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It's 4 a.m, the telephone rings and at the other end of the line is the drunken voice of this ex saying he loves you...would you find it romantic?
Please say yes,please,please,please,LOL.
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Boyfriend yes, ex, no Depends really on who the ex was, why we broke up, how much i hated him etc
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hmmm ... good question.
There is only one guy that I'd stop myself before saying ... fuck off.
Nah, it wouldn't happen - I changed my cell number to stop those calls!! lol
good luck Javier!!
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This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic.
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SweetPenny wrote:This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic. did you say yes?
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I wouldn't find it romantic. I'd probably just laugh and find it amusing. I don't take anything said while drunk or high very seriously, to be honest... If you called her sober (or did a follow-up sober call) expressing similar sentiments then I think you're starting to approach something that could be seen as romantic if she still has feelings for you.
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It would probably be better advised to not call anyone after midnight and before their normal time of awakening (provided you knew them well enough to know their nocturnal habits). Try singing the Stevie Wonder song to them, when you are sober. That was always a good ploy for me. Might get you laid again, I mean...as far as rekindling a relationship, not so much.
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It wouldn't make me want him/her any more than before. Afterall there must be a reason why we arent together anymore in the first place and some drunken rant is not gonna change that. Might be kind of amusing though, lol.
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LadyX wrote:SweetPenny wrote:This actually happened to me once, only he asked me to marry him. I didn't find it very romantic. did you say yes? HA! I think I said something along the lines of "Leave me alone, you drunk idiot!"
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I am sorry.. but no. I would find it stalker-ish.
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LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!
Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol
Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion.
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My ex on the phone saying I love you, omg no way ha ha
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no. in fact, with most of my exes, it would result in my getting my phone number changed (yet again!) :p
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Dancing_Doll wrote:I wouldn't find it romantic. I'd probably just laugh and find it amusing.
I don't take anything said while drunk or high very seriously, to be honest...
If you called her sober (or did a follow-up sober call) expressing similar sentiments then I think you're starting to approach something that could be seen as romantic if she still has feelings for you. Oh Little Sister,
I can't believe you said that!
If he is drunk or high and calls, I would not give it any value either.
But if he calls sober to tell me he still love me or you and does not have the balls to come and express his feeling in person. l would give it no more value than a drunks call in the middle of the night.
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Butterfly wrote:LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!
Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol
Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion. You maybe out of the dating scene, but even if you have been married for years, you should never be out of the wooing stage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I love musical moments but that song is pure cheese...I'd wonder if they were or high or drunk or something...and then I'd laugh my ass off over it
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This reminds me of one of my favorite songs........You never call me when you're sober. You only want it 'cause it's over.
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Been there done that recently thoughts of a restraining order come to mind!
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Ex + Drunk= No
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waking me drunk to say i love you... kiss my ass
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Having an ex call me at four in the morning in any condition, drunk or sober, wouldn't be romantic. There's a reason he's an ex. Calling me drunk at four am would be a reason to make him an ex.
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WHR43 wrote:Butterfly wrote:LOL, WMM...no kidding, man!
Pleeeeease don't call me at that hour of the morning drunken and wanting to be all sappy, I get up in another hour or so...could you kindly wait til then??!! lol
Seriously though, I've been out of the whole dating/wooing/I think I love you scene for quite some time...so I can't really give a proper response here lol. Just saying...ffs 3 or 4 am is quite early for that kind of stuff, especially if the caller is inhebriated or otherwise 'high'. Unless one is used to being awake at those hours of the morning and also knows that the person they're calling is too..then hey, have at it! Otherwise wait til you're sober and call at a decent wake up time, that would leave a better impression, in my opinion. You maybe out of the dating scene, but even if you have been married for years, you should never be out of the wooing stage!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Point well taken :). I suppose I could have left that particular verbiage out of the mix lol. We still woooooo each other...just not as much as we used to. Hmm...actually, I think I'll check out of here now and go do some wooing ;-P
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w00t! 
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next to rousing his conscience, is - not to give him things
to think about, but to wake things up that are in him...
to make him think things for himself - George MacDonald
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WellMadeMale wrote:w00t! Hey now! Wooing is not making whoopie! (oh my, flashbacks of old school Newlywed Game reruns haha). Although the wooing helps lol, spontaneous massages work well :).
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I'd probably tell him to call me back at a reasonable hour if he still felt that was sober
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I'm rather cranky when I wake up, and I've slept four hours at most by then. Not the best of times to call me. I'd probably answer tell him to go blow himself and hang up.
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