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Depends on the intent of the kiss. I like kissing my friends, and no, not just a peck on the lips, but a nice sensual kiss. It's not meant to lead to sex, its just my way of telling them i love them. In that context, it's certainly not cheating. Now, on the other hand, if it's followed by hot, naked, sweaty sex, then i'd have to call it cheating.
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WHR43 wrote:May be I am way off base, but a kiss is certainly not cheating from the view of my husband and I.
Nor is having sex with someone in the spur of the moment for strickly the pleasure of sex!
The one unforegivable act of cheating is fall in love with another. Unless it is up front and both are fully aware what is happening.
Fall in love with another and I am out the door, with no chance of reconcilations!!!! Wow..thats interesting.........but yeah if my man ever kissed another girl then he'd know about it!
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I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
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Concretus wrote:I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. 
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WellMadeMale wrote:Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. LOL, that's not enough for me. I'm not kissing ANYBODY that I'm not really attracted to. Concretus said it right, and its been brought up before. Kissing, for me anyway- and I don't think I'm alone- is more intimate than it probably seems to a lot of guys. I'll do a lot of things before I consider kissing a guy. Kissing means it's real.
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A kiss is but a kiss. I don't think the act alone is cheating. Sure he'd have a lot of explaining to do, but it wouldn't be cheating.
It would definitely depend on circumstance.
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WellMadeMale wrote:Concretus wrote:I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.
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LadyX wrote:WellMadeMale wrote:Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. LOL, that's not enough for me. I'm not kissing ANYBODY that I'm not really attracted to. Concretus said it right, and its been brought up before. Kissing, for me anyway- and I don't think I'm alone- is more intimate than it probably seems to a lot of guys. I'll do a lot of things before I consider kissing a guy. Kissing means it's real. Holding hands can be intimate and real.. eye contact can be intimate and real.. the intent of the act is what makes it intimate and real.. a kiss is a privilege.. an intimate kiss is a privilege and a promise... is it cheating? depends on the intent...
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chefkathleen wrote:WellMadeMale wrote:Concretus wrote:I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way. You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum....
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BigRod wrote:chefkathleen wrote:
I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way.
You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum.... LOL @ BigRod. Chef's right though, not uncommon for entertainers and escorts to steer way clear of kissing customers.
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BigRod wrote:chefkathleen wrote:WellMadeMale wrote:Concretus wrote:I once had a friend who was not exactly a hooker, but she gave blowjobs and handjobs for money. We were once discussing what she does with customers and she would never kiss on the lips. She told me that whenever she is with a "customer" and they try to kiss her, she would simply put her neck in the way and take it there, she wouldn't let them kiss her lips. I dont understand the logic very well, but I guess a kiss for women means a lot of emotions that she doesn't have for the guy, she just wants to do what she does and get her money??
Wow, she missed out on a real money making opportunity there. I'd say that kissing is worth another $50 usd, (with tongue - $100). I am aware that mouths are a bit dirtier than cocks...'sometimes'. I've been told a lot of hookers/pros feel this way. You talk to hookers/pros? I usually keep actual conversation to a minimum.... I have known one or two. And yes, they did tell me you were quiet and that your real name is John.
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Apart from being a loaded question, in which case a kiss would be considered cheating but in certain circumstances then I think that a kiss can be seen as a indication of respect and mutual affection. Even a passionate kiss can be just that, an expression of ones feelings. The actions after that are what decided if you are cheating or not.
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ShaniceHaughton85 wrote:WHR43 wrote:May be I am way off base, but a kiss is certainly not cheating from the view of my husband and I.
Nor is having sex with someone in the spur of the moment for strickly the pleasure of sex!
The one unforegivable act of cheating is fall in love with another. Unless it is up front and both are fully aware what is happening.
Fall in love with another and I am out the door, with no chance of reconcilations!!!! Wow..thats interesting.........but yeah if my man ever kissed another girl then he'd know about it! A kiss on the cheek in my opinion is not cheating but a full on tongue tickler would be cheating in my books. As to having sex with someonein the spur of the moment, if that is not cheating than I don't know what is.
"Hey, don't knock masturbation! It's sex with someone I love." Woody Allen"I am willing to admit that I may not always be right, but I am never wrong." Samuel Goldwyn
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If it's a serious kiss, you know deep mind numbing, then yes well you unless you didn't expect it. If it's just a quick peck on the lips, you know dad to daughter, grandpa to his daughter, granddaughter, or friend, well no.
Well that's just my opinion, sorry if you don't like.
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Yes, no ifs or buts. The only exception would be if it was a 3sum and your partner was there.
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I think it's interesting that lots of people say if their partner kisses someone of the same sex they don't consider it cheating.
If they were honest about it, I would be hurt but we could work through it. However some trust was broken there. It might take time to get over it.
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A kiss is cheating unless it's;
1) His mom or sister.
2) it's on the cheek and he's French
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