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Okay guys, I've come up with a question.
If your partner is a virgin, and has an intact hymen, what do you do to make sure that things go well for her other than lube? I'm curious as to what others do. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but I was wondering what you other guys have done.
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This relates very much to another thread = foreplay ie, FOREPLAY !! It is all about desire, readiness, passion.............yeah, and lots of lub.
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take things easy at first until she feels ready for more. One step at a time, but it all depends on the woman , some feel pain , some don't
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AgaruTomo wrote:Okay guys, I've come up with a question.
If your partner is a virgin, and has an intact hymen, what do you do to make sure that things go well for her other than lube? I'm curious as to what others do. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but I was wondering what you other guys have done. First: Look for the red flashing lights and the men with the handcuffs because it won't be long before they are here...."and coming to take me away!" Second: Get the hell out of bed and run as fast as I can the other direction....because "Homy don't do jail bait!"
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Jason9035 wrote:AgaruTomo wrote:Okay guys, I've come up with a question.
If your partner is a virgin, and has an intact hymen, what do you do to make sure that things go well for her other than lube? I'm curious as to what others do. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but I was wondering what you other guys have done. First: Look for the red flashing lights and the men with the handcuffs because it won't be long before they are here...."and coming to take me away!" Second: Get the hell out of bed and run as fast as I can the other direction....because "Homy don't do jail bait!" Why do you assume that a virgin must be jailbait? Just curious.
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I have been around women's high school athletics for quite a while and have been amazed at how the conversations have changed and what the girls feel is exceptable about doing sexually...without getting into great detail the percentage is quite low of girls that make it through high school with their hymen intact. My opinion comes from a percentage standpoint...obviously not an absolute.
I made it through HS without loosing my virginity because I was scared of making babies...heavy petting and necking and that was it...no BJ's and didn't even get to rub a clit a little bit so it can be done, remaining a virgin. Thank goodness for college...made up for lost opportunities.
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I was moving my dick near her pussy lips. ..I didn't even push it in and she was yelling... :S I was like honey I didn't even put it in ... and then I push it slowly and she was like... oh it didn't hurt too much...
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My high school sweetheart and my two marriages have been virginous and I didn't do anything I just busted through it.
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Never met a girl with one before, I think they are a myth.
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Primal wrote:Never met a girl with one before, I think they are a myth. I totally agree if you are even modestly physically active it think it breaks on it's own. I know I didn't have one at all. Sex has never hurt from the get go.
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 Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!
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Alright ladies...who has known she had a hymen and who is like Bunny and clueless..(or unaware might be a better statement). Personally, I've never deflowered a young virgin. Am I missing anything? I think not.
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i had one..i am sure of it. broke it though wayyy before i ever had sex. im like bunny have loved sex from the word go.
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My hymen was broken a few years before I had sex, but my first sex was still terrible and painful. And it took the guy half an hour just to get all the way in!
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Been with 2.....didn't seem to bother the first one, but the other was really painful apparently. Tears falling and all, sobbing "It's ok, just don't move".
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I found that with most, it was just a case of a lot of foreplay and using their natural lube to ease it in.
Lot's of wine help too!
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It's her hyman let her set the pace. It seems to me she will know what feels best and only she should control the timing.
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Popping it quickly then sucking on her in various places seems to have worked. So, distraction. And ps the benefit is it's as tight as anal!
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Was with several virgins (started early) and it's all about pace. Take your time, lots of foreplay, start with one finger, work slowly up to a good size, make sure she's well lubricated, make sure she's relaxed (wine or other intoxicants may help I guess), let the pussy want it. Other than that, it's pretty much just slowly working it in. I usually had several fingering sessions first. When she could take two fingers easily, three when warmed up, I could start thinking about 'the main event'. I think too many guys go for the gold the first time they get a chance and it doesn't go well. Had a few bleed on my fingers but it wasn't the big rip that would have occurred if I jammed something bigger in there. I think most girls these days have broken theirs before they become sexually active.
Never saw the crying that people talk about and think that'd be so sad to see. Can't imagine seeing a girl crying in pain while I was having sex with her. :(
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never been with a virgin
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