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swollen
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 12:12:44 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

Question time over for now - thank you for answering xx

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Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 12:44:22 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

I do consider them different.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?

Orgasming is a feeling. It can be reached without ejaculation. Cumming is the physical act of ejaculating. They are usually linked but don't have to be.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

Not at all as long as my partner is satisfied.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

I've got a pretty quick recovery period. Sometimes right away. Other times a few minutes.
Motoman
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 12:49:58 PM

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I would express that both are the same to me. The act of cumming and orgasm are the same. Some tantric meditational gents may differ. Although I have no experience in that matter. You can deny ejaculation, but the mind numbing blinding lightning strikes orgasm still happens. Being a male, and wanting sweet release more often then not, the are times when with a lover I am alright with not needing to cum. To make it all about her, to just please her during sex. Weather it be orally start to finsih or even with intercourse leading to fingers or a toy. It just builds the need for sweet release later on, then look out. LOL. Once I have cummed orgasmed my recharge time is usually 15-20 minutes. Have been able to recharge quicker with her urging hands or wanting mouth. Recharge quicker if have obstained from sex for a lil bit. LOL

Hope this helps
Sol_Invictus
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 1:22:49 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
To me it's the same thing. Cumming is the physical manifestation of the orgasm.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
Not at all, the best sex I ever had was 24 hours touching, licking, nipping and caressing. Just being taken to the brink with no release like that was amazing.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
Depends on how into it I am. Sometimes right away, sometimes half an hour.

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Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 1:28:13 PM

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They are indeed distinctly different! Cumming is 'Ejaculation', and an escort to orgasm! There is in fact a good article on orgasm in Wikipedia!

For me having a second round depends on... how charged the situation is.. usually 30 mins and sometimes right away!!


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playsit
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 2:04:39 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ? No. I believe the two are different.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ? I have reached a state of orgasm without ejaculation. If Ive already cummed, and still have an erection, I can have another orgasm but might not have had enough time to create more semen.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ? That only happens when I've had a lot of sex in a short amount of time, and no, I'm not disappointed. Even if niether of us cums after a 'busy' weekend, its still an amazing feeling to be naked together with your lover.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ? it all depends. Sometimes 10-15 minutes, other times maybe a few hours. I think my physical activity and fluid intake have something to do with it as much as anything else.
SydneySider
Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 3:34:31 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
I can appreciate that there is a difference, but I dont have the ability to separate the 2

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
Sometimes, but if that happens then usually the desire has gone so I just stop and try again later

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
Depending on the situation, if I dont pull out, I can go again in a few minutes. Other times, 10mins. Sometimes, its the last thing I want to do if Im too sensitive.





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Posted: Tuesday, February 14, 2012 10:38:59 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
Yes....don't know how to separate them

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?
n/a

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
Yes and no. As I've gotten older, I've had more experience with this phenomenon. Used to take a medicine that caused anorgasmia as a side effect. I think it frustrated my wife as much or more than I, as she felt like she wasn't turning me on sufficiently. Took us a while to adjust.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
30-45 minutes probably
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 5:51:19 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ? No they are different

If not, can you describe how the two differ ? Cumming is ejaculating, a physical and visual happening whereas orgasming is a feeling (a great one) and its possible to have an orgasm without cumming

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ? no

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ? probably 20 mins to half an hour, the perfect amount of time to start up foreplay again =)
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Posted: Wednesday, February 15, 2012 7:22:10 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ? Yes I do.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ? N/A

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ? It depends on the situation.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ? Varies again depending on the situation.


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Posted: Thursday, February 16, 2012 1:12:04 AM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

Yes, I consider them the same thing. I've never had one without the other.


Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming?

Not really. There are a lot of factors that lead to me not cumming, i.e: alcohol consumption, sleepiness, things on my mind, etc. As long as my partner is satisfied during these times, that's all that matters. If I'm not going to cum, I may as well focus on my partner.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

Generally between 10 to 15 minutes.
robart88
Posted: Thursday, February 16, 2012 4:30:28 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-.Oh my dear what a provacartive valentines day question

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
no not at all..

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?
cumming is a physical release of semen that can occur with out much eroticism or sensual mystique. An orgasm is the complete sensual release of a my sexual energy that his been stored up and during arousal pushed to the limits. I have experienced orgasm w/o cumming

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
frankly....... yes because a an orgasm without a physical release can be a bit frustrating as there is a sexual energy that has not released. Cumming without orgasm is empty and undesirable

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
depended on the session that brought about my orgasm and the person i am with. on the norm 15 minutes or so

Question time over for now - thank you for answering xx
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Posted: Friday, February 17, 2012 2:45:00 AM

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swollen wrote:
Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
As someone else said I'm sure there is a difference but I can't feel it.


If not, can you describe how the two differ ?



Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
I have never had sex that didn't lead to me cumming unless I'm drunk and just give up.


Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
If there is stimulation right after I ejaculate I can go again right away. If things are let to calm down then at least half an hour.


Question time over for now - thank you for answering xx

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AnnaGrace
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 12:30:47 AM

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Wow, these answers actually surprised me!

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Guest
Posted: Sunday, February 19, 2012 3:13:24 PM

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swollen wrote:
Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

Yep...they both require the same muscular effort.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?



Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

If you went to the amusement park and the roller coaster shut down right before you got on...how would you feel?

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

Twenty minutes...to an entire nap!

Question time over for now - thank you for answering xx

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Guest
Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 10:28:12 PM

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SexiiEbonii wrote:
Wow, these answers actually surprised me!


How so?
Naughty_Magician
Posted: Tuesday, February 21, 2012 10:47:44 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

Yes

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

Not at all, I don't like to cum every time I have sex.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

It can take anything from minutes to hours, depending on how turned on I am and how hard I came.



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Budlee
Posted: Tuesday, August 14, 2012 6:12:14 AM

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I equate them as the same thing. Not sure if it is possible to orgasm and not ejaculate at least some cum. However, a man can be forced to ejaculate without an orgasm through prostate massages. For those males who are sub/slaves and not allowed to orgasm this is one way pressure is released.
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Posted: Wednesday, August 15, 2012 11:22:25 AM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing?

I can have an orgasm without ejaculating, so no, not the same thing, in my eyes.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?

Difficult one. Orgasm is, to me, the feeling, that pulsation, the muscles going bonkers flexing and relaxing in various body parts, mostly around the crotch area and the buttocks and of course the all round great feeling of it. Cumming is simply ejaculating, followed by orgasm but sometimes not as powerful as orgasm on it's own. Like I said, it's actually quite difficult to convey accurately.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

No, sex is about more than just "the goal of cumming". It's about being with someone in an intimate way and if we are both satisfied, it doesn't always have to lead to cumming.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

Anything from a few minutes to a couple of hours, depending on how intense the initial ejaculation was and how turned on I still am.

I quite enjoyed this wee survey :)
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Posted: Thursday, August 16, 2012 5:02:14 AM

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1. Yes I consider cumming and orgasming the same thing. At least for me anyway, they are quite intense and send a sensation throughout my body. The actual cum is icing on the cake that just happens to come out my tip.

2. 1st one was yes so nothing to answer here. lol.

3. No I'm not. For me, sex isn't only about me getting off / cumming. If she's not enjoying it or doesnt cum, then I'm not doing my job so why should I get to cum? Anyway, for me at least, I can have just a great a time without cumming as well but I'm more of a giver. I get turned on by her getting off.

4. It only takes me a couple of minutes to get hard again after ejaculating. I can cum quickly also but there's generally a period after the first or second cum, to where I can go without cumming for an hour and stay hard the entire time. Sometimes even the first cum will be half an hour or more. Depends on how sensitive my tip is from being worked.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 6:47:46 PM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?

Definitely not, through many hours of research and putting it into practice, I can have several orgasm before ejaculating. Try reading this book and the others in the series, there awesome.
The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?

The orgasm is a whole body and mind experience which can last for several minutes. Ejaculating only feels good till you have finished coming.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?

Not at all. Once all body orgasms are mastered, ejaculating doesn't come any where near it.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?

It varies from 15minutes to an hour, depending on the mood and how rested up I am before hand.
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Posted: Tuesday, January 14, 2014 7:57:06 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing?
No.

If not, can you describe how the two differ?
To me, orgasm is the sensation I feel when my body reaches the point of ejaculation. Cumming is the ejaculation. Is there a difference? Most definitely.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming?
No. My focus is on my partner. Her pleasure is my concern, my physical pleasure comes after, if at all.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again?
That depends on how physically tired I am. Sometimes it is as quickly as 10 minutes, other times an hour or longer.

Question time over for now - thank you for answering xx

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Posted: Sunday, January 19, 2014 7:43:44 AM

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Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
- yes

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?
- n/a

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
- not if she has cum

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
- it depends on the mood. sometimes 20 mins, other times 4 hours or more. if I am hugely aroused it can be very quick
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I have always thought of them as the same thing. The orgasm and the ejaculation generally go hand-in-hand for me, though the intensity of the former varies widely.

Sex rarely doesn't end in cumming for me, but I do enjoy just the intimacy of naked physical contact so, while it may disappoint me when it happens, it isn't a disaster.

Recharge time for me has expanded with age. I used to be able to get off in fairly rapid succession. Now, I probably need at least an hour of recharge time for each orgasm and, I suspect, I would probably not be able to manage more than a couple or three a day.

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dpw
Posted: Sunday, January 19, 2014 5:29:54 PM

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Ok chaps, I'm intrigued to know, so please tell all:-
What an interesting question!

Do you consider cumming and orgasming the same thing ?
Yes but it's not. In my case the time between the two is so small that it feels like they are the same.

If not, can you describe how the two differ ?
The orgasm is affects your brain, cumming is a feeling in your balls and cock.

Are you disappointed if sex doesn't lead to you cumming ?
Sometimes if that is the aim. Not all sex is about cumming.

Realistically, once you've ejaculated, how long does it take you to be able to do it again ?
Usually a lot longer now than it used to. Varies between 15 mins and an hour, it used to be no longer than 20 mins.

RichInMich
Posted: Sunday, January 19, 2014 5:46:53 PM

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I do consider them the same...

And definitely not disappointed if sex doesn't lead to me finishing - do you know how many times we've gotten interrupted by kids, or others in the house who came home unexpectedly lol..

It could take 30-60 minutes, now that I'm in my forties.. In my younger days, it would be 5-10 minutes, or even sometimes I could have multiple...
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Posted: Sunday, January 26, 2014 5:11:23 PM

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I must agree with the first post on here although with one difference my recovery rate is not that quick about 15 to 30 minutes depending on the length of the first session.
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thor12300 wrote:
I must agree with the first post on here although with one difference my recovery rate is not that quick about 15 to 30 minutes depending on the length of the first session.

It gets longer as you get older, it's like the reaction time in a 4 x 100 relay!
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Posted: Monday, January 27, 2014 10:46:32 AM

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Lots of variables to consider, the mood, the person, how long it's been building, a ride of pleasure or a rush to the finish.
To come is a great feeling but to orgasm is a whole body experience and a feeling that can't be rivalled.
on a few occasions I've gone all night without deflation or stopping just slowed right down and built on the feeling of orgasm again.
No blue pills either lol but did run out of spunk! Bit sore then for day or two, a throbbing reminder of Good Times had ..
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Lots of variables to consider, the mood, the person, how long it's been building, a ride of pleasure or a rush to the finish.
To come is a great feeling but to orgasm is a whole body experience and a feeling that can't be rivalled.
on a few occasions I've gone all night without deflation or stopping just slowed right down and built on the feeling of orgasm again.
No blue pills either lol but did run out of spunk! Bit sore then for day or two, a throbbing reminder of Good Times had ..
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