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Poll Question : Found out she kissed someone. Is it cheating?
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Oh definitely. 14 33 %
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Maybe. Depends on a few factors. 21 50 %
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Guest
Posted: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 8:05:54 PM

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This is a variation of the question posed in Ask Gals.

You found out she kissed someone recently. Do you consider that cheating?
Guest
Posted: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 8:13:09 PM

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Yes !
LePhantom99
Posted: Wednesday, May 12, 2010 8:36:40 PM

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Yep. if its live...nope if its cyber :)

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MrRowan
Posted: Thursday, May 13, 2010 10:47:47 AM

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Yeah would be pretty pissed off if I seen my girl kiss another guy. Her kissing another girl is different though - I wouldn't mind - my friends cant understand that.

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SIL50
Posted: Thursday, May 13, 2010 8:27:51 PM

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I really don't think so, although it would really depend on the type. Just a peck on the lips would definitelynot be cheating in my book.
tommie
Posted: Friday, May 14, 2010 5:25:57 AM

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Depends on so many things, type of relationship, type of kiss, type of lipstick (not really, just kidding).

But suppose she is the one girl I'm exclusive with and she's kissing another guy intimate, even for one time, then yes thats definately cheating for me.
redhotmommacita
Posted: Friday, May 14, 2010 9:46:27 AM

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it would depend on if I kissed someone else or if I was kissed if he kissed me unexpectedly then I do not consider it cheating....if he kissed me without me asking for it....



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Syd
Posted: Friday, May 14, 2010 9:59:20 AM

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I would not consider it cheeting if she did it in front of me, then it would be hot I would think. But if she tried to hide it, then yeah, it would be cheeting.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being?
DamonX
Posted: Wednesday, May 19, 2010 9:59:58 PM

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I think people spend too much time worrying about what constitutes "cheating". Whatever your exact definition may be, just ask yourself "Would my significant other not want me to be doing this?" If the answer is yes, then it can be defined as cheating (if such a definition is even required). In general, most women will be opposed to having you show romantic affection to another woman, and the more affection/contact the worse it is. Think of it as a spectrum rather than a distinct cut-off point.
Algol
Posted: Thursday, May 20, 2010 8:06:10 PM

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No... I get several hugs and kisses every day, nothing passionate or sensual about them. If one of them shot their tongue down my throat... Then that would be a different story.

Algol

myself
Posted: Thursday, May 20, 2010 8:15:25 PM

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If you kissed another passionately would you consider that cheating?

Torture the data long enough and they will confess to anything.
Algol
Posted: Thursday, May 20, 2010 8:57:41 PM

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myself wrote:
If you kissed another passionately would you consider that cheating?


Kissing with passion won't stop at kissing...no no no



Algol

WellMadeMale
Posted: Thursday, May 20, 2010 9:46:24 PM

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Algol wrote:
No... I get several hugs and kisses every day, nothing passionate or sensual about them. If one of them shot their tongue down my throat... Then that would be a different story.


It would then be called: Fucking ?

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Algol
Posted: Friday, May 21, 2010 4:24:33 AM

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WellMadeMale wrote:
Algol wrote:
No... I get several hugs and kisses every day, nothing passionate or sensual about them. If one of them shot their tongue down my throat... Then that would be a different story.


It would then be called: Fucking ?

book


No, but it would be getting closer to it.evil4

Algol

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Posted: Friday, May 21, 2010 5:35:52 AM

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Algol wrote:
No... I get several hugs and kisses every day, nothing passionate or sensual about them. If one of them shot their tongue down my throat... Then that would be a different story.


Gotta go with Algol. Given my Euro-centric culture and background it's kind of hard to avoid the hugs and kisses on a daily basis where I live. coffee

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Guest
Posted: Friday, May 21, 2010 8:07:41 PM

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Depends on what type of kissing you mean. If it's on a cheek it's usually a greeting. But if you are getting full on tongue lashing lip smacking kisses..I would consider that cheating. lol.
dirtyoleman
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 2:52:38 PM

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Depends on who it is and what part of the body she is kissing.
Shibui
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 3:18:31 PM

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I agree with Syd. If the kiss is without my knowledge, it's cheating. If I know, it's HOT.
realz
Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 5:33:57 PM

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A kiss? come on, why the hell are people so freakin jealous????

things happen. I certainly wouldn't begrudge her a kiss.
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Posted: Thursday, June 23, 2011 7:50:05 PM

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It depends on the circumstances. Everyone can have moments of weakness (especially when alcohol is involved), no matter how strong their relationship is.
It is certainly a forgivable offense, but it could be an indication of bigger problems in the relationship.

However, I've always considered "cheating" to mean sexual intercourse, or a prolonged intimate relationship.

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WorkAlone
Posted: Friday, June 24, 2011 8:10:31 AM

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Cheating is doing anything outside of the understood relationship boudaries. If we're exclusive then a kiss (beyond a friendly or social one, of course) is cheating. If we're open, then it's only cheating if she's out of bounds, like doing it without my knowledge or with someone I don't know about or is otherwise not allowed, etc. If we're not exclusive, then no harm, no foul.

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Magical_felix
Posted: Friday, June 24, 2011 10:54:03 AM

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DamonX wrote:
I think people spend too much time worrying about what constitutes "cheating". Whatever your exact definition may be, just ask yourself "Would my significant other not want me to be doing this?" If the answer is yes, then it can be defined as cheating (if such a definition is even required). In general, most women will be opposed to having you show romantic affection to another woman, and the more affection/contact the worse it is. Think of it as a spectrum rather than a distinct cut-off point.


This is a great answer and exactly the way I feel. It all depends on what you know will piss off your partner. Some women would consider sending another woman un-flirty text messages that are meant to get that other woman's attention somehow as cheating. Everyone has different standards on this and it's up to the couple to figure that out.



master117
Posted: Thursday, August 04, 2011 9:17:17 AM

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Magical_felix wrote:
DamonX wrote:
I think people spend too much time worrying about what constitutes "cheating". Whatever your exact definition may be, just ask yourself "Would my significant other not want me to be doing this?" If the answer is yes, then it can be defined as cheating (if such a definition is even required). In general, most women will be opposed to having you show romantic affection to another woman, and the more affection/contact the worse it is. Think of it as a spectrum rather than a distinct cut-off point.


This is a great answer and exactly the way I feel. It all depends on what you know will piss off your partner. Some women would consider sending another woman un-flirty text messages that are meant to get that other woman's attention somehow as cheating. Everyone has different standards on this and it's up to the couple to figure that out.


Agreed. There's not much more I can add to this, but I'd never want my significant other to be kissing anyone else, so this would fall in the 'definitely cheating' category for me.
realz
Posted: Friday, August 05, 2011 4:37:48 AM

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I sure wouldn't be that upset about a kiss.
Guest
Posted: Friday, August 05, 2011 7:28:38 AM

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there are some levels of cheating. Kissing is not at higher level, but not at lower level too. I don't think it is so innocent
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