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Guys, would you tell your partner if she was rubbish during sex, or let her get on with it not wanting to hurt her feelings?
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Everyone is different and I wouldn't judge her. If it was that bad, I just wouldn't get in bed with her again.
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I would just try to guide to her to do things so I would like them and let her know when she was doing it right.
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Sex. S E X?
I faintly recall that word. Had a faintly nice connotation to it once.....vague memories....
And here I am without a dictionary.
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I've encountered this before. I'd tell her, but in a careful nurturing kind of way - and then slowly introduce new things, that's the way to go. She actually had a psychological problem with a couple of things we managed to work through. Now she knows she's a dirty birdie and deserves to be tied to the bed and taken any way I desire  Opps, I'll get my coat on the way out 
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Don't you dare leave yet, Plow. You've got a fine lass tied to the bed to take care of!
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mrplow wrote:I'd tell her, but in a careful nurturing kind of way - and then slowly introduce new things, that's the way to go. She actually had a psychological problem with a couple of things we managed to work through. Now she knows she's a dirty birdie and deserves to be tied to the bed and taken any way I desire  ...........nice plow....
~z~"Where words fail, music speaks..."
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I met a girl who had a rubbish fetish and I wrote her a story... but now I read these posts and I see you are talking about something else.
I definitely would not tell her - do unto others and that stuff. I would go along with Zafia's comment and work through something we both enjoyed, then move to something edgy and perverted when she gets more comfortable. It pays to be versatile and have an open mind too *wink*
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Rubbish fetish Josef? lol.
Welcome to the nut house.
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 ...LOL!
~z~"Where words fail, music speaks..."
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I would not say anything. I would try and teach her without her knowledge if possible. Tell her what I would like her to do to me. At the same time ask her what she likes.
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I'd zip up and point to the door.
Ha-ha, no I wouldn't. I'd leave her to it and spare her feelings, of course I'd try and get her to improve. Depending what her weak area is depends what I'd do to try and help her improve.
CuriousJayUK -
CuriousJay means that I have a few things, some concerning certain taboos, I am curious about. Not that I am bi-curious.
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