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Do you like spanking/being spanked during sex? Do you do it as foreplay or when?
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I haven't bee able to indulge this very often, but I'd really love to do it more. I prefer handing it out. I like to use it as foreplay, but some well placed, and well timed, smacks during is great too. It's difficult to do very well during sex in most positions though. If it's going to be a really well put together spanking, I think it's got to be the primary focus at that momet. Not to say it can't be part of the whole event though, lol.
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Yup, any time, usually during foreplay when i'm sucking him off. Not too hard though, i'm not into the pain thing and if it hurts i'm likely to stop
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yes I love being spanked...it's a recent addiction...during and before sex..
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What Lois said.
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I like to slap and squeeze, especially in the face down, ass up positions :)
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Loislane wrote:yes I love being spanked...it's a recent addiction...during and before sex.. Yeah, Lois, tell why you love it - please.  My wife recently started asking me to spank her before and sometimes during sex. Caught me off-guard but really seemed to work her up - not sure I'm too keen on it yet though!!! I have big strong hands! 
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Knight, afterwards when your cuddling and maybe chatting, ask her about it. Find out what she likes about it. It may just be the big strong hands she's after!
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To answer both your questions...its a bit like waxing..it hurts initially but then the endorphins flow and it becomes pleasurable...I can't explain it better than that I'm sorry...I love it when I'm riding his cock and he smacks me and my pussy contracts around his cock...before I like it as foreplay...a few practised smacks makes my pussy hot and wet...AND even better a few slaps on the vagina (OHMYGOD...I can't explain how good that feels).I guess I'm just a bad girl who needs to be punished lol...It just adds to the sexual experience I think...
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You get off a bit on waxing too??? Hmm.. interesting. No, not just interesting, that's one HELL of a story concept. Getting all hot and bothered during a full waxing, including bikini zone. I can see that in the Lesbian category or in Straight sex depeding on who's giving and/or recieving the waxing.
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Yes, it sets the right mood,,,,,,,,about 10 good spanks with a paddle about the size of a ping pong paddle,,,,,,,makes her ass,,,,nice and crimmson red, very tender, and her juices flowing down both of her inter tighs. Love making from behind is extra special, with the right mood.
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Oh yes spank my naughty pussy baby and your ass is MINE!
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I've been the ass slap "giver" until my last girlfriend thought it was only fair that I received some of this kind of pleasure as well. We both enjoyed it and got to know how far we could go. She REALLY enjoyed a few slaps on her pussy and even a face slap or two if we were a bit out of control.
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I know I like it!
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As long as I trusted the person....I'd be more than willing....I do know the idea of being spanked turns me on BIG TIME....
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I love it when my partner spanks me from behind. I do it to him as well when we are doing missionary.
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The harder the better
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Yes please, foreplay, during and after, as hard as she can please!
And, at any time during the day or night, I find it a turn on.
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A firm smack on the ass both giving and receiving can def be a turn on...
A EX used to like her pussy smacked while i was giving her oral. She always told me that the moment right before her orgasm would start was the perfect time to do it. She said that it heightened the experience for her.
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I had fantasies about my pussy being spanked, but that hasn't happened,YET but my ass has and I agree I don't like it when he spanks to hard, its painful and makes the desire fade fast. 
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I love it! But I definitely prefer it as foreplay. Spanking during sex doesn't do as much for me. During sex, I prefer to focus on other sensations.
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Love it before during and after. Discovered how much I liked it when a lover playfully smacked my arse on his way out. I shook it at him and he did it again.. then again... and we both enjoyed it so much he stayed another hour to indulge. I love being smacked until my cheeks are red, hot and stinging, and the way the sensation lingers for hours to remind me of what I had been doing. Yum!
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Only tried it once! therefore keeping an open mind .........
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yes please
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It is wonderful. I love the feelings after being spanked--the tingles and the warmth.
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Calitrader wrote:Yes, it sets the right mood,,,,,,,,about 10 good spanks with a paddle about the size of a ping pong paddle,,,,,,,makes her ass,,,,nice and crimmson red, very tender, and her juices flowing down both of her inter tighs. Love making from behind is extra special, with the right mood. Oh man!!!! I would spank you so hard for not using commas correctly, and then I would teach you about the use of ellipsis. You would never forget the lesson, and probably loooooveeeee ittttt!!!!!! 
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Oh yes please. I like to be spanked when having sex, it's such a turn on with dirty talking in my ear at the same time. Don't like to be spanked as foreplay. But, A gentle naughty slap on my bum while I'm walking around the house, may just get me in the mood for sex!
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Depends on the guy I'm with. As far as what does it for me, well, some things are just not predictable.
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Love to spank depending on the cargo in the back of the bus. Love to see the ripple effect from hand to the small of the back.
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oh HELL YES
whether im on top, or on 4s, spanking can be the difference between a real good orgasm and a nuclear one!
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