grasp.

If you see it as gay that's your perception. You're mistakenly assuming that dildos are a gateway to cock. They can be but that doesn't mean that they are in all cases. It's rudimentary logic.

No, gay is not defined by gender it's defined by sex.
My point is a guy taking a cock shaped object up his ass is a gay act. If it wasn't the object wouldn't be cock shaped! The fact that a man has a pseudo penis in his anus is, to my mind, quasi gay!
Fuckbuddy69
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 9:15:47 AM

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I'd like to try it, never been fortunate enough to have a girl that sexuality free. Oh well... and no, it doesn't make you gay. There are plenty of straight guys getting rimmed or their asshole played with... this is just the next level up.
HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 10:45:03 AM

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dpw wrote:

No, gay is not defined by gender it's defined by sex.
My point is a guy taking a cock shaped object up his ass is a gay act. If it wasn't the object wouldn't be cock shaped! The fact that a man has a pseudo penis in his anus is, to my mind, quasi gay!


I have to totally disagree with you this time.

The biggest thing about being gay is not just the sex act itself -- it is about who you are attracted to.

There are many men who who love to have a vibrator (which is phallic like too) stuck in their ass by a woman just the same as woman with a strap-on fucking them, but that is because they are sexually attracted to that woman. You put a man doing the same thing and many of those men would be turned off to the point they would lose their erection or simply lose interest in the act itself.

Many lesbians love phallic like objects too but they don't want a man doing it to them. It would not be exciting or a turn-on for them at all.

Being gay is not just about the sex act. The same as being bisexual is not just about the sex act. It takes a whole lot more to being either than just that.

To me the whole labeling everything and saying this or that is a gay act is the reason so many people have so many hangups. And why so many men in particular have such a problem with accepting they are gay or bisexual.

I say let people enjoy what they enjoy and quit trying to label everything as gay sex or straight sex.

HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 10:46:35 AM

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Even a finger is phallic -- like too.

Does that make it a gay act too if a man likes to have his ass fingered during a blow job or sex?

dpw
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 7:53:18 PM

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Fuckbuddy69 wrote:
I'd like to try it, never been fortunate enough to have a girl that sexuality free. Oh well... and no, it doesn't make you gay. There are plenty of straight guys getting rimmed or their asshole played with... this is just the next level up.

I didn't say it made you gay. Both sexes have tongues and fingers but only males have a penis. If a penis is in your ass it's a gay act and if a penis shaped dildo is in your ass it is simulating a gay act. It's the same if I use a fleshlite I'm simulating a straight act, but it wouldn't make me straight.
dpw
Posted: Saturday, January 11, 2014 8:04:15 PM

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HotBttmInBriefs wrote:
Even a finger is phallic -- like too.

Does that make it a gay act too if a man likes to have his ass fingered during a blow job or sex?

No a finger is a finger and both sexes have them. A phallus is penis shaped and only men have them. I'm not saying it maker you gay, I'm not even saying it makes you bi. All I've said is if a penis shaped object goes into a guy's ass it's simulating gay sex. There is no straight equivalent. I'm not disparaging or labelling anyone for doing it, you should do what you enjoy.
swollen
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 12:42:16 AM

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Let's get back on topic here guys.

My hub, who's certainly not gay or bi, would most undoubtedly love it if I produced a strap-on with his arse in mind. I haven't got one though, and don't intend to buy one - I have an anal plug that makes him squeak already! I think the attraction value, for him (and the very fact he let me do it in the first place) was for the experience. Subsequent to that, he just enjoys the element of carnal eroticism and the sensation of feeling 'full'.

From my 'research' most guys are inquisitive around this very subject. So why hold back? life's short!
Dudealicious
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 7:08:58 AM

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dpw wrote:

No a finger is a finger and both sexes have them. A phallus is penis shaped and only men have them. I'm not saying it maker you gay, I'm not even saying it makes you bi. All I've said is if a penis shaped object goes into a guy's ass it's simulating gay sex. There is no straight equivalent. I'm not disparaging or labelling anyone for doing it, you should do what you enjoy.


Derek, if I have seen some of your posts correctly in the past you actually advocate against labels.
At the end of the day, people will call it whatever they want. Most importantly if they enjoy it, who gives a rats ass what it's called?

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dpw
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 7:26:25 AM

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Dudealicious wrote:


Derek, if I have seen some of your posts correctly in the past you actually advocate against labels.
At the end of the day, people will call it whatever they want. Most importantly if they enjoy it, who gives a rats ass what it's called?

That's exactly what I said at the end of my post. It's all about the pleasure.
HotBttmInBriefs
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 10:49:30 AM

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dpw wrote:

No a finger is a finger and both sexes have them. A phallus is penis shaped and only men have them. I'm not saying it maker you gay, I'm not even saying it makes you bi. All I've said is if a penis shaped object goes into a guy's ass it's simulating gay sex. There is no straight equivalent. I'm not disparaging or labelling anyone for doing it, you should do what you enjoy.


Derek you know I love you, but I still disagree with you. The straight equivalent is called anal sex.

There is anal sex between a man and a woman as well as between woman and woman or man and man.

The only thing that makes sex gay or straight is who it is between. Many gay men don't even have anal sex. There are many gay men that not only don't like it but they don't even believe in it (the whole frottage movement).

As swollen said many men are just curious about it. Just find the fullness enjoyable. But they wouldn't enjoy it if it was with another man. They enjoy it because of who it is happening with.

dpw
Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2014 1:26:11 PM

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HotBttmInBriefs wrote:


Derek you know I love you, but I still disagree with you. The straight equivalent is called anal sex.

There is anal sex between a man and a woman as well as between woman and woman or man and man.

The only thing that makes sex gay or straight is who it is between. Many gay men don't even have anal sex. There are many gay men that not only don't like it but they don't even believe in it (the whole frottage movement).

As swollen said many men are just curious about it. Just find the fullness enjoyable. But they wouldn't enjoy it if it was with another man. They enjoy it because of who it is happening with.

Mmm, playing you're trump card with the first line! You know how to shut me up.
I'm off to bed with my fantasies!
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Hardallnight
Posted: Monday, January 13, 2014 2:04:41 AM

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I'd love to try it but the wife's not up for it sadly. I'd love to have something rub against my prostate! Sounds fun
stephanie98
Posted: Monday, January 13, 2014 4:21:53 AM

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I will always remember my first time, as if it were yesterday, there was a little pain at first, but after relaxing and her going deeper and harder, when I came, it shot out like a cannon, wow, now anal is the best sex for me that there is
cordite74
Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 12:24:03 PM

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dpw wrote:
No, gay is not defined by gender it's defined by sex.

You're misrepresenting what I said. Sex of the people sexually attracted to each other is definitely relevant. A dildo, on the other hand, is an inanimate object. It has no gender and no sexual preference so it can't be straight gay or bi.

dpw wrote:
My point is a guy taking a cock shaped object up his ass is a gay act.

I fully understand your point but your reasoning is flawed and you're projecting your preferences. You might not be able to appreciate that a straight man could enjoy a dildo (and have no interest whatsoever in another man) but that doesn't mean that it is not possible. Strap on sex can be a straight sex act. It can be a gay sex act. It can be a bi sex act. It can be a lesbian sex act.

dpw wrote:
If it wasn't the object wouldn't be cock shaped!

That's circular reasoning. Being like something does not make the thing into the something.

Fact is that most dildos are representational. There are some non-representational ones and people certainly use them. Either way the general shape is very good at the job. However, that does not define it as gay -- or any sexual preference aside from preferring a dildo in the ass.

dpw wrote:
The fact that a man has a pseudo penis in his anus is, to my mind, quasi gay!

Precisely why I said you perceive it as gay. Perception and reality aren't always the same thing.
dpw
Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 12:38:26 PM

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cordite74 wrote:

I fully understand your point but your reasoning is flawed and you're projecting your preferences. You might not be able to appreciate that a straight man could enjoy a dildo (and have no interest whatsoever in another man but that doesn't mean that it is not possible. Strap on sex can be a straight sex act. It can be a gay sex act. It can be a bi sex act. It can be a lesbian sex act.

I was making the point that gender and sex are not the same thing. I thought they were until I was pulled up about it, I did a bit of research and found that I was wrong.
The other part I won't comment on as I've been asked not to.
cordite74
Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 12:47:02 PM

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Hardallnight wrote:
I'd love to try it but the wife's not up for it sadly. I'd love to have something rub against my prostate! Sounds fun

There are prostate toys, massagers, butt plugs, etc that could be worth checking out as well.

dpw wrote:

I was making the point that gender and sex are not the same thing. I thought they were until I was pulled up about it, I did a bit of research and found that I was wrong.

Sorry, that wasn't clear in your prior posts. Your quoting and reply seemed to indicate that I was stating that they were one and the same.
dpw
Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 5:08:24 PM

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cordite74 wrote:

Precisely why I said you perceive it as gay. Perception and reality aren't always the same thing.

I've promised not to antagonize on this post and you're quoting early posts of mine. I stand by my post on Sunday at 2:04. Any further discussion with me can only be done with a pm.
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