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Ladies,
If your boyfriend could only have one of the four what would it be?
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lol, we have so many great guys around, why should we bother with some ugly ones? ;) I'd prefer to live with a dildo than to meet a person who doesn't match my looks & smartness expectations. Money and cock size are secondary things for me. 
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He didn't give you ladies much to choose from there. If I were asked to vote, 'fraid I would have to abstain.
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the first one cause $$ can fix the other ones.
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LOL@Lush
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Natalia wrote:lol, we have so many great guys around, why should we bother with some ugly ones? ;) I'd prefer to live with a dildo than to meet a person who doesn't match my looks & smartness expectations. Money and cock size are secondary things for me. The reason I asked this question is because I see so many hot women with guys who are not very good looking (according to other women) so I wonder what they had. Money or size. Thanks to everyone who responded. Lush great site. Just starting to get more involved than just reading the stories.
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chefkathleen wrote:the first one cause $$ can fix the other ones. and, we have a winner. way to think out of the box, sister!
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Natalia wrote:lol, we have so many great guys around, why should we bother with some ugly ones? ;) I'd prefer to live with a dildo than to meet a person who doesn't match my looks & smartness expectations. Money and cock size are secondary things for me. THANK YOU!!!!..... 
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Chase wrote:He didn't give you ladies much to choose from there. If I were asked to vote, 'fraid I would have to abstain. Gonna have to agree with you there Chase!
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fireman wrote:
The reason I asked this question is because I see so many hot women with guys who are not very good looking (according to other women) so I wonder what they had. Money or size. Thanks to everyone who responded. Lush great site. Just starting to get more involved than just reading the stories.
Oh, I understand now. Then again, I am not sure these golddiggers deserve to be called women over the sweet name "cum bags." But when someone's ugly, it doesn't yet mean he doesn't have other values; once I was seeing (uh, he was even my bf...) a guy who wasn't hot at all, but exceptionally smart (and he had money, but it was irrelevant since once he didn't want to *lend* me 30$ at the end of the month knowing I would give it back after a few days; well, he was a German, what else to expect... it was the only time I asked a guy for money - in my whole life). His knowledge impressed me and I felt a bit stupid when I was with him, gotta admit. Anyway that relationship had to fail since I dated him only to make love of my life freaking jealous (pathetic, I know).
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Let me know when you have such a need again?
(Blocking out all of next year in my black book with pencil....)
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Most MILLIONS of dollars, tiny cock, fat body, ugly Fat are work-a-holics, geeky, nerdy etc. As long as you do your women duty every so often, you can hirer a tennis coach, or gym instructor etc to help keep you FIT! Very FIT!!
Also, you less likely find competition for your fat body man if you keep your women duty. If he cheats on you, Nasty divorce.
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fireman wrote:Ladies,
If your boyfriend could only have one of the four what would it be? You missed out the thing women crave most in their Men .....Power
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DBarclay wrote:fireman wrote:Ladies,
If your boyfriend could only have one of the four what would it be? You missed out the thing women crave most in their Men .....Power Would that be "staying power"?? Sorry DB, but I don't crave Power (unless you're talking behind closed doors...LOL). I need my man to understand me, love me, and treat me how I want to be treated. And he does..
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techgoddess wrote:Would that be "staying power"?? Sorry DB, but I don't crave Power (unless you're talking behind closed doors...LOL). I need my man to understand me, love me, and treat me how I want to be treated. And he does.. Well said. That'd be my choice, too, if it was on the poll. I'd rather be single than choose one of the options that are there!
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LOL..They all say that ....
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DBarclay wrote:LOL..They all say that .... One thing you should know about me is that I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I am sure you've never met a woman like me. I don't categorize well.... ~~Tech
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techgoddess wrote:DBarclay wrote:LOL..They all say that .... One thing you should know about me is that I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I am sure you've never met a woman like me. I don't categorize well.... ~~Tech LOL..They all say that as well ...
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DBarclay wrote:techgoddess wrote:DBarclay wrote:LOL..They all say that .... One thing you should know about me is that I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I am sure you've never met a woman like me. I don't categorize well.... ~~Tech LOL..They all say that as well ... Wow...you must know lots of women to be able to make that kind of general statement...or maybe very few.
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DBarclay wrote:
LOL..They all say that as well ...
do you pay them extra to say that?
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Juliasari wrote:DBarclay wrote:
LOL..They all say that as well ...
do you pay them extra to say that? High five lia! 
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techgoddess wrote:DBarclay wrote:techgoddess wrote:DBarclay wrote:LOL..They all say that .... One thing you should know about me is that I say what I mean and I mean what I say. But I am sure you've never met a woman like me. I don't categorize well.... ~~Tech LOL..They all say that as well ... Wow...you must know lots of women to be able to make that kind of general statement...or maybe very few. Well of course there are a few exceptions... you must be one of the few ...
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Tech I agree...... 
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Zafia wrote:Tech I agree...... Thanks sweetie!
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DBarclay wrote:LOL..They all say that .... Ha! Yeah, but many of us are telling the truth when we say that. That's the thing about generalisations - they don't apply to everyone.
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DB, I would say that men don't crave the power over a woman, but that a woman likes to be led sometimes. They like to see that authority displayed ; they like to know their man is confident yet also of equal stature. Maybe that sounds contradictory and I don't explain things well sometimes.
That's just my opinion, anyway.
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Very well stated Roc.....
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roccotool wrote:DB, I would say that men don't crave the power over a woman, but that a woman likes to be led sometimes. They like to see that authority displayed ; they like to know their man is confident yet also of equal stature. Maybe that sounds contradictory and I don't explain things well sometimes.
That's just my opinion, anyway. Sounds like you said it just fine.
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I"d participate in the poll, but there are not any choices that are appealing
I'll take the average looking guy with an average cock that has passion sensitivity. Holds a decent Job and does not need to be wealthy
A guy that knows how to make me feel special. Most important His honesty with me. I'm attracted to active guys. I doubt they will be too much over weight
I want a guy that is not a couch potato, but active enjoys doing things together. Sharing and trusting is not bought by money.
Naturally if his looks are above average and cock length, I will not be complaining, if he possess the other qualities I desire
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Quote:but that a woman likes to be led sometimes You know men and women are fundamentally different. We're supposed to want different things. It's not bad to want a man to be more powerful than I woman. That's how we're made. It's a good thing.
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roccotool wrote:DB, I would say that men don't crave the power over a woman, but that a woman likes to be led sometimes. They like to see that authority displayed ; they like to know their man is confident yet also of equal stature. Maybe that sounds contradictory and I don't explain things well sometimes.
That's just my opinion, anyway. It sounds better explained like that. It's strength and confidence I look for in a man, not power. I like that he's bigger and stronger than me, and I also like seeing that strength displayed. When DB mentioned that women crave power, I probably misunderstood him, but I immediately thought of money, success, being with someone for what they can provide finanancially.
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sweet_escape wrote:[quote=roccotool]
When DB mentioned that women crave power, I probably misunderstood him, but I immediately thought of money, success, being with someone for what they can provide finanancially. I actually said: What women crave most in their Men .....Power Meaning women find men with power an attraction
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As the "Mrs Brown" thread explained, which I think Chef posted originally (?) women like to see confidence and assertiveness in men - not control freaks or men who demean them. Mutual respect. We are different, and people who try to erase the differences, or the women who drop their femininity to become like men are missing out, foolish, and discarding or missing some of the spice in life.
Women do not want men who are going to butt in and try to fix, rectify or solve their every problem, or tell them how to manage things or resolve their concerns. They just want to be listened to, heard out, to feel some empathy, compassion, or to have their man's understanding as to their heart, thoughts, fears and stresses.
We men are often prone to wanting to fix things, resolve them here and now, and make things right, setting things straight, and be done with them. Women generally want to work things out, ease things around, and work it a whole different way, or let the other party come to a realization on their own, with some nudging or clues.
I am sure there are other areas equally demonstrative of our differences, but the key thing is to recognize, allow for, appreciate and celebrate those things.
In bed being a good place to start....with those other differences!
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Wow! I can't believe I am agreeing with you Chase....but there you have it.....very well stated.....
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Chase wrote:As the "Mrs Brown" thread explained, which I think Chef posted originally (?) women like to see confidence and assertiveness in men - not control freaks or men who demean them. Mutual respect. We are different, and people who try to erase the differences, or the women who drop their femininity to become like men are missing out, foolish, and discarding or missing some of the spice in life.
Women do not want men who are going to butt in and try to fix, rectify or solve their every problem, or tell them how to manage things or resolve their concerns. They just want to be listened to, heard out, to feel some empathy, compassion, or to have their man's understanding as to their heart, thoughts, fears and stresses.
We men are often prone to wanting to fix things, resolve them here and now, and make things right, setting things straight, and be done with them. Women generally want to work things out, ease things around, and work it a whole different way, or let the other party come to a realization on their own, with some nudging or clues.
I am sure there are other areas equally demonstrative of our differences, but the key thing is to recognize, allow for, appreciate and celebrate those things.
In bed being a good place to start....with those other differences!
Exactly!
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Chase wrote:As the "Mrs Brown" thread explained, which I think Chef posted originally (?) women like to see confidence and assertiveness in men - not control freaks or men who demean them. Mutual respect. We are different, and people who try to erase the differences, or the women who drop their femininity to become like men are missing out, foolish, and discarding or missing some of the spice in life.
Women do not want men who are going to butt in and try to fix, rectify or solve their every problem, or tell them how to manage things or resolve their concerns. They just want to be listened to, heard out, to feel some empathy, compassion, or to have their man's understanding as to their heart, thoughts, fears and stresses.
We men are often prone to wanting to fix things, resolve them here and now, and make things right, setting things straight, and be done with them. Women generally want to work things out, ease things around, and work it a whole different way, or let the other party come to a realization on their own, with some nudging or clues.
I am sure there are other areas equally demonstrative of our differences, but the key thing is to recognize, allow for, appreciate and celebrate those things.
In bed being a good place to start....with those other differences!
As a woman who is on the verge of leaving a control freak I completely agree with you on this.
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damn. i can't choose. lol i'll mix an match! Big cock, millions of dollars great body and handsome! =P
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mcaudill08 wrote:damn. i can't choose. lol i'll mix an match! Big cock, millions of dollars great body and handsome! =P LMAO...come on choose only one
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